judedwriter:
Sex is a mystery; we can never fully understand sex because God created it for his own purpose. The purpose of God for sex is for enjoyment, intimacy and reproduction in marriage. Take sex out of marriage and you are not rebelling against God's purpose for sex but you are destroying his destiny for your life. Nothing kills destiny faster than sex outside marriage; don't let sexual pleasures deceive you-any type of sex outside marriage will surely demote your destiny, if not now, later. The only narrow way out is REPENTANCE. And that is one thing God can't do for you-goodluck

What marriage? does it include polygamous marriage? if not, why? Another thing, does this your understanding of sex take into cognisance the believe of all religions in the world? or does it only address Christians; which in any case is less than one third of the World population? If it addresses only one third of the World population, are you going to then conclude that the remaining remaining 70% of the world who may not even be constrained by your sex logic are living with dying destiny?

EndtimeBlessing:


What marriage? does it include polygamous marriage? if not, why? Another thing, does this your understanding of sex take into cognisance the believe of all religions in the world? or does it only address Christians; which in any case is less than one third of the World population? If it addresses only one third of the World population, are you going to then conclude that the remaining remaining 70% of the world who may not even be constrained by your sex logic are living with dying destiny?

Do not waste your time ,those who spout such ideas do not believe in logic or debate. They believe what they believe and are not open to discussion

scobaba:
With ur grammatical error...u have a bigger problem than ashi.

if only you have listen to Nigerian billionaires speak then your broken and lousy brain will understand that ENGLISH language will never put food on your table.

BokoHaramm:
if only you have listen to Nigerian billionaires speak then your broken and lousy brain will understand that ENGLISH language will never put food on your table.

shey ds one normal so?

which nkoro are u coming out from?

oya no go school na, with the hope say u go be billionaire.

jona relative.

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MizMyColi:


Pardon my intrusion please, but, by "telling" do you mean the current situation of things or the positive words?

If it helps........
You could add stuffs in these lines to your confession.

I am helped.
I am a man of value.
I no longer disrespect my body.
Henceforth I refuse to engage in any form of mumu project.
All my lost virtues can and will be recovered.
I break myself free from any spell or voodoo.
All I see and All I know in my life is God's glory, his light and his love.

^^^ Whatever positive words you choose to say, please repeat them until they're internalized.

And please, if after discussing with us here, you find yourself in the wrong again, don't feel bad nor condemn yourself for long, just rise, dust your bum and keep on.

Be like that chain smoker who even while she smoked heavily, kept telling herself that she can do better, that she is not a chain smoker.
Today she's free!
That can and will be your portion too (the freedom part, I mean).

Ok thank you

Sex is beautiful gift from God. You enjoy it when you are in a fulfilling relationship. Get a life boy,get into a serious relationship and be content and committed in it,then ur life will be fun, and not flirty.

brotherly,reading d whole bible and praying in greek or latin doesn't change anytin...d best u can do is to kip away frm such environments,get busy wit more importants finz in life dat wud develop ur future and den start finking of settling dwn wit a decent woman insteading of prostituting ur self arnd prostitutes....wishing u success if u trully wanna change tho

scobaba:



shey ds one normal so?

which nkoro are u coming out from?

oya no go school na, with the hope say u go be billionaire.

jona relative.

I'm coming from otu nne gi nkoro

Kei144:
Once you go sleeping with prostitutes, you catch libido demon. The demon begins to control you. Reading Bible and listening to word of God does not cast out any demon; it requires real spiritual warfare.

Hey dem don invent another one again libido demon so u wanna tell me dat all porn stars have libido demon....abi....foool

Iyineda:


Happy for you if you believe that. But I don't.
Life isn't that straight forward. To each their own.

Hell is very real; if u play with sexual sins, u dey head there o! I re-admit that repentance is d only way out its painful but its the only way.

omonnakoda:
What do you know about life and destiny. That is the problem we have in Africa too much superstition and very little analysis. Yes everyone is entitled to their opinions but let us not pass off stupid opinions as some kind of divine injunctions
Hear him "having sex outside marriage will demote your destiny" . What percentage of the world does not have sex outside marriage?
If you put 10000 Nigerian adults in a room how many will you find that have not had sex outside marriage . ??

