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| Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by merit12(f): 9:42am On Mar 16, 2015 |
This is not a fiction or a story I'm trying to seek advice for my cousin that's we have been trying to console since last night. This should do her good. She met this guy oct and they started dating nov,he told her of his ex-girlfriend which he was no-longer dating Everything went smoothly until last night the guy came picked my cousin in the house ,hanged out in a bar after winning and dinning they were heading to the guys place,he stopped to get recharge card close the junction leading to his resident(meanwhile a particular number has been calling the guy since they were together which he hasn't been picking)my cousin picked the call to inform the caller the guy was not there,the reply she got from the caller was that she stupid,foolish to have pick the call . The guy left what he was getting and collect the phone from her(he didn't yell at her) ,entered his car as he was about to reserve and drove out his ex-girlfriend stood at the front of the car ,yelling and shouting at him(she didn't touch my cousin)she was making attempt to enter the car asking him to stop swaving her with the car. He didn't want her to enter . My cousin asked the guy to stop,open the door went to meet the ex-girlfriend and was trying to calm her down,pleased with her,even had to lied to the girl she was girlfriend to the guys friend ,he only helped her because they both going to same direction,my cousin later found out she has been with him since the previous day. She has been at home waiting for him. The ex-girlfriend left both my cousin and the guy, my cousin asked the guy to take her to her houx. On their way to my cousin houx ,she became angry and dropped from his car,he begged her,the guy wanted them to go to his place while my cousin wanted to go her house She stop him and get out of his car,the guy drive away @ about 11:30pm at night she had to walk home alone. She got home at @ about 12:15am she risked her life to home.getting home she called him to let him know she has gotten home and to also know if he has gotten him.she also called the boy ex-girlfriend to know if she is safe She has been crying since last night and fell asleep she found 2missed called from the boy ,called him back like nothing happen ,talk normal she don't want the guy to know she is fragile,she is acting strong while she dieing slowing ,refusing to eat and go to shop. She is a month pregnant for the guy ,the guy is aware of it. Please advice her ,what's your advice........please  Manage my english ,no insult please,no kidding this is a serious matter For mature minds only. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Nobody: 9:43am On Mar 16, 2015 |
summarize pls 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by DuchessLily(f): 10:05am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Hmmmm...there is pregnancy in d matter  Anyways, a broken relationship is better dan a broken marriage |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Brugo(m): 10:09am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wow. I read all that and my eyes..... Meeeen. English! Summary: Your cousin is just a sidechick who was foolish enough to get pregnant for a player.  |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by nanauju(f): 10:23am On Mar 16, 2015 |
This kinda situation almost happened to me and it was just yday I had to break off. The only big problem now is dat ur cousin is pregnant which will make matters complicated. But then ur cousin should have been reading the signs all along and use her head to play along until she dumps his sorry ass unceremoniously. That's what worked for me. I even told the sorry dude that I'd invite him to my wedding if I still had his contact aftr he was begging me to still be friends with him. Some guys are heartless so u need to put dem in their nonexisting place |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by merit12(f): 10:26am On Mar 16, 2015 |
DuchessLily:I'm afraid for her too The guy had try to talk about the previous night issue ,she pretends and didn't want to talk about it ,telling him nothing happen that she could recall and it all in the past Could she be MAD ? |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by DuchessLily(f): 10:33am On Mar 16, 2015 |
merit12: Uuhh  . serious Which past?? If I read well, d guy was with someone he calls ex just a night b4 ...while he has and is dating herShe should better talk abt it or be ready to pretend all her life while eating up inside ( and dat kills fast), cos d guy will continue treating her thus or even treat her worse |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Nobody: 10:34am On Mar 16, 2015 |
What cousin? The girl in the story is you. You didn't risk your life trekking home. You wanted to trek home. You met a guy in november, and by march you are already one month pregnant. You met his ex girlfriend after about 4 months you started dating a guy you are already pregnant for and you still introduced yourself to her as just a friend to the guy. . . And then, you trekked home late at night and STILL called a guy DRIVING home if he got home safe. Girl, your idiocy is amazing to me! |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by FLAWLES(f): 10:34am On Mar 16, 2015 |
OP is from PAKISTAN |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 16, 2015 |
