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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 1:17am On Mar 04, 2015
fellis:
I understand that feminism advocates equal rights and equal treatment of abused victims so I totally get where some posters are coming from. Am not even gonna argue about anything.

Viva feminism and gender equality tongue


Excuse me, but no feminist, (read, no human being) will be proud of you tonight
I hope this is not the real you....or I hope you are still very young, that way it excuses your post a bit....

Cynical, jaded and without empathy...
Your posts and that of that other person were downright cruel
For what it is worth, I believe the poster, and there was no advertisement for paedophilia in his post, just brutal honesty....it is not his fault that he has good narrative skills

Thanks

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 2:15am On Mar 04, 2015
Lmao,

This is just too much.

Go outside and live your life abeg, too much staying indoors on Nl is caking your brain.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by 50calibre(m): 2:42am On Mar 04, 2015
SirShymexx:
Darn!! Smoking a big fat cohiba and zoot with the lads, somewhere far from home. Decided to peep NL - and holy moly, it's sholly and some decent chics speaking up for men. Who would have thought that would happen on this miserable forum, especially this section, where miserable hags hang out? - blimeyyyy!

I'm loving the new sholly - she just brought the old sholly from back in the day when I used to admire her. 50calibre, come see ya girlie, she's back. grin

I'm out - smoke inna da air.




Lol she's reincarnated again grin

It might not even be her

Shollypopzz is that you?
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by khiaa(f): 2:49am On Mar 04, 2015
ThisBoyGay:

And aren't u aware that those pedo.philes were also molested when they were young? So if you will justify his action, theirs too should be justified.



He never said he molested children, and some pedo.philes weren't victims of molestation.
Going by your moniker one would assume that you are gay and there are alot of people that think you are gay because you were molested by a man when you were a child but that doesn't mean it's true.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Tundellinium(m): 5:32am On Mar 04, 2015
francizy:
. My mum had rented an apartment at Orile Iganmu.

interesting... which street in orile iganmu do you reside?
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by logica(m): 6:21am On Mar 04, 2015
francizy:
She opened her legs and a smell filled the room.
...and that was the reason she had to turn to kids.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:43am On Mar 04, 2015
Tundellinium:


interesting... which street in orile iganmu do you reside?

Used to reside at 16, Tokosi street. If you know that street, then the tallest building there.. Tho we moved out since 2001...
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:46am On Mar 04, 2015
logica:
...and that was the reason she had to turn to kids.

I guess so. If I could forget everything about the encounter, I wouldn't forget the scent tho...
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 6:59am On Mar 04, 2015
donpeey22:
The truth is that most of us had similar experience but didn't die nor become uncontrollably promiscuous.

I got exposed to sex even at a younger age (6 yes) and by who? by my then naughty older sis.
I am sure she will feel bad now whenever she recalls those days. It's a secret which nobody else knows about till today and I wouldn't be saying it if not that this is a faceless forum.
I still love my sis because I know she was ignorant of what she did.

So, op if not the ease with which women call for the head of any male caught in such act but look the other way when a female does same, I would have said no cause for alarm.

I believe Nothing in life is a problem until you make it to be.

Wow! Yours was pretty bad tho..

Well, things have different kinds of effect on people and when I look back, I can/could relate some of my few problems with the past. Hoping on God to make me whole.

And my major prayer is, no matter what happened to me in the past, let me not sleep around with women outside my marriage.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 7:20am On Mar 04, 2015
khiaa:




He never said he molested children, and some pedo.philes weren't victims of molestation.
Going by your moniker one would assume that you are gay and there are alot of people that think you are gay because you were molested by a man when you were a child but that doesn't mean it's true.

My dear friend. Been a while. How is studies? Missed you tho..
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by jacksonlows: 7:24am On Mar 04, 2015
And the thirst for attention continues. Oh! And I can see the level of awareness created. Very impressive numbers.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 7:42am On Mar 04, 2015
Thanks to all the guys and ladies that shared their encounters. Before this post, I used to think guys who were molested as kids were very few on earth, so I was surprised that my little/harmless tale of molestation could trigger other people into writing about their own experiences.

