There is this lady I love so much up till now. We have been dating for almost two years until she decided to call it quits last week monday despite all my pleas. She said she loves me too but she can't continue due to her past lifestyle which she later revealed to me. I still love her despite her past and her flaws. The problem I am having is that she still wants us to be friends and I don't know how to keep friendship with exs. Please what should I do? No insult please, matured advice only.

Maybe she still need u h as ATM or to kill boredom


maybe

Please shed more light on the past lifestyle... It's important.

Simply walk away and never look back, its obvious she wants to go back to her past life. Dnt let her friend zone u

Kingsasian:
There is this lady I love so much up till now. We have been dating for almost two years until she decided to call it quits last week monday despite all my pleas. She said she loves me too but she can't continue due to her past lifestyle which she later revealed to me. I still love her despite her past and her flaws. The problem I am having is that she still wants us to be friends and I don't know how to keep friendship with exs. Please what should I do? No insult please, matured advice only.

The issue was past lifestyle.
You have no problem with that.
So what's the issue?

It hurts, I can relate with that but:

I think you're lucky she's straight up with you. Resiprocate the gesture by letting her know your problem which is your inability to maintain friendships with exes.
Whatever comes out of it becomes your "should do".


Disclaimer: I'm no love doc.

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Maybe she's seen someone that will do what you might not want to do for now

OracleMxNelson:
Please shed more light on the past lifestyle... It's important.

Hahahahaha...... Dis guy go like amebo gan o

Start by telling us about her past lifestyle.

Yeah! U two should be friends while she dates another dude leaving U with the confusion of I still love her, we can still be together instead of U casting ur net into the river again to catch a fish with better past lifestyles .

What you should do is not be friends with her, if you don't want to. duh! no one is holding you

Op, av u bin able 2 yansh her?

If not, take dis as an opportunity 2 initiate frnds with benefits

Thank me later

She is just trying to use the friendship to appease her conscience for breaking up with you. If you are not comfortable with it, don't be friends, make she find her friends go far.

my gf will tell me he likes other guys but still want me to have sex with her abi i go just try forget the love Bleep the day out of her

sunnydayasaba:
Simply walk away and never look back, its obvious she wants to go back to her past life. Dnt let her friend zone u

exactly wat I hv in mind

OracleMxNelson:
Please shed more light on the past lifestyle... It's important.

its not necessary

Expressions:

The issue was past lifestyle.
You have no problem with that.
So what's the issue?

It hurts, I can relate with that but:

I think you're lucky she's straight up with you. Resiprocate the gesture by letting her know your problem which is your inability to maintain friendships with exes.
Whatever comes out of it becomes your "should do".


Disclaimer: I'm no love doc.

I hv already told her but she still insists that I let her go while we still maintain friendship

passionate88:
Maybe she's seen someone that will do what you might not want to do for now

hmmmm

ifihearam:
Start by telling us about her past lifestyle.

u go wait tire

Nneka123:
What you should do is not be friends with her, if you don't want to. duh! no one is holding you

thanks

sweettease:
She is just trying to use the friendship to appease her conscience for breaking up with you. If you are not comfortable with it, don't be friends, make she find her friends go far.

exactly wat I told her this wk that she is trying to appease me with the friendship thing. Thanks for the advice