Vyolet:


A woman should learn to do those chores for herself and not for a man,no time to please anyone

This is the only point I got from your post which is exactly the topic of the thread.
Other points you raised are arguments for another day (e.g women hustle more than men these days). Lol

You are the one who brought gender into it. When someone opens a thread specifically for female you don't start bringing in the male side of it and vice versa.

We know there are male problems and you can create a thread for that too.

The topic simply states why a lady should be at that age and cannot do any simple house hold chores. But you jumped in started saying duty is not gender specific and bla bla bla.

naijaboiy:

This is the only point I got from your post which is exactly the topic of the thread.
Other points you raised are arguments for another day (e.g women hustle more than men these days). Lol

You are the one who brought gender into it. When someone opens a thread specifically for female you don't start bringing in the male side of it and vice versa.

We know there are male problems and you can create a thread for that too.

The topic simply states why a lady should be at that age and cannot do any simple house hold chores. But you jumped in started saying duty is not gender specific and bla bla bla.

Vyolet:

Nah
Read well and get the post. It reads and I quote " at the age of 25,you cannot cook,sweep,wash clothes and you want MEN to love you for who you are,sister please who are you?"
Now is the post gender specific or not? It is always aimed at bashing the ladies,we all know the intention. I didn't just bring in the gender thing,it was right there staring at you according to the intention of the post.
If it was about the lady alone,then the MEN part shouldn't have been included.
"at the age of 25,you cannot cook,sweep,wash clothes,learn to ne useful for yourself"

Ok

Vyolet:
If she cannot do any of those,why not do them yourself? Is any duty gender specific?

stanisbaratheon:



if you're one of those girls that thinks the financial burden should be on the man alone, then i really don't see any reason for your gender sentiment here.

Vyolet:

In the first place,how can a woman depend on her man fully for financial support?

Vyolet:

Show me a rule book that makes house chores a woman's duty while providing money for the house should be for the man alone.

Now you meant to say,a woman should sit home all day and do chores,fulltime housewife right? While the man alone goes out to bring in food. Lazy mentality. Everyone should work and be useful.

A man wants his woman to work and provide money too and yet expect her to get back home to do chores while he sits and lazy around in the name of watching tv.

HizMissy:


at 29 u dnt have a job, ur parents still feed u and u still club every weekend.
yet u want a girl to love you for who u r....
bros who r u?

cyprianlah:
Please answer o,cause I don't understand

cyprianlah:


I am the handmaid of the lord

See u, u carry weavon for 9months, SISTER na pregnancy

HizMissy:


at 29 u dnt have a job, ur parents still feed u and u still club every weekend.
yet u want a girl to love you for who u r....
bros who r u?

graciousolo:

Gosh! I'm in love with you. your intellectual capacity,your
constructive argument,your ideology bout gender...

I wish everybody can think likewise.
Be self sustaining. be independent minded. Then you'll be attractive to people and you can always help out If need be.

loving you joor.





*modified *
Are you kidding me....
she didn't put up a pic. now I'm Sure ur smart.

Vyolet:

This is the major grouse with men,feeling a particular duty should be meant for the woman,anyone can take up any duty,it doesn't make you lose your manhood neither will the woman's breast change from her chest.
If she cannot do any of those,then do them yourself.
Everyone claims to be independent and yet they are quick to place a particular duty on a gender.
I mentioned gender here because I foundations that post absurd. What happens to saying a human at 25 should know how to do all those chores be it a man or a woman. Are the men meant to lazy around? You al need to make yourselves useful.

cyprianlah:


I am the handmaid of the lord

Who are you

HizMissy:


where u see d weavon? r u hallucinating?mtchew

kristina1:
#following
i smell fp

Vyolet:

This is the major grouse with men,feeling a particular duty should be meant for the woman,anyone can take up any duty,it doesn't make you lose your manhood neither will the woman's breast change from her chest.
If she cannot do any of those,then do them yourself.
Everyone claims to be independent and yet they are quick to place a particular duty on a gender.
I mentioned gender here because I found that post absurd. What happens to saying a human at 25 should know how to do all those chores be it a man or a woman. Are the men meant to lazy around? You al need to make yourselves useful.

Vyolet:

This is the major grouse with men,feeling a particular duty should be meant for the woman,anyone can take up any duty,it doesn't make you lose your manhood neither will the woman's breast change from her chest.
If she cannot do any of those,then do them yourself.
Everyone claims to be independent and yet they are quick to place a particular duty on a gender.
I mentioned gender here because I found that post absurd. What happens to saying a human at 25 should know how to do all those chores be it a man or a woman. Are the men meant to lazy around? You al need to make yourselves useful.

HizMissy:


at 29 u dnt have a job, ur parents still feed u and u still club every weekend.
yet u want a girl to love you for who u r....
bros who r u?

Vyolet:
If she cannot do any of those,why not do them yourself? Is any duty gender specific?

HizMissy:


at 29 u dnt have a job, ur parents still feed u and u still club every weekend.
yet u want a girl to love you for who u r....
bros who r u?

hahn:


Create another thread for this

HizMissy:


i seriously do not have d stamina to withstand comments from nairalanders

Vyolet:

Be creative and argue intellectually, incase you do not get my point,lemme break it down.

The fact that you are a man isn't enough criteria to be dependent on a woman for house chores,do them yourself.

A woman should learn to do those chores for herself and not for a man,no time to please anyone.

A woman should be useful for herself by having a means of sustenance. If a man doesn't provide for her,she will surely provide for herself. Women are hustling and according to statistics and base on my personal experience,women hustle more than men these days and it is has even gone beyond 50/50,it is now 70/30 in favour of the woman.
Now with this statistics,a man still expect the chores to be a woman's job?
My dear,anyone can assume any duty. Your woman can work while you work and you can both share the chores as well. No one should feel funky all cos he is called a 'man'

Nneka123:
mitceew, i read it well, okay! , i just hate the fact that they keep objectifying the women more on this section

Tashaamania:


its always been like that..
Peeps creating these sorta threads have had their lives frustrated by a woman, thats what I think