This is not intended as a counter thread but its something I noticed growing up and still exists.

You see a young girl going out with lecturers old enough to be their dad and grand dad while some go out with their father's friends.

The question is what do they see in these old men leaving we the young ones to dry out?

They see the future

It could be as a result of d witchhes. In their village

They prefer thicker leathers

Young guys na wash. Them no get brain and money

uniqueren:
They see the future

Which future and with who?

With old men that would die before them and leave them as widows?

amsoslim:
It could be as a result of d witchhes. In their village

I just dey watch you

This is something I have never seen with my own eyes. I doubt the validity of your statement.

korel9:


Which future and with who?

With old men that would die before them and leave them as widows?

As widow nd heiress apparently

korel9:


I just dey watch you

taaaar.....hmmmm. U go fear fear, I done turn Plasma screen bah? Strong sumtin

amsoslim:
taaaar.....hmmmm. U go fear fear, I done turn Plasma screen bah? Strong sumtin

Cos old guys gat mulla and younger guys ain't gat shit,but still need to Bleep puna

Money! Money!! Money!!!

Rainess:
This is something I have never seen with my own eyes. I doubt the validity of your statement.

Get your ass to Nigeria if u wanna see it

more money. less work


YOUNG GUYS:
small or no money and
they still want to suck out d oil out of your body.

Women are naturally hypergamous in nature.

Women tend to go for more older men because of financial benefits, the level of their maturity, their high level of exposure and the fact that they're more ready to get married than their (the female's) younger age-mates who are yet to find their feet in their spheres of life.

Cuz kids like op can't handle them well

jacksparrow1207:
Cuz kids like op can't handle them well

Excuse you

korel9:


Excuse you

I will type on behalf of the genuine ones in such relationship.
why because of the security, girls want to feel secured and rest assured that they are not competing with any other girl because the older man already knows what he wants and would likely spend more time pleasing his young love,
they want to feel loved, most young guys don't understand what love is about and treat the girl in ways she doesn't feel comfortable but the older man is more experienced and understands how the girl thinks and what she needs and therefore treat her the way she wants to be treated.

[ ; ;DDquote author=K9blunt post=32441582]I will type on behalf of the genuine ones in such relationship.
why because of the security, girls want to feel secured and rest assured that they are not competing with any other girl because the older man already knows what he wants and would likely spend more time pleasing his young love,
they want to feel loved, most young guys don't understand what love is about and treat the girl in ways she doesn't feel comfortable but the older man is more experienced and understands how the girl thinks and what she needs and therefore treat her the way she wants to be treated.
[/quote]

Coming frm someone wit experience.

Coming frm someone wit experience. [/quote]


I wish.