She said she would help me travel to the States but she would keep me indoors in her house for 6 months pending when my papers allowing me to move around the US would be ready.

I'm already receiving 75,000 naira per month here in Nigeria and still single.

Please is there any advise from the house?

GET HER INTENTIONS RIGHT.

IF ITS GONNA SUIT YOU AND BETTER YOUR LIFE AFTER THE SIX MONTHS YOU GONNA SPEND IN THE HOUSE. .THEN GO HER WAY


OR ELSE REMAIN WHERE YOU AT WITH YOUR 70K JOB.. CUZ WITH TIME YOU MAY BE PROMOTED AND GET YOUR SALARY INCREASED.

GET HER INTENTIONS RIGHT.

swaggzo:
GET HER INTENTIONS RIGHT.

IF ITS GONNA SUIT YOU AND BETTER YOUR LIFE AFTER THE SIX MONTHS YOU GONNA SPEND IN THE HOUSE. .THEN GO HER WAY


OR ELSE REMAIN WHERE YOU AT WITH YOUR 70K JOB.. CUZ WITH TIME YOU MAY BE PROMOTED AND GET YOUR SALARY INCREASED.

GET HER INTENTIONS RIGHT.

well said. You should discuss ur options with your sister. A pros nd cons list shld help narrow ur choices

Your story get K-Leg oo. May be she needs a baby sitter.

D grass is not always green on the other side Pls be careful when making your decision

After the 6 months and the papers are out, what next? Is she going to further your education or you intend to do menial jobs to earn a living?

You don't have it bad here in Nigeria; you're actually earning a decent wage and with time and more job experience, can actually move to another job that pays better.

Like someone else said, it always 'look' greener on the other side.

At least u go fit do house boy for 6 months na.

Tempting

Not advisable to over stay your b1/b2 visa

How much will she be paying you?

GUYS SHE'S NOT GOING TO PAY, JUST GOING TO WAIT TILL 6 MONTHS B4 D PAPERS GETS READY[b][/b]

Spreads mat

Drabeey:
[b][/b] ''she said she would help me travel to the states but she would put me inside her house for 6 months pending when my papers to mobe around the states would b ready. im already receiving 75k here per month and at least still single.'' pls any advise in the house

your future matters and more guaranteed in US.

anyhow just follow ur heart

You want to abandon a 75k a month salary for an uncertain future in the US? Calm down its not worth it ma dear. Stay back for the moment.

I can see dat d witches in ur village are very powerful. Bros abeg cum back home come join dem.

LOVEGINO:
I can see dat d witches in ur village are very powerful. Bros abeg cum back home come join dem.

@ LOVEGINO, stay with my job or just go there with uncertainty?
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Please stay on your 75k job. For you to clinch that kind of job in a highly saturated labour market such as Nigeria is an indication that you're competitive, or can pull the right strings. No place like home. If you're yet to leave the shores of this country it may still be freaking you, but after a while, "freaking" things soon become ordinary.
And for a lady that you are, you won't like that hustle life your sister wants to introduce you to, trust me.
Questions you should ask yourself?
Is your sister married and happy in the States?
Do you picture yourself in her position in the next couple of years? Excuse me, she will model you to be what she is. If you don't like what you see don't go for it.
Are you happy with your present job? Do you see any hope for the future if you remain on it?
Have you discussed with your confidant?

Drabeey:


@ LOVEGINO, stay with my job or just go there with uncertainty?
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guy wise up! Manage ur job.

@ Op please don't mind this people who are advising you to stay baack in Nigeria oooo, they are not happy for you.

Please ask your self if you see hope in this Country? How much is 75k? Please take this opportunity with both hands,before you know it you would start a job after getting the papers in the US. I want you to think about the quality of Life that the US offers and not the slave wages being paid in Nigeria. Nigeria jst survived a Civil War by whiskers because God intervened through the US and Britain but there is still tension in the Air.

Just sit down and think about all you have to gain by moving to a more developed and stable country.

May God give you the wisdom to make a good decision.

dis story mks no sense abeg.

It is not always greener at the other end but I'll rather take the risk than stay put with a 75k job. @Op after a couple of years you'll realize your risk paid off. You can live the American dream. A word they say is enough for the wise.

candygosh:
Your topic says you have made ur decision. Your post says you r confused

a succint and direct synopsis....

sholay2011:

There's no need for this, 1diot.

two adages come to mind
-silence is the best answer for a .........
-never argue with a fool, lest he drags you down to his level

#peace

Op, did you go to school at all?

Drabeey:
[b][/b] ''she said she would help me travel to the states but she would put me inside her house for 6 months pending when my papers to mobe around the states would b ready. im already receiving 75k here per month and at least still single.'' pls any advise in the house

bro I'm in the states , it's depends on how long you will get your papers to work... Bro you can't just start working here like that.... It takes a lot of time... It all depends sha..

otipoju:
Your story get K-Leg oo. May be she needs a baby sitter.

this got me laffing

My dear, no risk, no reward. I advise you pay attention to self improvement.
75k a month isn't worth your being tied down here. Be clear on why your sis really wants you there if not, take the risk dear!