What is destiny ,exactly
Why are human beings such hypocrites.See the number of likes. How many of those have not had sex outside marriage
Is sexual indiscretion worse than stealing or robbery ? What about those people who go to a village and take a small child and enslave her in the name of house girl while their children enjoy the best lives and then they go and sit in the best seats in church on Sunday.
The issue here is the OP is not at peace with his conscience and so his actions need to change BUT we all do not have the same conscience structure. let me repeat we all do not have the same conscience structure. What this means is simple some people can enjoy prostitutes without a qualm or a pang of guilt whatsoever. This may be difficult for some to understand but is a fact. The ultimate spirituality is to be at peace with your conscience not some meaningless injunctions. If your conscience does not allow it stop otherwise Ma jaiye ori e

Fact is a lot of people suffer from anxiety or depressive disorders and use sex as a MOOD REGULATOR similar to alcohol or cigarettes. When the mood dips or they feel tension they turn to sex for a dopamine boost which is accompanied by euphoria and as that dips the mood crashes and then enter a vicious cycle of compulsive behaviour. That same cycle will continue even if married as long as it is being used in this way and for that purpose. Once you get understanding of that you have to develop healthy ways of mood regulation the best of which for many is physical activity. This is a simple psychological problem but not easy.Simple meaning a non-complex mechanism. Not easy meaning difficult to change habits.
We are creatures of habit and to change habits you must develop new ones.Nothing to do with God or gods. Breaking habits requires understanding of the neurobiology and neuropsychology of habits which are simply learnt behaviours just like driving.Once learnt they are difficult to unlearn but this can be and has been achieved severally both by the "godly" and the "ungodly"

My friend don't let sexual pleasure deceive u. Each time u practice sex outside marriage u attract demons and curses into your life. This is why many find it difficult to progress and do well in life. Belive it or not destiny is a spiritual thing and it can easily b manipulated by demons if u live a reckless sexual life. U will b far from God's best for your life-repentance as painful as it seems, is d only way out. Its hard but not impossible

judedwriter:

My friend don't let sexual pleasure deceive u. Each time u practice sex outside marriage u attract demons and curses into your life. This is why many find it difficult to progress and do well in life. Believe it or not destiny is a spiritual thing and it can easily b manipulated by demons if u live a reckless sexual life. U will b far from God's best for your life-repentance as painful as it seems, is d only way out. Its hard but not impossible

My friend please you need to control yourself and learn social etiquette. Not everyone believes in god or your version of it.Not everyone believes in demons .It is people like you with this kind of attitude that provoke religious violence with your bigoted view points. Rather than engage in debate you seek to bulldoze your STUPID ideas through with a sense of superiority.In your eyes your ideas make sense but to me they are moronic.What do you mean by spiritual ,,exactly? What does that mean?

omonnakoda:


My friend please you need to control yourself and learn social etiquette. Not everyone believes in god or your version of it.Not everyone believes in demons .It is people like you with this kind of attitude that provoke religious violence with your bigoted view points. Rather than engage in debate you seek to bulldoze your STUPID ideas through with a sense of superiority.In your eyes your ideas make sense but to me they are moronic.What do you mean by spiritual ,,exactly? What does that mean?

U seem to me to an atheist or idol worshipper; anyways, I pray God has mercy on you as he had when I erred in this crucial matter.

judedwriter:

U seem to me to an atheist or idol worshipper; anyways, I pray God has mercy on you as he had when I erred in this crucial matter.

You seem to me like an idio.t. I mean that as a matter of fact not an insult.Honestly you are not very intelligent and not capable of productive thinking

omonnakoda:

You seem to me like an idio.t. I mean that as a matter of fact not an insult.Honestly you are not very intelligent and not capable of productive thinking

Wow! what a compliment! Thank u! I don't mind being called a fool for speaking the mind of God

judedwriter:

Wow! what a compliment! Thank u! I don't mind being called a fool for speaking the mind of God

And you know you speak the mind of God How??

omonnakoda:
And you know you speak the mind of God How??