And thanks to you ladies for having my back...

Shollypopzz
freecocoa
Evina
milychocs
Khiaa
Dyt
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by logica(m): 8:16am On Mar 04, 2015
francizy:


I guess so. If I could forget everything about the encounter, I wouldn't forget the scent tho...
Scent is nice; stench is not.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 8:21am On Mar 04, 2015
logica:
Scent is nice; stench is not.

Well, it was a grammatical error on my part tho.. Thanks for the correction
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Evina(f): 9:34am On Mar 04, 2015
francizy:
Thanks to all the guys and ladies that shared their encounters. Before this post, I used to think guys who were molested as kids were very few on earth, so I was surprised that my little/harmless tale of molestation could trigger up other people into writing about their own experiences.

And thanks to you ladies for having my back...

Shollypopzz
freecocoa
Evina
milychocs
Khiaa
Dyt


Awwww. Always welcome. wink

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by freecocoa(f): 9:40am On Mar 04, 2015
francizy:
Thanks to all the guys and ladies that shared their encounters. Before this post, I used to think guys who were molested as kids were very few on earth, so I was surprised that my little/harmless tale of molestation could trigger up other people into writing about their own experiences.

And thanks to you ladies for having my back...

Shollypopzz
freecocoa
Evina
milychocs
Khiaa
Dyt

You are welcome, just keep being happy, your story helped.wink

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by MarieSucre(f): 10:34am On Mar 04, 2015
auchomage:
haahaha....Am sure you want me to narrate my whole ordeal.
When i realised what she wanted i was quite scared, it was the first time something like dat had happened to me. I couldn't tell any one about it. She is suppose to go to Quaranic class every evening, she will take her brothers there and return home, waiting for me to return from school. Whenever i comeback from school, i always lock the door from the back...so dat she wont be able to come inside.
One evening, i returned from school as usual, ran to the bathroom cuz i was pressed. After taking the first heavy sigh and i turned my back i saw dis ogbanje girl stack naked standing at my back. She said, she was going to scream if i attempt to push her and run off. I let my guard down, i felt another stream of urine trying to come out....and it was like jet pump, i didn't hav control ova it. She bent down took my dick and drank it all......it was irritating. I didn't even know what was happening, she pushed herself on me and moan...i just stood there i can't even move..when the whole show was over...the sight of her irritates me...
There is something terribly wrong with that girl. wthhh

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by MarieSucre(f): 10:37am On Mar 04, 2015
hector:
hmmm...it is not easy for guys who hav experienced molestation to talk abt it. It can be painful or even shameful. Anyway i was a victim n i will tell my story despite the pain i feel inside.

i was a cute kid during my secondary sch days yrs ago. I moved into a boardin sch when i was age 13. I just entered into snr class that time.

In my class i was one of d youngest. I was petite n naive as well. In my hostel i met senior students who wre very fond of me. One of them later became my sch father.

Cutting the long story short, We became very close n he use to take very gud care of me becos he was frm a wealthy background. To be sincere that was the best time i had back then in sch.

One day soon after resumption for a new term. Many peopl had not not resumed, so the hostels wre largely empty. It was particularly worse in my own hostel so i had to spend the night wit him in his own hostel.

After we had taken our bath we jumped into bed n whoom..i slept off only to be awoken at some point in d night by my sch father. He was kissing my hand. Half asleep, i cud feel his tongue licking through the skin of my tommy. i came into full conciousness wen i felt his lips on mine. I smelt his breath n i awoke quickly.

i spat like twice on the floor. Disgusted, i felt my stomach rumble. A strong feeling of nausea overwhemled me. I looked up, n everywhre was dark. i cud barely see his face as i began whimpering n fuming wit anger.

I am too ashamed...i wil continue

.
Listen! you don't need to talk about it anymore. Just squeeze that memory up and throw it away... and get some counselling from a therapist coz bottling it up is detrimental. trust me.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by MarieSucre(f): 10:53am On Mar 04, 2015
donpeey22:
The truth is that most of us had similar experience but didn't die nor become uncontrollably promiscuous.

