This is an observation I have made. It may seems baseless to you but in my mind i am right about this. I have been around different couples from different countries and i have made a conclusion. I have seen happy couples in love and unhappy and tolerating couples. Alot of married couples in Nigeria seem to be sooooo unhappy! And i mean alot!!!!!...I know unhappy couples are everywhere but in nigeria...its a bit different because of the way they put up with each other. When i see them in public gathering or when i have a conversation with them about each other or something, I just don't feel the love there and some don't even try to fake it. It certainly feels like they tolerate each other! Maybe I just understand and experience love differently!! If i ever get married, I just don't ever want to be like that. What do you think? Insults are welcomed.

I want to experience love differently. I mean holding hands in public, even on bad days we make effort to make things right, evening walks, quality time as couples, renewing vows and so much more.

.............sometime they get sick of each other. Seeing the same man/woman everyday for years, the same shape,eyes,lips etc

falconey:
.............sometime they get sick of each other. Seeing the same man/woman everyday for years, the same shape,eyes,lips etc

so get a divorce! Life is too short to remain unhappy! I have cousins, friends and more that inspired this post.