merit12:She is Mad, Crazy and fvcking _stupid! |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by merit12(f): 10:42am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Brugo: Yes she is stupid and foolish 100times,the question now is your advice what she should do not going back to her weakness |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by merit12(f): 10:45am On Mar 16, 2015 |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Ucheosefoh(m): 10:45am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Blackett:You wise like Solomon, damn it five months she is already pregnant for him na this kind of babe go de form I don't like sex for a poor loving and caring dude only to de open leg north and south for a rich player I tire for some people matter |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by xpac01(m): 10:49am On Mar 16, 2015 |
I'll first have to chastise your cousin seriously. Getting pregnant means she broke the safety rule in the relationship. We don't need to play with our lives on the field of mere love flairs. Now on the issue, she needs to dig deep to find out what's wrong. Especially for the fact that she's pregnant for the guy. If she hadn't gotten pregnant, I could have said she just turn a new leaf and go. Now she's pregnant, and from the story, I'm force to believe that the guy must have all the while looking for a way to overcome his past feelings for the ex. Am not defending him here, but we all are humans. Now she should get matured and deal with it. She should meet with the ex and inquire the real stuff going on and not just assume. It really hurts but with time your cousin will get healed. This a lesson to us all. I wish her best. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by merit12(f): 10:57am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Blackett:I have no comment for you since I learnt you gotten more power bank . Beside I don't do e-fight ,check my moniker on nairaland, I have been here foor a long while . I think I have a good reputation here ,if it were to be so I wouldn't have use my username and beside some peeps on nairaland knows me personally It because of people like you that some moniker or people wouldn't want to share there problem instead of finding solutions you reasons to criticize the username.it a very bad one. If you got nothing to say,read and don't comment.in other world mind your business And don't hurt peoples feelings please. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by merit12(f): 11:10am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Yea ,thanx for the advice ,I gave her some sedative to sleep off,when she wakes we go to swim,she also likes to swim that should relax her ,before I will actually talk to her And that's why asking for advice that would reach her mind xpac01: |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Brugo(m): 11:27am On Mar 16, 2015 |
merit12: She should marry him na. Maybe he will change.  |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by FLAWLES(f): 11:29am On Mar 16, 2015 |
merit12:.mind borrow me a jet? Fvcking illiterate....fvck off 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by mcfynest(m): 7:27am On Mar 17, 2015 |
merit12: Please re edit your post  tell her to pray about it, seek God's guidance, ask for forgiveness of sins and let her do has the Lord tells her. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Mhizizzy(f): 7:35am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Datz a tight corner She Sud call d Guy and know wassup wiv. D. Pegnancy... She Sud not cry too much abeg Shit happens buh den We move on.. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by mrkay101(m): 8:16am On Mar 17, 2015 |
merit12: don't mind that ass its a faceless forum that's why he is all tough and barks up in here. I'm sure in person he's one weak ass introvert.. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Kingblingz(m): 8:25am On Mar 17, 2015 |
Let them set aside wateva happend that night nd settle things maturedly since pregnancy is involved! |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Badgers14: 8:32am On Mar 17, 2015 |
this matter still dey my court, will deliver the verdict later.  |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
merit12:madam, where you dey since? |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Nobody: 10:45am On Mar 26, 2015 |
FLAWLES:big illiterate.she cant even spell |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by FLAWLES(f): 3:53pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
HotBisi:.lolz ;( .its actually ILLITERATE not dat rubbish u spelt; CAN'T not camt FOOL |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by sinizia: 5:20pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
This your story doesn't make sense, or better still, it doesn't make the guy a cheat? Why you may ask. It's because the guy if he's cheating on your cousin wouldn't have decided to take her to his house knowing fully well that his ex slept over and is at his house waiting for him. Unless the guy planned it so your cousin could out of heartbreak quit the relationship or he's suffering from severe case of amnesia. Your cousin should call the ex and tell her she's pregnant for the guy and that she's his GF (she made a mistake denying she's the GF of the guy. Big mistake). Then get to hear the girl's side of story and know if the guy is still tapping that booty. If he is, she needs to accept the cruel fate and move on. With the help of family and a lawyer, get the guy to provide financially for the unborn son and bear the consequences of her decision. I wouldn't advice her to marry that if the guy's cheating on her because cheating on the mother of one's kids while she's pregnant is no-no for me. I can't take it if I was a woman. |
| Re: Nairalander Help!!! What Can I Do For Her Or What Should She Do????? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
FLAWLES:your father is a FOOL  |
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