I got exposed to sex even at a younger age (6 yes) and by who? by my then naughty older sis.
I am sure she will feel bad now whenever she recalls those days. It's a secret which nobody else knows about till today and I wouldn't be saying it if not that this is a faceless forum.
I still love my sis because I know she was ignorant of what she did.

So, op if not the ease with which women call for the head of any male caught in such act but look the other way when a female does same, I would have said no cause for alarm.

I believe Nothing in life is a problem until you make it to be.
My dear molestation is molestation. If i had a son and he was a minor and i heard some older woman was taking advantage of him, i don't care how much they enjoyed themselves, that woman better start buying prison shorts and a new name. what nonsense! In this era of sexual liberality you're still molesting pre-pubescent boys.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by MarieSucre(f): 10:56am On Mar 04, 2015
fellis:
I understand that feminism advocates equal rights and equal treatment of abused victims so I totally get where some posters are coming from. Am not even gonna argue about anything.

Viva feminism and gender equality tongue
Do you even understand what feminism is? A man who is also a human like you and I. Flesh and blood. with emotions. who can hurt too. is molested and you think we should not all be concerned because men don't get hurt too? [img]
fellis:
I understand that feminism advocates equal rights and equal treatment of abused victims so I totally get where some posters are coming from. Am not even gonna argue about anything.

Viva feminism and gender equality tongue
Do you even understand what feminism is? A man who is also a human like you and I. Flesh and blood. with emotions. who can hurt too. is molested and you think we should not all be concerned because men don't get hurt too? [/img]
fellis:
I understand that feminism advocates equal rights and equal treatment of abused victims so I totally get where some posters are coming from. Am not even gonna argue about anything.

Viva feminism and gender equality tongue
Do you even understand what feminism is? A man who is also a human like you and I. Flesh and blood. with emotions. who can hurt too. is molested and you think we should not all be concerned because men don't get hurt too?

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Tundellinium(m): 11:53am On Mar 04, 2015
francizy:


Used to reside at 16, Tokosi street. If you know that street, then the tallest building there.. Tho we moved out since 2001...

I know the street very well... And that tallest building is now a school... Though I stay at Memudu...

Touching story sha...

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 12:06pm On Mar 04, 2015
hector:
hmmm...it is not easy for guys who hav experienced molestation to talk abt it. It can be painful or even shameful. Anyway i was a victim n i will tell my story despite the pain i feel inside.

i was a cute kid during my secondary sch days yrs ago. I moved into a boardin sch when i was age 13. I just entered into snr class that time.

In my class i was one of d youngest. I was petite n naive as well. In my hostel i met senior students who wre very fond of me. One of them later became my sch father.

Cutting the long story short, We became very close n he use to take very gud care of me becos he was frm a wealthy background. To be sincere that was the best time i had back then in sch.

One day soon after resumption for a new term. Many peopl had not not resumed, so the hostels wre largely empty. It was particularly worse in my own hostel so i had to spend the night wit him in his own hostel.

After we had taken our bath we jumped into bed n whoom..i slept off only to be awoken at some point in d night by my sch father. He was kissing my hand. Half asleep, i cud feel his tongue licking through the skin of my tommy. i came into full conciousness wen i felt his lips on mine. I smelt his breath n i awoke quickly.

i spat like twice on the floor. Disgusted, i felt my stomach rumble. A strong feeling of nausea overwhemled me. I looked up, n everywhre was dark. i cud barely see his face as i began whimpering n fuming wit anger.

I am too ashamed...i wil continue

.

Wow! This is damn so sad!

One reason I hate boarding schools.

I don't think I can live with same sex molestation tho and I pray a man doesn't go close to my son cuz I may be forced to murder that man!

I feel sorry for you bro. Just hoping you can get all these off your mind. If you are still feeling it that bad and you've never had an encounter with your opposite sex, my advice is you get closer to the ladies, look for one you can trust and love and open up to her. I believe she will help you get thru all these..
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by francizy(m): 12:21pm On Mar 04, 2015
Tundellinium:


I know the street very well... And that tallest building is now a school... Though I stay at Memudu...

