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My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 1:51pm On Feb 01, 2015
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Drsnives(m): 1:56pm On Feb 01, 2015
mod, do the needful.. i neva marry.#spreads mat#

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 1:58pm On Feb 01, 2015
We could help sha grin

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by carbon1224(m): 2:02pm On Feb 01, 2015
sit him down and explain to me.there are different stuff that will make him stay longer and i am sure he knows what to do. one more time STOP USING TOO MUCH MAGGIE TO COOK FOR HIM AND REDUCE THE SUGAR INTAKE FOR HIM AS WELL.
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by mdokaba1(m): 2:03pm On Feb 01, 2015
I think you can talk this over with him in a polite and playful manner, and possibly get him to start dieting on bitter kola, its therapeutical. That's what I use as a booster.
Thank me later.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:05pm On Feb 01, 2015
carbon1224:
sit him down and explain to me.there are different stuff that will make him stay longer and i am sure he knows what to do. one more time STOP USING TOO MUCH MAGGIE TO COOK FOR HIM AND REDUCE THE SUGAR INTAKE FOR HIM AS WELL.


lol, i ensure i use little quantity of seasoning and he doesn't really take sugary things.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by alberto2k(m): 2:06pm On Feb 01, 2015
iceberylin:
We could help sha grin

Cheating is not an option she said undecided

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:07pm On Feb 01, 2015
eskober:
R u just finding out that he doesn't satisfy u? Useless story shift abeg

We courted for some months before getting married. He is a complete man, my kind of complete man, this is only issue i have with him and its a solvable issue. You don't expect me to reject is marriage proposal because of sex

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:08pm On Feb 01, 2015
mdokaba1:
I fink u can talk this over with him in a polite and playful manner, and possibly get him to start dieting on bitter kola, its therapeutical. That's wot I use as a booster.
Thank me later.

Pls kindly elaborate on the bitter kola thing.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance
wink
tell him to stop eating too much sugar and he will last long for bed with u wink

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 2:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
Talk things over with him thank God u guys are married.with politness i think he wil understand and would try to last longer.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 2:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
alberto2k:


Cheating is not an option she said undecided
Did i mention cheating undecided

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by temitemi1(m): 2:10pm On Feb 01, 2015
Tell him to reduce the intake of sugary stuff n increase the intake of clean water... Is rightly working for me grin grin grin

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by prettyjo(f): 2:12pm On Feb 01, 2015
dear sis
I understand your plight .
1)you should open up to him,tell him how you feel and mind your choice of words wen doing that so that he won't lose his self confidence.
2)teach him,let him know how best to satisfy you.Its your right to enjoy sex.Teach him the act of pre-intimacy,with this you can reach orgasm as much as you want before the actual Penetration :you both can also watch pornography movies together.
3)the third cause of this might be his lifestyle especially in dietary aspect.he may not be getting the right food or nutrition. also Check the way he consumes sugar.
4)it might also be a psychological problem,prepare his mind and make him to be at rest.Anxiety can cause quick eruption.

all the best

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Rikidony(m): 2:14pm On Feb 01, 2015
WALK AROUND NA.KED IN THE ROOM TO ENABLE HIM GET TURN ON AND FINALLY LET HIM MA.STUBATE BEFORE THE MAIN ACTION. GOODLUCK IN ADVANCE cool

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:14pm On Feb 01, 2015
temitemi1:
Tell him to reduce the intake of sugary stuff n increase the intake of clean water... Is rightly working for me grin grin grin

@lefulefu

He hardly take sweet things. He abstain from adding sugar to foods that doesn't necessarily need it eg yam. He is a water freak. He drinks loads of water.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by alberto2k(m): 2:17pm On Feb 01, 2015
iceberylin:

Did i mention cheating undecided

And what do u mean by "we can help u sha "? undecided

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 2:18pm On Feb 01, 2015
alberto2k:


And what do u mean by "we can help u sha "? undecided
With advice grin

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:20pm On Feb 01, 2015
prettyjo:
dear sis
I understand your plight .
1)you should open up to him,tell him how you feel and mind your choice of words wen doing that so that he won't lose his self confidence.
2)teach him,let him know how best to satisfy you.Its your right to enjoy sex.Teach him the act of pre-intimacy,with this you can reach orgasm as much as you want before the actual Penetration :you both can also watch pornography movies together.
3)the third cause of this might be his lifestyle especially in dietary aspect.he may not be getting the right food or nutrition. also Check the way he consumes sugar.
4)it might also be a psychological problem,prepare his mind and make him to be at rest.Anxiety can cause quick eruption.

all the best

dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 01, 2015
olodo
alberto2k:


And what do u mean by "we can help u sha "? undecided

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pumacy(f): 2:22pm On Feb 01, 2015
Rikidony:
WALK AROUND NA.KED IN THE ROOM TO ENABLE HIM GET TURN ON AND FINALLY LET HIM MA.STUBATE BEFORE THE MAIN ACTION. GOODLUCK IN ADVANCE cool

Its not about turning him on. He enjoys making love with him even if i have my cloths on, he would remove it one after the other but the issue is him lasting long.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by alberto2k(m): 2:23pm On Feb 01, 2015
iceberylin:

With advice grin

Icey dey advice person ni ? undecided

Na only bashing u sabi cheesy

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by alberto2k(m): 2:23pm On Feb 01, 2015
samflexxy:
olodo

Jonathan grin

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Rikidony(m): 2:25pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


Its not about turning him on. He enjoys making love with him even if i have my cloths on, he would remove it one after the other but the issue is him lasting long.
HE NEEDS ERADIPLUS THEN angry angry

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by commanderquash: 2:25pm On Feb 01, 2015
As you have rightly said, it's a solvable issue.. The thing is that, it's the man that can solve the issue himself, firstly, he needs to know that he isn't satisfying u coz he doesn't last long, secondly he needs to take it upon himself to improve, i hope u are getting me, i mean he needs to have the mind set to prolong the duration for at least 10mins....Naturally, men aren't designed to last long but a man can last long if he have the will power to do so following simple techniques..... Let me ask a question here, have you discussed the issue with him and made him see reason with u?

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by iceberylin(m): 2:27pm On Feb 01, 2015
alberto2k:


Icey dey advice person ni ? undecided

Na only bashing u sabi cheesy

Its sunday bro grin

WE don beef on Sunday z wink

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by prettyjo(f): 2:29pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.
I Dont believe in medicinal herbs unless its from a certified company,but how long will you dwell on that?
why not try watching pornography together,he will learn a lot from there.
lastly encourage him and Dont make him feel less of a man

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by asadike(f): 2:31pm On Feb 01, 2015
Discuss it with him, then get him to practice kegel excercise. It helps men very well.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by temitemi1(m): 2:31pm On Feb 01, 2015
He needs to be thinking abt other things when u guys are making love
pumacy:


@lefulefu

He hardly take sweet things. He abstain from adding sugar to foods that doesn't necessarily need it eg yam. He is a water freak. He drinks loads of water.

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by alberto2k(m): 2:32pm On Feb 01, 2015
iceberylin:

Its sunday bro grin

WE don beef on Sunday z wink

I guess u finally went to church this year grin

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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by commanderquash: 2:32pm On Feb 01, 2015
pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.

Bananas and pineapple will surely help, get him to eat this on daily basis for two weeks and see the magic coupled with some techniques, i bet u will always push him away or beg him to even ejaculate....

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