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Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by maternal: 11:32am On Mar 18, 2015 |
The same single mothers shouting don't discriminate are the same ones who wouldn't date a broke man prior to their condition. I'd rather die than date a single mom. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by franzis(m): 11:36am On Mar 18, 2015 |
they are one of the most special and wonderful people to date / marry, if I have my way , I would get married to one in this life and next life after |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by stinggy(m): 11:36am On Mar 18, 2015 |
chimkaire: Sweerie you've been to london? |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by coogar: 11:38am On Mar 18, 2015 |
maternal: but you cannot generalise..... not all women are materialistic but i agree with your sentiments that women often look down on men that are less-privileged. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Ama111(f): 12:15pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1:my dear u re d tallest fool eva nah ur type dey give gal bele run cow 2 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Champele(m): 12:20pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Chillis:society that doesn't care about you.pow. I'm waiting for the day I will start considering what the society think about me or what I want to do. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by nkemdi89(f): 12:21pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
It depends, an average yoruba man doesn't discriminate a woman if she already have a child, infact they prefer her to the single ones who haven't go through the threshold of motherhood cos she has shown the sign of fruitfulness even his mother would embrace her than the later which they often refer to as adelebo so also an ijaw man. It varies with cultural believe which has prove that been a single mother doesn't mean you are promiscious but shows the fruit of a consumated moment .N.B( an average yorubas not all ) 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by MASCOTECH: 12:25pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Your only crime is not rejecting Abortion but FURNICATION |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by amokeme(f): 12:26pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
tivta:God bless you! I don't have any problem with single mums.. Infact, there are some you see and u just love them. But the set i can't stand are the ones forming the victim, making it look like it the guys fault and the world should pity them cos "he go me pregnant" i think if the man takes care full responsibility of the child's welfare then he is a good man! But most of the single mums are pained becos they thought having a child for a man will make him marry you. It doesn't work that way anymore.. And its easy to know pple in this category. But i so love the single mums that just decides to have a child, because they want to. You just got to love their kids.. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Tallesty1(m): 12:33pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Ama111:Why not read this? https://www.nairaland.com/1934821/how-keep-cool-when-someone |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Tallesty1(m): 12:44pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Champele:Very funny, you don't know me yet you advice people not to advice from people like me, isn't that foolish? Now we know who is a fool between us. I am not a woman nor a physician so I have never done abortion. I have never aided abortion in any way and I will always tell people that it is had to abstain but it is better than being a single mom. Abortion is no option so let God be the judge between you and I. If I practice what I preach then let God bless me and let destruction take me unawares if I don't. As for you, I have only this to tell, speak only of the things you know. An elder once told me that people who are guilty of what you preach will attack you unnecessarily so keep it coming, I now know where you belong. I wish I can send maturity to you via a pm Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 12:45pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
stinggy:I live in Pekam |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by charlsecy(m): 12:47pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
rittyben:And perhaps, unprotected premarital sex... |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 3:05pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
alentyno: Well he'd have to be one to type that comment innit? |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by link2jude(m): 3:07pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Most of them end up consciously dating married men and even go to the extend of defending their abominable acts when confronted. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:14pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
maternal: u again. afterall u ar married , u dnt av any business here. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:15pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
maternal: u again! afterall u ar married.u dnt av any business here. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by AngelicaDivine(f): 3:20pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Say no to abortion & unprotected premarital sex. Stay safe ladies |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:23pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Thinkr: that shuld be a private matter besides women has a higher capacity to stay off sex than men especially wen a child is involved. our emotions are channeled to d child nd work so as to provide d best for d kid which makes it harder to even tink of sex. 2 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:26pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
MizMyColi: If your actions don't define you then what will ? |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
MizMyColi: You were doing great till this part , people are judged best by their actions not by their soul/spirit/essence or whatever nuance you may come up with. |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
goodmorning40: For every single mother there is a single dad unless of course he's dead , so I don't know what you're on about |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by goodmorning40: 3:37pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:How will u know what am at. How many of those babies u fathered and ran away are with u. How many of them can u give account of 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:52pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Haha , a lot of closet atheist on this forum ( or should I say closet agnostic in your case ) |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:54pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
goodmorning40: Running away doesn't mean they aren't single dads |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by MizMyColi(f): 4:00pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Looool Your Dp is funny gaan I know this would make me sound holier than thou.... But those who know me beyond NL know say Nuh Be Me Holy Pass It just boils down to this..... Man has Body, Spirit and Soul. Sometimes.....we take actions which are not a true representation of the state of our souls/spirit beings. Take the manager who had to rob his bank because his life was threatened, in the process, six people died. Agree or not.......the blood of those people are on him.... It would be very easy for us humans to condemn him, because, matter of fact, he had a choice.....but that would have been a very tough call..... In this case, I am looking at who this man really is at the core of his being.....his soul. Before his spirit caught a virus....now to restore him, he'd have to be formatted. He would go around for the rest of his life blaming himself. Thinking of himself as a murderer. But I'd say to him...... "True, you made a wrong call and people died. But contrary to the world's view.....I don't see a murderer in you. I don't see a person who is beyond redemption. Allow your soul to connect to your source. Walk in the awareness of who you really are. Everyone else sees you as bad, irredeemable......but someone in here (touching his chest) knows that was just an anomaly...... You are better. You will do better. Quit beating yourself up and live again." ^^^ What I just did now is speak healing to that man. People think that showing people love has a way of making them indulge in wrong ways... But that's a lie. Whether you show a person Love or Not, if they will do wrong by themselves, they will! Matter of fact, employing the cold way of correction approach has a way of making most folks become obstinate....even though it might seem like your gist is sinking in at the time. What I preach is this. Whether a person has flaws or not. Whether you have lived or living wrongly or not. There is someone (Eternal Spirit) who sees beyond your actions.... Who understands your struggles, and who accepts you nonetheless, his love for you knows no bounds, and while it may seem like you are suffering the consequence of your choice(s), keep your gaze and focus on him, he is not up there in the sky, he is within you, about you, around you......he has a way of turning things, he has a way of turning your sorrows to joy. He heals, He restores. He sees you, not for what you are now, but for what you can be. And that is how I choose to see you too (So Help Me Jah). Oops, @Neoapocalypse......I think I stopped replying you since o Lool, The words were coming and I had to pen them down. If those words are meant for you, whoever you are.......I love youand you are accepted, no judgement. You wanna be better? You will be better |
Re: Challenges Of A Single Mother by goodmorning40: 4:04pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: That boils down to what am saying, the woman bears it all |
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