There is no set down rules for a perfect marriage... Infact, d term "perfect marriage" is more of an illusion.

However,there are certain questions if & when put into consideration can give a workable marriage*no assurances though*

So before U say I do,it will do alot of good to consider the following;

1) OUTSTANDING DEBT: who has some & what is the plan of paying it off?

2) CHILDREN: do U want them? If so,how many? If not,are U sure enough about the decision to take permanent steps to ensure U dn't have them? Are U open to adoption/fertility treatment if U are unable to conceive naturally?

3)LOCATION AFTER WEDDING:how will U rank your location in terms of importance for your well being? If U love where U live,what will persuade U to move---Job offer,desire to be closer to family,better schools for ur kids?

4) RELIGION: if U practice a religion or have a particular faith,how important is it to U that your partner practice it or share the same faith? How does ur religion or faith affect your lifestyle? If U plan to have kids,what religion if any do U want to raise them in?

5) DREAM HOME: U may never live in your dream home but knowing whether U or your significant other share common goals will help solidify your roles as partners in each other's lives & confirm that U are working towards the same thing.

6) BANK ACCOUNTS & BILL SHARING: will U share a bank account? Keep individual accounts? Both? And what bills will be paid by what account?

7) SEX: errrmmm! Well,your different sexual preferences...

8} FAMILY OBLIGATIONS: how much time do U spend with your family now? How much do U expect to share with them once married & potentially have children? How do U plan to spend holidays?

9) VACATIONS: are U the type of person who loves to vacation? Well then,U & ur partner need to discuss what types of vacation you do or do not enjoy...

10) CAREER: how committed is each of U to your career? Whr are U in terms of living a dream career? Do U have more schoolin or apprenticing to finish? If so,how much more time will it take? What kinda personal sacrifices will U have to make to climb the career ladder of your choice

Feel free to add yours...

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Edith your post and say something on sex.




Thanks.

U need to talk abt UEFA matches o. If it falls on her bday, she shud understand if u won't make it

Nice!

CountDracula:
U need to talk abt UEFA matches o. If it falls on her bday, she shud understand if u won't make it

You may lose interest too on this as time goes on or better still, you can carry her along.

myhoodlink:


You may lose interest too on this as time goes on or better still, you can carry her along.

Last thing! Carry her to where?

CountDracula:

Last thing! Carry her to where?

Watching your UEFA Champions League na or EPL

CountDracula:
U need to talk abt UEFA matches o. If it falls on her bday, she shud understand if u won't make it

no 11)

Ur moniker sha... Wer is CountessDracula?lol

striktlymi:
Nice!

thank you

AmberQueen:


no 11)

Ur moniker sha... Wer is CountessDracula?lol

I drained her! If u knw wat I mean

myhoodlink:


Watching your UEFA Champions League na or EPL

She wil jus b askin jamb question there, eg if arsene wenger is manager of arsenal does it mean chelse wenger is d manager of chelsea?

CountDracula:

I drained her! If u knw wat I mean

CountDracula:

She wil jus b askin jamb question there, eg if arsene wenger is manager of arsenal does it mean chelse wenger is d manager of chelsea?

With time, she will catch up with it. Just carry her along

Okay

myhoodlink:
With time, she will catch up with it. Just carry her along

Men ar nt dat patient

What about GENOTYPE COMPATIBILITY N FINANCE. These r one one d issues that is tearing family appart today.

Noloss:
What about GENOTYPE COMPATIBILITY N FINANCE. These r one one d issues that is tearing family appart today.

finance is there tho not specified but btwn bill payment & career,dat can be sorted out. That goes for compartibility too. Eg,if u want a child & she does not or vice versa,u ppl r not compatible then.

However,a point u raised worth noting is d genotype issue so it is included.

Gud job

AmberQueen:


finance is there tho not specified but btwn bill payment & career,dat can be sorted out. That goes for compartibility too. Eg,if u want a child & she does not or vice versa,u ppl r not compatible then.

However,a point u raised worth noting is d genotype issue so it is included.

Amber oh Amber!

Genotype.

if he's to become "pastor", witchdoctor, woli or alfa overnight.

if she is to become petroleum minister overnight


yeah all in career actually.

And to my question to you...

(clears throat and smiles)....

daveP:
Amber oh Amber!

Genotype.

if he's to become "pastor", witchdoctor, woli or alfa overnight.

if she is to become petroleum minister overnight


yeah all in career actually.

And to my question to you...

(clears throat and smiles)....

And ur question is

AmberQueen:




And ur question is

are you (gestures remaining words with hands) (looks@ wristwatch) when the time come, i'll.

Amber! Just reading ur write up today. But come to think of it. Is it posible to get al ds solved b4 wedding? I feel its just too much. Emmmm... I was enjyin ur write up sha. But y is no7 very brief? Please 4 my sake try add more spice pls. Nice write up

Thumbs up @OP
If only couples talk about these things during courtship, we would have better homes with stronger family values and lesser divorce.

12. I should be able to ask myself what is good about me

13. I should be able to know what void I'll be filling in my partner's life. Also, what I'll be bringing into the Union.

Noloss:
What about GENOTYPE COMPATIBILITY N FINANCE. These r one one d issues that is tearing family appart today.

I strongly believe that those should come before dating at all, so also some of those listed above like children, religion, career, bill sharing and most importantly sex.
I believe that one should not get serious with someone if they have doubts about settling down with them. In short, dont smell what u wont eat.

But the OP though, created a thread and metamorphosed into nobody .