If you know God, u will know how I speak his mind. So I assume u don't know him. *praying* lord have mercy on this fellow and reveal yourself to him, amen. *THREAD CLOSED* I want to sleep joor

Meet ur pastor 4 deliverance.

omonnakoda:
And you know you speak the mind of God How??

If you know God, u will know how I speak his mind. So I assume u don't know him. *praying* lord have mercy on this fellow and reveal yourself to him, amen. I want to sleep joor

judedwriter:

If you know God, u will know how I speak his mind. So I assume u don't know him. *praying* lord have mercy on this fellow and reveal yourself to him, amen. I want to sleep joor

You need Largactil

omonnakoda:
You need Largactil

*Searches dictionary* ha! Dats big grammar o! Lol my friend go sleep, e don do.

poweredcom:
@op u ra mugun....you no fit count the numbers of ashewo I don nak..n still counting..as for me I see all women as the. same....its just that ashewo own na instant bargain and ashewos are. thebest every I ave banged many like a porn star any style bj Group Intimacy orgy...haha #allgirlsnaashewo jare...u tink beeing ashewo is judge by operating in a hotel na lie...gals these hustle from home and social media's and many girls aree joinin the ashewo party cos of hardship...single mums also..ave naked many and notin can stop me...ashewos r d best



Olboy asshewos r d cleanest I beg ave been nakin many since 9yrs now no disease...I beg dey r much cleaner dan babes...always use ur cd well

you just put some bad thoughts into my head

With this ur post, am sure u really want to repent..
Repentance isn't dat easy..

guy, dont blame yourself, you have done nothing wrong by visiting brothels, all this girls commenting here, most are pretenders, acting like saints, they will never admit that they do have it rough with their boyfriend all the time during sexxxxxz more than the so called prostitutes. most prostitutes will never have sexz without condoms, but girls of nowadays especially the students in tertiary institutions are no better off than prostitutes. they do have incredible sexxz ,mostly orals, living couples life , yeah we know all that. even the so called housewives.my advice .you should have your reasons for visiting brothel .it save you more, you dont spend much, and you stay safe,its safer. if you are in a relationship,do the math, girls have so much problems you have to deal with.when you are ready to settle down, just start a relationship, thats all.

Op, I don't know why you bother yourself over mundane things; sex is natural and u being active means u are healthy; the only issue is that u shouldn't form it as a habit; as long as u r not married and not in any single relationship, as a full grown man, there is nothing wrong with patronising hookers once in aa while, so u don't go around raping women.

And for those of u christian fanatics who says having sex destroys destiny, pls cry me a river,na poverty dey disturb una, I don't really know whaats is wrong with you nigerian christians, u attach fear and spirituality to everything. In europe, where I lived for some time, sex is a leisure activity and is normal, and yet those people still achieve whatever ðεƔ want to achieve in life.

So o.p, enjoy your life b4 u get married, life is very short. Don't mind all those fanatics trying to make u fEel guilty, if the gods didn't want us to satisfy our urges, he shouldn't have given us sexual tools. I have said my own as an elder on nairaland, am outta here.

One last bullet, even ordinary b0rn2fuck that's has slept with over 500 prostitutes and still counting, is suceeding as a businessman and has built 1room and a parlor in one of these villages outside lagos; so whaat r d chirstian fanatics here talking about

Bros make ah tee yhu d'u trut, Na honly yhu fii hep yorseff o. chikina!

Since u urself brougjt the idea of castration..im in total support of it..like d bible said if ur hand will make u sin,cut it off,,so bros,if ur THING will make u sin,,CASTRATION is the way.

kennygee:
He should visit any MFM for deliverance or take off the part of his body that is guilty.



But seriously, he needs prayers and deliverance.

unilorin things abi?

If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out.

neyur:


Abeg your opinion don't just read.

e hard oh..e d conji hold u..just do ds tins...hangout wit friends or read bible or find something to keep u company..dat works all d tym

LaRoyalHighness:
Makes the sign of cross and exit thread.

na only u holy pass?,abeg never u come back..