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Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by uscofield: 9:20am On Feb 06, 2015 |
I am 32 years old, single, working, have a car but go to work with the staff bus, no serious plans on marriage yet but have female friends. My father died last year 2014, and ever before his death, he insisted I live in his house (Built by him) since I am his only son. Now that he is dead, I am thinking of leaving the house for my mum and younger sisters (who are also in the same house at the moment) to occupy. I feel that I am not able to do some things as I am on constant watch of my mum (you know what it means to be only son). Do you think my choice of leaving the house built by my father for a rented apartment is wise? Please, do not insult me, I know I am not the only one in this shoe. You candid advise is needed. |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by zyzxx(m): 9:22am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Pls let me think sir |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by elantraceey(f): 9:23am On Feb 06, 2015 |
You can save up your supposed rent and use it to start up your own house since you're not ready to get married , it's better to park into your own house than a rented apartment. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by ammyluv2002(f): 9:26am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Hmmm....dicey situation. Maybe you should stay for now since you're not ready to get married yet |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by Abduletudaye(m): 9:26am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Hmm...that's your family house...you will still have to move out to have yours..its still yours tho but you will have to move out when the time is right.. Your mum will have no choice than to just let you go.. That's life bro.. I hope I have contributed positively. |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by cyprianlah(m): 9:28am On Feb 06, 2015 |
elantraceey: I love dis girl Pure wife material, u af brain jare Back2dTopic: ur dad told u to stay in his house, he most have had a reason, u stayin der dosent mean ur nt gonna build ur own house, jst hangin der for d main time 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by Pheals(f): 9:31am On Feb 06, 2015 |
He is too tall-nt my type am richer dan him- nt my type he is nt humble-nt my type he is nt religious-nt my type he is tu short-nt my type he is a womanizer-nt my type- that is how aunty funke clock 30+ in his father's house |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by Pheals(f): 9:33am On Feb 06, 2015 |
SHe is too tall-nt my type she is a liability- nt my type she is nt humble-nt my type she is nt religious-nt my type she is tu short-nt my type she is a prostitue'-nt my type- that is how bro kunle clock + in his father's house |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by elantraceey(f): 9:35am On Feb 06, 2015 |
cyprianlah: Tanchu |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by ifex370(m): 9:52am On Feb 06, 2015 |
cyprianlah: wife material abi... why conclude so quickly |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by cyprianlah(m): 12:17pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
ifex370: By her advice, u wil knw she is a material |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by jnrprof(m): 12:22pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
@32, its totally your call to move out of your dad's house. As a man who's doing well financially, its not even expected that you'll still be in your father's house at this age. So if you feel moving out will give you the space you need to get certain things done, by all means, find your way out. Btw, based on your dad's expectations from you, are you supposed to get married and brig your wife to live with you in the family house? |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by Specialist900(m): 12:32pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
jnrprof:perfect response. Op. Go move out already, staying there impedes you. Even if it means renting a house. You and I know you won't stay there forever. Ofcourse you must always remember to go check your mum |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by MrHighSea: 3:14pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Guy, STAY IN THAT HOUSE. U rep d family. Take k of ur Mum, as in make the house comfortable (renovation, installation, maintainance and her up-keep even if she z working). Build urs witout rushing. IF U OPT OUT, U'LL SPEND x3. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by ifex370(m): 3:45pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
elantraceey: Hmmmmm.... |
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