That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?

enjoy all nah love

eggovinMma tell them

Abort Mission kia kia... I wouldn't dare

Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without being told anyway. I go slap my own back!


MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD men!

SmartChoices:
eggovinMma tell them

I go slap am back.

Well it is her life, but a man who is slapping her now might do something worse in the future, she should think with her head and not be blinded by emotions.

EggovinMma:


I go slap am back.

Dangerous nor try am with an Hausa man dia in Abuja o!

He has not even married her and he is already hitting her, if they come marry nko?

SmartChoices:


Dangerous nor try am with an Hausa man dia in Abuja o!

Hausa man ke? .

Missyetty:
Well it is her life, but a man who is slapping her now might do something worse in the future, she should think with her head and not be blinded by emotions.

That's the point. I explained these line of yours to hers. She was just too emotional to have analysed the situation dispassionately.

4 months relationship, he is already slapping her? The guy no try at all o . Seriously I can't stay in an abusive relationship, if she can cope with him, no problem.

EggovinMma:


Hausa man ke? .

?

EggovinMma:
4 months relationship, he is already slapping her? The guy no try at all o . Seriously I can't stay in an abusive relationship, if she can cope with him, no problem.

I think these are the kind of relationships in which domestic violence are rife!

If you hit me, I'll kick your balls.

Then dump you.

MzNelly:
If you hit me, I'll kick your balls.

Then dump you.

You wan kill am? Haba!

dearpreye:


You wan kill am? Haba!

MzNelly:
If you hit me, I'll kick your balls.

Then dump you.

What if you so much deserve it?

dearpreye:


You wan kill am? Haba!

No mind her.

ronald4lif:
How many more slaps will she want to receive before getting some sense and quit it. Except, slaps turn her on though.

Surprisingly, babe said she was in!

Very beautiful girl; well packaged and oiled by the Creator. ...yet, for reasons best known to her, has committed her future to the hands of a slapper!

Wetin be my own inside sef!

dearpreye:


Surprisingly, babe said she was in!

Very beautiful girl; well packaged and oiled by the Creator. ...yet, for reasons best known to her, has committed her future to the hands of a slapper!

Wetin be my own inside sef!

Truckpusher:
No mind her.

Bro, you don show? Ghen Ghen! !!

dearpreye:


Bro, you don show? Ghen Ghen! !!

I'm looking for Mrs Chima

My man has no business hitting me period! I got brothers!

Truckpusher:
I'm looking for Mrs Chima

Look no further; she's nearer than you tthought!

dearpreye:


I think these are the kind of relationships that eventually in which domestic violence are rife!

Yes.Unfortunately, he will never stop.
Na from slap e dey start o, before e enter blow for eyes.
She better run for her life.Any man that hits me just don't want a step further in the relationship, because after that, the affection will just dissappear fiam! ! From my eyes.

MrsChima:
My man has no business hitting me period! I got brothers!

What has your brothers got to do with your ish?