I have a six month old baby who watches keenly while hubby and I enjoy our 'quickies' but these days i get set back and often loose concentration because i feel someone is watching...hubby on his part would say babies at this stage understand nothing...?

Do you think is too early to start putting a break to such?

Did i mention walking naked most time is our routine?

When do babies start giving meanings to what they see?

Op, its a surprise that you are more concerned about loosing concentration during intercourse than on the effect such practice is having on your child.

I don't think you should even have sex with your husband when your child is asleep on the same bed. Not to talk of the child being awake and seeing this time and time again
I know the child is young and might not fully be aware of his environment but you shouldn't rule out the psychological effect these images would have on the mind of the child
Its like letting your baby watch porn

One thing I never rule out is the crucial roles the environment plays in the development of a child
You may feel like the child doesn't understand anything at this stage, but just like in the case of language learning, his brain is assimilating and storing up information in a fast process.

Whenever you want to do a "quicky" with your husband, its best you make sure the kid is asleep or better still, you put him in the care of someone else, probably a maid or any other person in the house.

Thanks

Having sex in front of your baby?
Wtf is wrong with you people?!

vjsmiles:
YOU GUYS ARE PROGRAMMING HIS OS TO ..
. agfkFfffffsfkk .fj fhj
I WOULDNT DO SUCH EVEN IF IT WAS A DOG WATCHING

Abi?!?!?!


As in husband is doing doggie style and wifey's boobs are hanging down then baby is trying to latch on to one of the boobs to suck...


****yuuuuuucccckkk!!!**((

Abeg correct d heading. I dey come..

Good job!
keep it up guys!


Trust me, that kid is learning a lot

thanks to those who have replied in just few minutes of post... i can imply from ur reply that is wrong...is never too late to correct this.....we are new/young couple.......thanks again we will adjust

Don't get so worked up. Your hubby is right babies at that stage don't understand anything or neither read meanings into anything. Your just being delusional . Betterstill if your not comfortable being watched put your baby to sleep before action or buy a sleeping mask for your baby. Enjoy your quickie

Momcherry:
Abeg correct d heading. I dey come..

momcherry waiting for you...the heading has been adjusted

Do you believe in Reincarnation?


If yes then I think that baby is one of your grandparent.

S/he knows everything you are doing.

TrishaP:
Don't get so worked up. Your hubby is right babies at that stage don't understand anything or neither read meanings into anything. Your just being delusional . Betterstill if your not comfortable being watched get a sleeping mask for your baby. Enjoy your quickie

really? so when do they start reading meanings to such?

The baby may not consciously understand but then how about it being programmed into his/her subconscious?
The subconscious is very powerful that you should consider......

vjsmiles:
YOU GUYS ARE PROGRAMMING HIS OS TO ..

I WOULDNT DO SUCH EVEN IF IT WAS A DOG WATCHING

bro are you married? if yes any form of adventure in your marriage? or you only adopt only bedroom style?

hahahahhahhahaha
can't stop laughing well said

Tallesty1:
Do you believe in Reincarnation?


If yes then I think that baby is one of your grandparent.

S/he knows everything you are doing.

bisous:
The baby may not consciously understand but then how about it being programmed into his/her subconscious?
The subconscious is very powerful that you should consider......

kk ma.......since it bothers me, then is a good reason to adjust.....thanks

Tallesty1:
Do you believe in Reincarnation?


If yes then I think that baby is one of your grandparent.

S/he knows everything you are doing.

Why would a grandparent be interested in watching the grandchild making out.
So sick

blackchukky:
hahahahhahhahaha
can't stop laughing well said

hehehehehe..........lwkmd......you re funny.....yet i have still not found the right reply

All dat quickies has 2 change. Babies of nowadays are smarter dan demselves.

Dont allow ur acts 2 register in d babies head or else...... u know d rest

IYADARA:


really? so when do they start reading meanings to such?

S/he is still a baby.. Still very young to make new memories.

TrishaP:

Why would a grandparent be interested in watching the grandchild making out.
So sick

Sick?


I don't think so.


All the styles are foreign to him.


He's surprised and shocked.

missjenna:
Op, its a surprise that you are more concerned about loosing concentration during intercourse than on the effect such practice is having on your child.

I don't think you should even have sex with your husband when your child is on the same bed. Not to talk of the child being awake and seeing this time and time again
I know the child in young and might not fully be aware of his environment but you shouldn't rule out the psychological effect these images would have on the mind of the child
Its like letting your baby watch porn

Whenever you want to do a "quicky" with your husband, its best you make sure the kid is asleep or you put him in the care of someone else, probably a maid or any other person in the house.

Thanks

thanks madam...you are always on point....my concern is much for my baby sincerely......we are young couple...that is why i brought it up to learn.....a, grateful dearie.......i want to ask...are you married? it is not always a bed thing alone ooooo...kitchen, dinning, sitting room....you know we are still doing it like wen we were alone....pls dont mind my vulgarity

Tallesty1:
Sick?


I don't think so.


All the styles are foreign to him.


He's surprised and shocked.

You are one very funny person

Hmmm.I hope say una dey use CD. Before pikin go drink sperm

By the way, the baby is just curious seeing two big giants making funny sounds while shaking their massive bodies. And to think ,your mammary glands hanging loosely , dangling in that quick repetition is beyond belief.I think that's where your baby's attention is.


"DADDY LEAVE MOMMIMAMMARY MILK ALONEEEEEEE!!"

IYADARA:


thanks madam...you are always on point....my concern is much for my baby sincerely......we are young couple...that is why i brought it up to learn.....a, grateful dearie.......i want to ask...are you married?

Thanks for the compliment.
About your question, No I am not married.

missjenna:

Thanks for the compliment.
One thing I never rule out is the crucial roles the environment plays in the development of a child

You may feel like the child doesn't understand anything at this stage, but just like in the case of language learning, his brain is assimilating and storing up information in a fast process.

About your question, No I am not married.

am sure you are due for that,.....maybe not with age but your wealth of experience.....may you find the right man and you will never miss it in marriage... once again thanks a million times... your comment have really helpd

IYADARA:


am sure you are due for that,.....maybe not with age but your wealth of experience.....may you find the right man and you will never miss it in marriage... once again thanks a million times... your comment have really helpd

Thanks, but I think I am still a bit young and inexperienced for marriage

missjenna:

Thanks but I think I am still a bit young for marriage

ohhhh really? may i know ur age

EggovinMma:
Hmmm.I hope say una dey use CD. Before pikin go drink sperm

By the way, the baby is just curious seeing two big giants mmaking funny sounds while shaking their massive bodies. And to think your mammary glands hanging loosely is beyond belief.

as for the pregnancy.. we got everything under control

IYADARA:


ohhhh really? may i know ur age

I don't think its right for me to give my age out on a public forum

But i am in my early twenties

Tallesty1:
Do you believe in Reincarnation?


If yes then I think that baby is one of your grandparent.

S/he knows everything you are doing.

wat re you saying?