This is pretty straight forward. Ladies please help us guys out, how do you like to be appreciated? For example do you like to be appreciated on special occasions or with little things everyday? Does it have to be monetary? Does sex count? Things like that would be helpful so that we can better ourselves 

StephenP:

how do you like to be appreciated?

In every possible way!

StephenP:

special occasions or with little things everyday?

The latter!!

StephenP:

Does it have to be monetary?

No!!
Infact start with words and please mean whatchu say.

StephenP:

Does sex count?

Wella!

what other way but sex?

Missy B:

In every possible way!

Yeah but what exactly can we do to appreciate you? Many guys have little experience in this matter so specific examples would be appreciated.

*You wake up in the morning and kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).
*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

Thanks Missy.

Where are the rest of the ladies? This is an opportunity you have to let us men know how you feel. How do you us to show you appreciation?

Missy B:

*You wake up in the morning and kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).
*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

what time does the man have left to do anything in the day?

Missy B:

*You wake up in the morning and kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

Women  sha!!!!
Thank God that God is not a woman (He is a man). . . .it would have bn difficult to make heaven!

davidylan:

what time does the man have left to do anything in the day?

bro, david u should learn instead of asking question. take the ones you like and bin the no nos

JJYOU:

bro, david u should learn instead of asking question. take the ones you like and bin the no nos

no problem. no be today we start meeting up to the requirements of that list.

Tell her you appreciate her. Most of the time a guy will take it for granted that the girl knows, yet, it can be really hard to tell by just his actions. It's special to hear it from his mouth. You could go out and get a card, but cards are mass made and it's not really your words. Of course, the time you take reading each card and choosing a special one is good too. You could also make her a card, in your own words. Gifts are all material things. If you have money, material things are a dime a dozes, so to speak. For me, if my man tells me he appreciates me, and he's sincere, that means more to me than anything materialistic. After telling her, give her a special night where she chooses everything. Treat her like a queen. You can tell her how much you appreciate her, then draw her a candlelit bubble bath, cook her dinner, complete with champagne. Get her some chocolate covered strawberries which you can hand feed her. Then while you two are lying on the couch, watching a love story that she chose, give her a gentle massage. When you go to bed, leave a long stemmed red rose on her pillow.

tope . . . na question dem ask you not write a novel.

davidylan:

tope . . . na question them ask you not write a novel.

Lol . . . . . . na my answer be that na

tope2000:

Tell her you appreciate her. Most of the time a guy will take it for granted that the girl knows, yet, it can be really hard to tell by just his actions. It's special to hear it from his mouth. You could go out and get a card, but cards are mass made and it's not really your words. Of course, the time you take reading each card and choosing a special one is good too. You could also make her a card, in your own words. Gifts are all material things. If you have money, material things are a dime a dozes, so to speak. For me, if my man tells me he appreciates me, and he's sincere, that means more to me than anything materialistic. After telling her, give her a special night where she chooses everything. Treat her like a queen. You can tell her how much you appreciate her, then draw her a candlelit bubble bath, cook her dinner, complete with champagne. Get her some chocolate covered strawberries which you can hand feed her. Then while you two are lying on the couch, watching a love story that she chose, give her a gentle massage. When you go to bed, leave a long stemmed red rose on her pillow.

I gat this quetion for the female folks here. . . . . .
If a man does all these. . . .what are women suppose to do?. . . .same?
Moreover, doing all those stuffs afore mentioned "upstairs" doesnt guarantee the lady wouldnt fall for another guy. . .
So guys be warned. Dont listen to all the stuffs the women say here, . . .try to filter it because, at times. . .all these "wussy" behaviours annoys and irritates most women.

tope2000:

Tell her you appreciate her. Most of the time a guy will take it for granted that the girl knows, yet, it can be really hard to tell by just his actions. It's special to hear it from his mouth. You could go out and get a card, but cards are mass made and it's not really your words. Of course, the time you take reading each card and choosing a special one is good too. You could also make her a card, in your own words. Gifts are all material things. If you have money, material things are a dime a dozes, so to speak. For me, if my man tells me he appreciates me, and he's sincere, that means more to me than anything materialistic. After telling her, give her a special night where she chooses everything. Treat her like a queen. You can tell her how much you appreciate her, then draw her a candlelit bubble bath, cook her dinner, complete with champagne. Get her some chocolate covered strawberries which you can hand feed her. Then while you two are lying on the couch, watching a love story that she chose, give her a gentle massage. When you go to bed, leave a long stemmed red rose on her pillow.

Someone has been watching too much Romantic movies

Missy B:

*You wake up in the morning and kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).
*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

Can you stop explaining all the things I do to you please

T_bag:

I gat this quetion for the female folks here. . . . . .
If a man does all these. . . .what are women suppose to do?. . . .same?
Moreover, doing all those stuffs afore mentioned "upstairs" doesnt guarantee the lady wouldnt fall for another guy. . .
So guys be warned. don't listen to all the stuffs the women say here, . . .try to filter it because, at timesall these "wussy" behaviours annoys and irritates most women.

