Salam alaikum brothers and sisters

Some sisters have asked me this question, although they are married, they want to know the islamic ruling on BJ( i think it also means MouthAction). I hav been wondering also if it is acceptable in Islam. Pls with refrences.

JAZA kALLAHU KHAIR.

Brb

this article will help

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and
blessings be upon His Messenger.
Dear questioner, thank you so much for your concerns about
your religion and Allah’s teachings even in what concerns your
sexual life with your wife.
As regards your question, it is to be noted, first of all, that all
acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are
allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex
and having sex with a wife while she is still in her
menstruation. Thus, it is permissible for a husband and a wife
to practice cunnilingus and MouthAction. Following we’d cite the
opinions of some well-known Muslim scholars in this regard:
The eminent Muslim scholar, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi states:
“I was asked about MouthAction in America and Europe when I
began to travel to these countries in the early 70s. We are not
used to be asked these questions in our Muslim countries.
Those Western people are accustomed to stripping naked
during sexual intercourse. These are communities of
unclothedness, and from the licentiousness of the woman that she
wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life.
So, they are in need of more excitements during copulation.
However, men in our Muslim societies see nothing in the
Muslim woman that can excite them on the basis of her
wearing either Hijab (veil) or Niqab (face cover). But
concerning whether being in complete unclothedness during
practicing copulation is lawful or not, the Prophet of Allah,
peace and blessings be upon him, is reported to have said,
"Guard your private parts except from your wife or your
slaves."
Muslim jurists are of the opinion that it is lawful for the
husband to perform cunnilingus on his wife, or a wife to
perform the similar act for her husband (MouthAction) and there is
no wrong in doing so. But if sucking leads to releasing semen,
then it is Makruh (blameworthy), but there is no decisive
evidence (to forbid it).
These parts are not dirty like anus, but it is ordinarily
disgusting to man. But there is no decisive evidence to make it
unlawful, especially if the wife agrees with it or achieves
orgasm by practicing it. Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He,
says: "And who guard their modesty, save from their wives or
the slaves, that I heir right hands possess, for then they are
not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond that, such are
transgressors.” (Al-Mu'minun: 5-7)”
In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is
allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment
except anal sex, for that is strictly forbidden.
Dr. Ali Jum`ah , professor of the Principles of Islamic
Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar Univ., says further that licking,
sucking and kissing spouse's sexual organs are all allowed, as
long as it gives a person sexual gratification that will keep him
away from Haram (unlawful) or starring at opposite sex
(marriageable). But every Muslim must keep in mind that
sexual intercourse is just a lust and passion that must be
satisfied in a lawful way; it's not to be perceived as necessary
as foods and drinks, as it's the case in the Western perverted
ideology.
Shedding more light on this, Dr. Sabri `Abdul Ra’ouf ,
professor of Islamic Comparative Jurisprudence, at Al-Azhar
Univ, says that it's allowed for the married couple to enjoy
each other as long as what they do does not run counter to the
teachings of Islam or violate the public norms. He also gives
support to the view of Sheikh Al-Qaradawi that MouthAction or
kissing private parts of the spouse is something viewed
disgusting to Muslims, but if the aim is just kissing (without
having constant indulgence in it) it's not sinful to do that, but
people of high morality normally keep away from that, as not
to give in to imitating non-Muslims.”
In conclusion, it has become clear now that MouthAction is not
prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed
Muslims and Muslimahs. That's, despite that MouthAction is not
Haram, it is completely disgusting and does not conform to the
pure taste and decency of a Muslim personality.
Here, it should be noted that one of the main objectives of
Shari`ah is to safeguard the life of people and keep them
healthy. Based on this, if it is scientifically proven that MouthAction
or such practices cause mouth cancer or form a danger on the
health of a person who practices it, then it becomes totally
prohibited.



source; http://www.islamawareness.net/Sex/fatwa_sex_001.html

Maa sha Allah, jaza kallahu khair brother. Now i knw better

coolbis:
Maa sha Allah, jaza kallahu khair brother. Now i knw better

wa iyyakum