pumacy:


We courted for some months before getting married. He is a complete man, my kind of complete man, this is only issue i have with him and its a solvable issue. You don't expect me to reject is marriage proposal because of sex

what are you saying......was it sex after marriage or you tested it and still went ahead ?


If it's the latter, why are you complaining? If it's the former why are you still complaining. ..you chose not to test drive

Ur husband has pile , jedijedi he need a medical advice and good herbal mixture inbox me for more details

So this actually exist....while my bae always pleads for me to cum after after she must had cummed like 4 times......sometimes I dnt even cum atall when we use condom...she thinnks I dnt really love her

pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

sexyseun:
Are you trying to write us a Porn?

Nope am just helpin a sister in need,with my own experience.

notoriousbabe:
tramadol has serious side effects o. Applies to tramadol: oral capsule extended release, oral suspension, oral tablet, oral tablet disintegrating, oral tablet extended release

As well as its needed effects, tramadol may cause unwanted side effects that require medical attention.

If any of the following side effects occur while taking tramadol, check with your doctor immediately:

Less common or rare
Abdominal or stomach fullness
abnormal or decreased touch sensation
blisters under the skin
bloating
blood in the urine
blood pressure increased
blurred vision
change in walking and balance
chest pain or discomfort
chills
convulsions (seizures)
darkened urine
difficult urination
dizziness or lightheadedness when getting up from a lying or sitting position
fainting
fast heartbeat
frequent urge to urinate
gaseous abdominal or stomach pain
heart rate increased
indigestion
irregular heartbeat
loss of memory
numbness and tingling of the face, fingers, or toes
numbness, tingling, pain, or weakness in the hands or feet
pain in the arms, legs, or lower back, especially pain in the calves or heels upon exertion
pain or discomfort in the arms, jaw, back, or neck
pains in the stomach, side, or abdomen, possibly radiating to the back
pale bluish-colored or cold hands or feet
recurrent fever
seeing, hearing, or feeling things that are not there
severe cramping
severe nausea
severe redness, swelling, and itching of the skin
shortness of breath
sweats
trembling and shaking of the hands or feet
trouble performing routine tasks
weak or absent pulses in the legs
yellow eyes or skin

. Chisos!!

sexyseun:
Yes o.. that's the way i like it!!!!

wish u were ma gurl...we cud mk a perfect match

o i better appewciate my hubby then cos when we do it, for a week i get butterfly in my stomach. I give that to him, he gives me joy when im surfing that good good. I thank God we are both very young I have many more years to chop with no repentance

The same tramadol that I took and started hallucinating is the same drug people use at random for recrational purposes
People should think of their livers and kidneys
Every drug is a potential poison.

alberto2k:


Jonathan

Oboy u dey vex o............

temitemi1:
Tell him to reduce the intake of sugary stuff n increase the intake of clean water... Is rightly working for me

Its not all abt sugar. I take a lot of sugar and I still last for an hour. U know why? Cos I know d sex positions dat make me last longer

sexyseun:
Joking? which part?

na gurls lyk u go dey mk mouth.
i sabi una type...

seun oh...enu o shey oh..

pumacy:


We courted for some months before getting married. He is a complete man, my kind of complete man, this is only issue i have with him and its a solvable issue. You don't expect me to reject is marriage proposal because of sex

try d original kegel exercise......mind u...d pelvic region is nt always relaxed wyl on d missionary style.....u should try oda stuffs like doggGGGy...touch ur toe...anaconda...back to front......tinx like dat like dat....or should i continue.......or lemme just say SEX POSITION MATTERS.

pumacy:


I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours.

I missed this....and this is the essence of your concern. I now say the problem lies with you and this your expectation cannot... yes ....cannot be met. You know that porn stars be popping pills to maintain.....but it seems like you don't know a man can't go naturally for hours.....plus you are expecting him to be on standby for whenever you feel like it. Men are wired differently from women....some women can go on naturally for hours....not men. Maybe you had men who maintained for hours.....pumped up with viagra or whatever but lied to you and said it's their nature......and this caused you to expect the same from your husband. If you can't face reality....then sooner rather than later your marriage would be on the rocks. Just don't get pregnant before you seriously work this out.

sexyseun:
Try and make him relax before the main thing, pre-intimacy is most essential, learn how to stroke his D, suck his D, caress him very well, look into his eyes while you suck him, With this he's P should be erect very well like rock of olumo, during the copulation, learn how to make him pause for a while when he's jerking, you can gently shift your V away from his D so that he can pause for a while, engage him with lots of kisses then, bite on his nipples then continueeee.. once he's about to come or coming, push your groin against his, let him know you enjoy him so much. immediately after he come, engage him again with kisses and stroke his D again..



If you still can't understand all these steps, Allow me to have him for just a Day

pausing for a while??........letim take OSHOMO PLUS OGIDIGA

pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

Your husband needs to spend more time with pre-intimacy. Most women need about 20 minutes to even achieve orgasm with penetration. He can give you orgasms without perpetration then get his three minutes of fun after

temitemi1:
Tell him to reduce the intake of sugary stuff n increase the intake of clean water... Is rightly working for me

First time I am not seeing 'GEJ till 2019' from you.

Send me an email here jamesoylk@gmail.com. I'll tell you about a pill you can buy over the counter that will make him last and even go into overtime. i'll also send you a link to a medical journal that published a research on using the said pill to treat premature ejaculation. I and my friends that use this pill have never had an orgasm while it is still in our system( it lasts for 3 days). I literallly go onnnnnn till i cant anymo. I have to have sex without it to be able to have an orgasm. Only side effect is initial tiredness. So ideally, he'll use it b4 bed and sleep it off, ready for 3 days of action. No jokes here.