Touching story sha...

Can't recall where Memudu is..

The only places I recall are Bale which is like the biggest street in Orile, Igunu cuz I do pass there to Aguda when I was still a kid, Savage, Alagba and Opeloyeru which I did pass thru to school at Government College Lagos at Bode Thomas, and Kekere-eku street.

Orile was my own ghetto and I could say that I was as ghetto as an Ajegunle brought up.

Hope things are moving well with you over there bro?
Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 04, 2015
Meehhn things are happening. This is quite educative. Wey those my married peeps?? Come in here! Read from page 0. This will surely help.

Cc:
HFOG
LordReed
Kachisbarbie
Dechandel (Sheybi you say you don marry that time?)


Kika23
Specialist900
Ideology

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by zeongeon: 12:29pm On Mar 04, 2015
kandiikane:
And to those who think my post was made towards abused men or that it implies the op is lying about being abused at the age of 10 then you are all ediots who need to read a book or two and should be put in a corner for even attempting to say someone is ignorant for doubting the exact motive of the thread being open.

I just do not believe his exact motive was to bring awareness to how wrong male abuse is, how it affects and can have a major impact on the victim.
I find that the thread was opened to tell a story about smelly maids as an entertainment under the blanket of Male abuse awareness

How exactly does "I felt fulfilled as her fingers were all over me as If she was working a guitar" or " she opened her legs and a smell filled the room" make any difference to the opinions of those who do not believe men can be abused?

All that is left is for people to take a seat around a fire to listen to the storytelling before they go to sleep.
what a joke!
Be reasonable. People have every right to express how they feel or describe situation using words they feel would be able to paint an exact picture so that people could understand better..I can decide to write on the wrongs of rape using words like " he squeezed her boobs just like a thirsty man squeeze pure water satchet" that doesn't mean am trying to use rape to entertain people.

Well its not about what the op wrote or how he wrote it, it op is trying to pass a message and the question is did u get the message?

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 1:16pm On Mar 04, 2015
MarieSucre:
My dear molestation is molestation. If i had a son and he was a minor and i heard some older woman was taking advantage of him, i don't care how much they enjoyed themselves, that woman better start buying prison shorts and a new name. what nonsense! In this era of sexual liberality you're still molesting pre-pubescent boys.
prepubescent boys are being molested on daily basis but nobody raises an eyebrow.

But if a girl is the victim, hell would be let loose. That's injustice on the boy child. cool

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 1:59pm On Mar 04, 2015
OP,
I cannot really understand our complaint.

I think most males reading this if they are honest are envious of your experience.

You claim you are a victim yet you are the one initiating sex with older females as they slept.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Joel3(m): 2:08pm On Mar 04, 2015
this remind me of a video of a girl around 12 with her tiny boob and a boy around 6. I can't find the video online again.

They were Having sex inside a local and ghetto bathroom. Very disgusting environment.


Someone hide behind and video it with phone.

The girl told the smell boy to lick her unwashed pussy. and the boy did and she wash the boy mouth thereafter.

She also put the boy dick inside her mouth.

That video I delete immediately after I watch it. Its disgusting how a smell rat of that age watch porn.

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Specialist900(m): 2:22pm On Mar 04, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Meehhn things are happening. This is quite educative. Wey those my married peeps?? Come in here! Read from page 0. This will surely help.




you follow chop my wedding rice? since when my status change to married?

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by Nobody: 2:27pm On Mar 04, 2015
Specialist900:
you follow chop my wedding rice? since when my status change to married?
You no see the line wey demarcate una and the married folks?? I wonder how you passed your jamb tongue

Hope you've read and learnt?

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Re: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by HFOG(f): 3:00pm On Mar 04, 2015
AgapeCharis:
You no see the line wey demarcate una and the married folks?? I wonder how you passed your jamb tongue

Hope you've read and learnt?
una carry your fight reach here? Smh
@op...may God help me play my part in protecting my babies from ravenous wolves in sheep's clothing

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