See me see trouble o...
Went swimming last week and met a young man who was nice (so I thought).

We talked at length and he offered to drop me at home. Next thing Is that he now visit me unannouced.
First day he spent almost all his day in my place until I reminded him that it was getting late.
Second day I couldn't go to work because I was down, so he called and I told him I was home again omo the guy came to my place at 12 noon. Took me to the market and back, I cooked and he ate before leaving.

After work the 3rd day he asked to come pick me up and take me back but I declined. This man calls me like 80 times in a day infact I have to Switch off my phone now.

He stalks me, and I fear for my life. I don't go out again o... He seems to be everywhere I go and just now he asked the security to tell me he's outside thegate and won't leave till he sees me.
He claims to be inlove after 1week of meeting but all I see is desperation.
Have anyone been in my shoes before? How did you make them go? God!!

Hehehe
Gobe tins

Tell us what u did with him

goodmorning40:
Tell us what u did with him

Like? Hope you are not thinking sex barely 1week of meeting.

When next you run into him you sit him down and tell him off about his behaviour..tell him you are grateful for the little he has done but you are really not interested then you delete his number from your phone and when next he shows up unannounced kindly take the case to the nearest police station or simply don't open the door for him again he'd get tired and stop bugging you

Datz ur cup of brukutu....
E no concern me

Lol! OP don jam stubborn love!

Whoa! Be very, very careful with stalkers.

Ignoring him is the 1st step. If he continues pestering you, then it's advisable that you keep record of everything he does because the police don't take such things seriously & the courts won't grant you a restraining order without evidence. So better start now because it's going to be one hell of a crazy ride. His word against his.

I've been through something similar but I don't wanna talk about it here. Let me tell you that they will stop at nothing to make your life a living hell. Some even go as far as breaking into your house only to come take a shyt on your bed & then smear the faeces every place they could land their hands on. It sounds funny & insane to a normal person but my dear, it happens. They don't reason like normal people so don't be surprised if strange things start happening. Also watch your pets if you have any because if the stalker can't get to you, then they'll target things that are dear to you eg. killing your pet & then mail you its head or something just to rattle you.

Be very cautious.

PunkyOh:
Whoa! Be very, very careful with stalkers.

Ignoring him is the 1st step. If he continues pestering you, then it's advisable that you keep record of everything he does because the police don't take such things seriously & the courts won't grant you a restraining order without evidence. So better start now because it's going to be one hell of a crazy ride. His word against his.

I've been through something similar but I don't wanna talk about it here. Let me tell you that they will stop at nothing to make your life a living hell. Some even go as far as breaking into your house only to come take a shyt on your bed & then smear the faeces every place they could land their hands on. It sounds funny & insane to a normal person but my dear, it happens. They don't reason like normal people so don't be surprised if strange things start happening. Also watch your pets if you have any because if the stalker can't get to you, then they'll target things that are dear to you eg. killing your pet & then mail you its head or something just to rattle you.

Be very cautious.

wow

Police tins

simple thing...talk to him.don't make small matter big.next pls

Stories 4 d gods.
Make i hear.
U couldn't put ur words very well,as u wish to appear as a creative writter.
Hw sexy are u dat d man follow dis way?
Does it mean dat d man doesnt go for work? How come he droped u,after ur enjoyment,here u re.
Stop posting dis shit here..
Na ur cross to carry,not a true story.

Mmadukaku:

wow

I meant to say your word against his.

You seem shocked. You ain't seen nothing yet. Just hope that this one is sane enough not to go full psycho on you. Pray that he gets it that you aren't interested or you're about to dance lol.

So the man was even waiting for you and you had the time to type this shit here... How many times do you see your mates running from men? Or maybe u want to approach 40 before getting married.. SMH

nnadychuks:
So the man was even waiting for you and you had the time to type this shit here... How many times do you see your mates running from men? Or maybe u want to approach 40 before getting married.. SMH

Your stu.pidity knows no bound. So because I have to marry someday I should be friends with mad men too? Save those type of guys for your sisters and children. Pig

Staru1:
Stories 4 d gods.
Make i hear.
U couldn't put ur words very well,as u wish to appear as a creative writter.
Hw sexy are u dat d man follow dis way?
Does it mean dat d man doesnt go for work? How come he droped u,after ur enjoyment,here u re.
Stop posting dis shit here..
Na ur cross to carry,not a true story.