Ofcos we r meant to do same, relationship is a 50-50 thing isnt it?
T-bag, did a woman cheat on you?


@chamo
Egbe enu dake
You think we r discussing abt vanessa or latoya here

tope2000:

Tell her you appreciate her. Most of the time a guy will take it for granted that the girl knows, yet, it can be really hard to tell by just his actions. It's special to hear it from his mouth. You could go out and get a card, but cards are mass made and it's not really your words. Of course, the time you take reading each card and choosing a special one is good too. You could also make her a card, in your own words. Gifts are all material things. If you have money, material things are a dime a dozes, so to speak. For me, if my man tells me he appreciates me, and he's sincere, that means more to me than anything materialistic. After telling her, give her a special night where she chooses everything. Treat her like a queen. You can tell her how much you appreciate her, then draw her a candlelit bubble bath, cook her dinner, complete with champagne. Get her some chocolate covered strawberries which you can hand feed her. Then while you two are lying on the couch, watching a love story that she chose, give her a gentle massage. When you go to bed, leave a long stemmed red rose on her pillow.

Ok ok that's possible.

davidylan:

what time does the man have left to do anything in the day?

He's got all the time in the world.
All we ask is just spare some seconds to tell us these things.
You can't imagine how 'large our head swell' when u say 'em esp. in open places.
You'll agree with me that when a guy does stuffs like that and the gurl reciprocates it . . .
the union becomes PERFECT!!

the greatest way to appreciate a woman is to fok her morning, afternoon, day and night, go home during lunch and fok her on the terrace, go home from church and split her open in the garden, get home from work and nack her from behind on the wash hand basin, park the car on a long stretch of a motorway and open her legs wide while you enter her smooth and strong, get to your in laws house and ask her for a fok b4 doing anything, fok her from the top, botom, back, middle etc. but pretend not to see her for one whole week and you will see what you are in for.

Missy B:

He's got all the time in the world.
All we ask is just spare some seconds to tell us these things.
You can't imagine how 'large our head swell' when u say 'em esp. in open places.
You'll agree with me that when a guy does stuffs like that and the gurl reciprocates it . . .
the union becomes PERFECT!!

Babes my head always swell pass garri ijebu when he says or do stuffs like that

Missy B:

*You wake up in the morning and  kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).
*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

The list goes on? All these women in their Mills and Boon fantasy, I sorry for una.  

Ehen see these women asking for all these tasking things, but to cook that na crime.


@tope
me sef i never draw my own candle lit bubble bath
wetin i for get in return?


all this one na tales by moonlight.

T_bag:

I gat this quetion for the female folks here. . . . . .
If a man does all these. . . .what are women suppose to do?. . . .same?
Moreover, doing all those stuffs afore mentioned "upstairs" doesnt guarantee the lady wouldnt fall for another guy. . .
So guys be warned. don't listen to all the stuffs the women say here,  . . .try to filter it because, at timesall these "wussy" behaviours annoys and irritates most women.

Try to listen and like JJYOU said take what you like and bin what you don't. After all, it's an individual perspective so there's no guarantee it works for all women

the women have a point though. Much of their list actually works.

H2O2:

Ehen see these women asking for all these tasking things, but to cook that na crime.

LOL!! Many Nigerian girls can cook and cook well. Plus, there was nothing tasking on that list.

@ Tope.
Definately a woman has cheated on me before. . .its no big deal. . .
and I have lost a coupe of women to being "wussy" too. . .so am like telling guys that not all women like bn dott on.

Show me a man who has not bn cheated on. . .and i will point a man who has just started the game to you.

StephenP:

Try to listen and like JJYOU said take what you like and bin what you don't. After all, it's an individual perspective so there's no guarantee it works for all women

What's with your. . ."try to listen" phrase?
I find that a bit insultive.
I only gave my opinions on ur topic and if you dont like it you simply pass.

Compiling my listtttttttttt. . . . . Quite long sha

@ Toyin.

davidylan:

the women have a point though. Much of their list actually works.

If you accede to anybody's list of demands, you will inevitably be on their good side, but the larger question is why the demands?

If my girlfriend is always eager and willing to have sex, cook my food and loves watching football, that will ''work'' too, but why should she?

H2O2:

Ehen see these women asking for all these tasking things, but to cook that na crime.


@tope
me sef i never draw my own candle lit bubble bath
wetin i for get in return?


all this one na tales by moonlight.

U be dirty boy sha, u never draw ur bubble bath
In relationships you will be treated the same way u treat ur partner
Treat her good and u will get a hella of things in return

B.T.W I love cooking actually

*You wake up in the morning and  kiss her head asking how her night was(Showing care).
*During the day, you call her just to tell her how much u care and love her.
*Every now and then commend her looks even when she's without make-up
*You can help her out with some house work
*Make her feel she's the best thing you've ever met.
*Surprise her sometimes.
*Get her gifts even if it's small.(flower, card,jewellery, whatever)
*Show her off . . .talk about her with pride before ur friends and folk
*Cheating? No! No!!
Etcetera . . . the list goes on . . .

Definately