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This lady is not the only one with this problem.
Many marriages suffer from sexual non-satisfaction mostly due to the male factor.
Many who commented here mere ly made remarks that do not pass for solutions - the lady wants solutions.
By not lasting beyond 3 minutes could mean early physical exhaustion or ejaculating too early.
I tend to think it is early ejaculation.
If your husband is not on any medication that reduces libido or physical strength and eats regular food like any other person, he should be fine.

Here are my recipes:

1. It is all in the mind - do not be carried away by the pleasure, control it. Your man should learn to take his mind off the pleasure
when it starts to build up towards orgasm. How, you may ask? Do simple arithmetic, think of a problem you need to solve and try solving it.
This will reduce the drive in the direction of ejaculation.
Take your mind back to the `business` when the sensation requires boosting.

2. Materials, materials, materials.....
Incidentally, parents do not teach how to sleep with a woman or man to their kids. They pick up the art along the line.
Resource materials abound in magazines, novels, videos, etc. Explore them.

3. pre-intimacy and the female body....
Many women attain the height of pleasure through pre-intimacy.
Although you may discuss or suggest to your husband how to satisfy you, much of the discoveries are for the man to make by himself.

4. Timing....
Lovemaking requires energy and physical exertion. One will not get the best from a tired individual.
The setting also counts. The atmosphere needs to be relaxed and enough time available. The more festive, the better.


Here are some of the things that turn women on:

*Playing with their clitoris - easy guys, don't be rough - with the fingers or tongue.
*Massaging their back and neck down toward the - you know what I mean?
*Stroking the thighs - if you grab and pinch, it will be painful.
*The ear is very sensitive. You can use your tongue on it.
*Don't forget the toes. Tickle them with your mouth/tongue.
*Notice that I did not mention the nipples in the beginning. Nipple stimulation alone hardly elicits responses in the beginning.

Many women are afraid to bring up issues like this for discussion with their men because they are afraid it may backfire.
Your husband may be happy to listen to your concerns and be willing to learn/improve.

Guys, this is my humble submission.
In this matter, one cannot know it all. What works for you?

well, if u are based in lagos, nd u re serious about doing something about your husband case. Email me at Careerfirst45@gmail.com. Your husband is having some erectile dysfunction. So he need help? Some advice on lifestyle, food and supplement will do d trick. Drug and Herb will distory his erection be careful.....

pumacy:


dear, thanks for the above steps

Frankly i have spoken with him and he got medicinal herbs but it didn't change anything, maybe he got a fake one. We engage in pre-intimacy for a long before getting into action but it can't be always like that. I actually want to enjoy the real deal with him naturally. I ensure i cook nutritional food for him vegetables and all(or is there a special kind of vegetable that can solve this). I actually want my man to be readily available at any time while we go on for hours. Its the early stage of our marriage.

Haa hours ke, you want to kill the man ni

Be careful what you wish for, when the kids start coming you won't have time for hours of sex, and your husband will start complaining that you have changed
, too much of a good thing is not good.

I suggest he take ginseng capsules and if worst comes to worst, take him for a check up, if his heart is very healthy, start sprinkling viagra into his food whenever you need a good seeing to . (Disclaimer :- make sure it's d original viagra and not fake oooo)

My dear I understand ur trouble. What u have to do is this, get him a skin to skin condom, that way u both don't feel he's even using that. But before he uses that, also get him a desensitizing spray, let him spray on his penis 10 minute before sex, just on the tip of his penis, then slide in the condom, the rest is history. Don't let him spray the desensitized without using condom, else u will be desensitized and 1. U will have a long sex but no feelings and enjoyment cos u are desensitized.

But after using the spray with condom and long lasting sex, he can take it off with soap and water, wash his penis and continue sex without condom so he can reach his ejaculation.

nsidear:
My dear I understand ur trouble. What u have to do is this, get him a skin to skin condom, that way u both don't feel he's even using that. But before he uses that, also get him a desensitizing spray, let him spray on his penis 10 minute before sex, just on the tip of his penis, then slide in the condom, the rest is history. Don't let him spray the desensitized without using condom, else u will be desensitized and 1. U will have a long sex but no feelings and enjoyment cos u are desensitized.

But after using the spray with condom and long lasting sex, he can take it off with soap and water, wash his penis and continue sex without condom so he can reach his ejaculation.

Let us know when u try. If u need additional info, post and will respond.

carbon1224:
sit him down and explain to me.there are different stuff that will make him stay longer and i am sure he knows what to do. one more time STOP USING TOO MUCH MAGGIE TO COOK FOR HIM AND REDUCE THE SUGAR INTAKE FOR HIM AS WELL.

Groundnut, banana, red meat suya, lacasara and alomo can help him before the action.

Discuss with your husband, talk to him, so that the two of u come up with a solution instead of coming to social media saying ur personal problem. Not good enough

Whenever he's pumping fast like he's about to get there, look him in the eyes and tell him 'Don't even think about it!' *in my wife's voice* And watch stay on you all night.

Takn enough liquid can do much n eatn vegetalbe like ewedu

Rikidony:
WALK AROUND NA.KED IN THE ROOM TO ENABLE HIM GET TURN ON AND FINALLY LET HIM MA.STUBATE BEFORE THE MAIN ACTION. GOODLUCK IN ADVANCE

And I hope your bobby is still standing (strong and sound) while walking around naked else you kill his morale entirely

Ask him to use sasun oil, its a desensitizer, just follow the mode of operation on the leaflet, he will beg to cum.
It is sold in most chemists

pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

@op i quite understand how u feel, its ur right to enjoy sexual intimacy in ur marriage. Let me teach u what works for me, 1 alcohol intake 2 bottles of stout it does magic, 2 engage him in pre-intimacy before d Maine penetration he should totally remove his mind from sex and think about another thing, 3 advice him to use skin to skin condom