Yes he earns his pay stalking women, that's obviously what he does for a living.
Run off to the kids section...

PunkyOh:


I meant to say your word against his.

You seem shocked. You ain't seen nothing yet. Just hope that this one is sane enough not to go full psycho on you. Pray that he gets it that you aren't interested or you're about to dance lol.

Time to acquire an AK 47 for annoying ppl ...

Mmadukaku:

Time to acquire an AK 47 for annoying ppl ...

LMFAO. Hell yeah!

BTW, if you sat at the side of the court where they issue restraining orders, you'd laugh your ass off because some of the stories are just too unbelievable & mental. I wanted to ROTFLMAO when a lady mentioned that her ex sent her cat or a similar animal's ears via FedEx. It was just too funny. People are sick out there.

PunkyOh:
BTW, if you sat at the side of the court where they issue restraining orders, you'd laugh your ass off because some of the stories are just too unbelievable & mental. I wanted to ROTFLMAO when a lady mentioned that her ex sent her cat or a similar animal's ears via FedEx. It was just too funny. People are sick out there.

Truly, you are not a Nigerian. Your instances are damn odd to what is likely to happen here.
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I might be wrong though.

Mmadukaku:

Your stu.pidity knows no bound. So because I have to marry someday I should be friends with mad men too? Save those type of guys for your sisters and children. Pig

dont say dat,he is on point..
Are u queen? U knw he was a mad man,u enters in his car?

tiz normal bae!

live with it.

TheAgba:


Truly, you are not a Nigerian. Your instances are damn odd to what is likely to happen here.
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I might be wrong though.

Did I ever say I was a Nigerian? I'm not. Oh & my " instances" are not odd in other parts of the world. Switch on your tv & you'll hear similar stories, from here to Timbuktu. Y'all must be sleepwalking or something if you've never heard of such things.

PunkyOh:


Did I ever say I was a Nigerian? I'm not. Oh & my " instances" are not odd in other parts of the world. Switch on your tv & you'll hear similar stories, from here to Timbuktu. Y'all must be sleepwalking or something if you've never heard of such things.

you dey crazy oh,
why must we listern to stories in tv set, u should hv tell us dat u have a story to tell than other way round.
If like be a nigerian or not, one fact we know is dat u re living in naija..

Staru1:


you dey crazy oh,
why must we listern to stories in tv set, u should hv tell us dat u have a story to tell than other way round.
If like be a nigerian or not, one fact we know is dat u re living in naija..

I don't understand your gibberish yabba jabba, sorry. And no I don't live in Naija, I live in my own country of birth.

Staru1:

dont say dat,he is on point..
Are u queen? U knw he was a mad man,u enters in his car?

Oh please run along, go look for your fellow kiddies to discuss tales by moon light. This is way above you.

PunkyOh:


I don't understand your gibberish yabba jabba, sorry. And no I don't live in Naija, I live in my own country of birth.

Please ignore them.

Mmadukaku:

Please ignore them.

Just curious, does your country's justice system recognise stalking & have anti-stalking laws? I find it very odd that these people think stalking stories are odd. In this day & age who doesn't know that such things occur? W O W.

PunkyOh:


Just curious, does your country's justice system recognise stalking & have anti-stalking laws? I find it very odd that these people think stalking stories are odd. In this day & age who doesn't know that such things occur? W O W.

These people resides in caves, I still wonder how they manage to have internet services.

PunkyOh:


Did I ever say I was a Nigerian? I'm not. Oh & my " instances" are not odd in other parts of the world. Switch on your tv & you'll hear similar stories, from here to Timbuktu. Y'all must be sleepwalking or something if you've never heard of such things.

Are you high on weed ? Why take what I typed like I was trying to lock horns with you ?
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Just calm down ok ? If they are applicable to other parts of the world,I don't see it happening here, so I can freely express myself. Hope that's not a crime ?
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You have things to watch on TV and I also have mine.
Mind you, no one said s/he hadn't heard of such. It isn't just dominant here...do you dig now ? And please stop the generalization. It isn't "y'all" , it is just me ok ?
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That's by the bush. How are you this evening ?

Op, i do meet such guys.

you know what i do..,

I block their contact. they wnt be able to disturb my life with calls.

Secondly, i become unfriendly,uninviting, and distance.

Thirdly, i let him know i have a bf.., and bf is nt happy with him being close to me.

Those three works for me.