When there is incompatibility it clearly means ones expectations is not met, or ones desire is cut short.

There's usually a synergy in sexual compatibility and this synergy is triggered by some factors. I will name them.

1. Attraction. Sexual attraction. I will like to ask you some personal questions on this. What do u find attractive about her? I mean sexually? Is her looks? Dressing? Gestures?

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carefreewannabe:


I am trying.

Thank you.

Thanks girl, you did great...even if he's been "insincere"...You acted different from the rest

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

U don dey cheat already na.

carefreewannabe:


And you think lubricants are the way to help this woman relax and enjoy s*ex more?

It should help.

emusmith:

Thanks girl, you did great...even if he's been "insincere"...You acted different from the rest

I think, he knows it was a mistake.

Anyway, why not be part of a solution?

Generals02:


It should help.

Who will it help? You or her?

Grendel:


well, i don't think she is ready to change because i don't enjoy having se**x with and she do complain of pains

How she no go complain of pains when u go take alomo,origin and 2 bottles of big stout b4 u enter her under world, BROS take am easy oh her, na love makin, no b fight.

Dyt:
Do u love her enuf?

Abi na broda n sis relationship
Reminds me of a funny thread

aro candidate, u don reach here?

carefreewannabe:


Who will it help? You or her?

Ok I get it. But if you have to be lighting candles, burning incense and doing 2hrs cuddling everyday just to get her wet and relaxed then something is wrong. Lubricants should help with easier penetration, hence lesser pain. I'm only looking for something easier, not total solution.

carefreewannabe:


I think, he knows it was a mistake.

Anyway, why not be part of a solution?

I concur totally...

Dyt:


Love making is not abt size of joystick
Its from within
*hammer*

hammer indeed!

emusmith:


I concur totally...

I like your signature.

Generals02:


Ok I get it. But if you have to be lighting candles, burning incense and doing 2hrs cuddling everyday just to get her wet and relaxed then something is wrong. Lubricants should help with easier penetration, hence lesser pain. I'm only looking for something easier, not total solution.

Once she learns to enjoy s*ex, she will also like quickies.

Lubricants will not help a woman who does not enjoy s*ex.

Grendel:
madam, why the insult? i'm been plain and sincere here please.

no insult for God's sake

Leave God out of it, U̶̲̥̅̊ say no insult, but why? In ur post U̶̲̥̅̊ said U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt want to cheat on her, but U̶̲̥̅̊ ar doin it outside wch in ur word 'is sweet'.
Mtcheeeee!
U̶̲̥̅̊ want popularity and U̶̲̥̅̊ don get am, abi?

carefreewannabe:


I like your signature.

Thanks

Can you say same?

emusmith:


Thanks

Can you say same?

No, I am a woman.

Grendel:

i tired ooo.


and no be say my dj too big or too long

which one is dj?

carefreewannabe:


No, I am a woman.

A complex statement...Married?

Grendel, I forgot to mention, make sure you are always FRESH and CLEAN from head to toe and that you smell good. It is very important to women.

By the way, playing nice music, slow jamzzz, might help create the right atmosphere too.

emusmith:


A complex statement...Married?

Indeed.

No, I am not married, you?

carefreewannabe:


Indeed.

No, I am not married, you?

Nah... Hoping to......this year

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

sorry o!

Erm if you really love her, you can consciously change her and make her to be as you want on bed. People give this excuse and I laugh... anyone can be better on bed, depends on you and how you handle it.

Plus, give more details. I dunno what particular area to advise on.

emusmith:


Nah... Hoping to......this year

I wish you the best of luck.

carefreewannabe:


I wish you the best of luck.

Thanks... You're still far from it?

emusmith:


Thanks... You're still far from it?

I am not a fan of the marriage institution, to be honest.

My dear, sometimes infection can cause pains. Let her go for medical checkup if she is okay then try pre-intimacy before penetrating. Love her cos she is ur wife

carefreewannabe:


I am not a fan of the marriage institution, to be honest.

Why?

emusmith:


Why?

1. I consider the wedding ceremony stressful and a waste of money.
2. I can't promise anyone to love them till the day I die and nobody can promise me to love me till the day they die. Feelings change over time.
3. I believe that having a marriage certificate makes people take their spouses for granted, they stop trying and giving their best.
4. Once you have kids, you are a family and you better stay together until the kids are grown unless you have very serious issues that make you depressed or threaten your life, again no marriage certificate necessary to do this.
5. Many marriages are unhappy.
6. The divorce rate is rising.
7. I am a free human being, I am not going to sign a contract that will compel me to live with someone forever even if it is no longer for our good.
8. Marriage offers nothing I would want to have and nothing I can't have without marriage.

I hope, I have not discouraged you, TV01 will be angry with me.

carefreewannabe:


1. I consider the wedding ceremony stressful and a waste of money.
2. I can't promise anyone to love them till the day I die and nobody can promise me to love me till the day they die. Feelings change over time.
3. I believe that having a marriage certificate makes people take their spouses for granted, they stop trying and giving their best.
4. Once you have kids, you are a family and you better stay together until the kids are grown unless you have very serious issues that make you depressed or threaten your life, again no marriage certificate necessary to do this.
5. Many marriages are unhappy.
6. The divorce rate is rising.
7. I am a free human being, I am not going to sign a contract that will compel me to live with someone forever even if it is no longer for our good.
8. Marriage offers nothing I would want to have and nothing I can't have without marriage.

I hope, I have not discouraged you, TV01 will be angry with me.

Nice points- You're intelligent.

I don't know what to say

Thank you all for the great advices .... I am grateful.

She has apologized for to this morning for the act of been selfish and not willing to share the only thing that brings unity into a relationship.

I've forgiven and forget about the past. Now I will apply all the positive advices I've gotten here to strengthen the our love.


Thank you all once again.

Respect to all Nairalanders

Na wah o.