Hi folks! I have this challenge and I feel I should share with like minds for suggestions. Every time I have conflict with my wife, she says somethings that make me feel what on earth will make her say them all be it to score a point, but what pains me is what she says are unreasonable and it pains me so much and some times unbearable.. How can I curtail or handle it?

Dear OP,

Please give specific examples

Yes pls be a lil more specific if you want NLders to help you

Be more specific

We are not mindreaders neither are we witnesses so give us more info.

smh

.....For instance, she is pregnant and gradually getting due for delivery, I travelled out of town for a job, i know her as someone who likes to eat much and somehow tells her to reduce her intake of food, for her good, she feels I am been wicked, doctor exermines her and tells her baby is getting to big in the womb, she somehow relates to me, and I again caution her, women don't like to be blamed. She angry with me that I am selfish.... How am I selfish? I don't know... That kind of problem...

Come is there a conspiracy on N/land to portray us women as gluttons who can`t have enough of food

You get mind oh, arguing with a pregnant woman, chai she will roll you and eat you oh lol.

There are better loving ways to tell her that than argue with her, buy more of fruits and vegetables, less of processed meats and fish more of fresh ones and local poultr. Sadly a pregnant woman who has cravings hardly acts rationally she can go and hide and eat what she wants to eat

I truly trust and appreciate Nairand family! Grateful for your comments.