Why ladies date older men: When you see a pretty lady going out with a much older man, some will say she is a gold digger, that she has no love for the man or it was because of the man's money that she is going out with him. This may be true in some cases, but there some things that attract young ladies to older men and not just their money.

In the first place some ladies like attention: they like aman who can pet them, make them the fucos and centre of their lives. Older men treat a woman this way more than younger men. An older man would be proud that he has such a beautiful girl to call his own. He would be very appreciative of what he has, so he will treat her with much reverence. He will pay her all the attention she needs, and pet her, treat her like a queen and a lady.

But a younger boyfriend will not give her all the attention or treat her thesame way. What do you think?

personally, if i were to go out with an older man, it would be because he's a lot more matured in mentality. but older men aren't my thing really.

i wonder how old u r,dat u need a more matured mentallity??/

Whatever an old man can do. A young man can do, better

I disagree with that your statement layi, Older guys are far more matured than the young ones,they have experienced all areas in a relationship.They are more patient and understanding unlike the lil men that ladies have to battle and teach everything.

Talking fro experience?

Layi, you don't undrestand. Young men will promise you heaven and earth just to get what they want, and as soon as they get it they will change, because there are many young ladiesout their. But older men have tested everything in that game, so they will like to pet her so she won't leave.

They're more matured, more caring and sometimes, they're really interested in you emotionally, spiritually etc than physically.

Dont be parochial. Older men are more experienced true but it could be used against u. They know d best way to get u down as well.

Layi talk talk too much oo.

Older ones not only experience they are wise and caring.

I meant some older men, not all of them.

older manz have weak hearts and deep pockets. all the thinks a real girl wants

Umm, u wrong.

because older men are naturally spose to be more matured. And also because... You don't wanna date someone that's ur age and reason just like u do.

But ehh.. some older men could act like babies.

This is the reason I Hate CELINE DION and MARIAH CAREY

lol. cos they went for older men ehh? Crap. But they can sing!

Mariah Carey is the most annoying , she is in her 20's going for a man old enough to be her father, i mean i could mess around with an older lady but not marriage . That would be gross

Anyways, i dont blame them.

why would you blame them when you are doing the same (just jokin)

haha... lol. nice one. Well u shouldnt blame them too cos u r R.kelly the second.

how am i R.kelly? when i dont date girls below my age or class, ummmmmmmm i dont think i fit into that category.

i meant black

just messing with u. ANyways where the MODIFY thingy.

i dont know where Admin took it

yeah...

i dont think its cool,i quite agree with nddy,he haz a very gud point...

i think it all depends on how mature the girl is. i've got a friend that was dating a guy that was 33. she's younger than me but more mature than me. she obviously couldnt go with a guy that was in her age bracket. a lady that's 19 is older than a guy that's also 19 by 2 years(that's just how it is). now imagine this lady that's 19 and is even more mature than i am(and i'm older than she is), what kinda guy do u think she would go for. definately not a guy that's in her age bracket. she'll wear him out and vice versa. u dig?!!

the reason is simply given by hot-angel and l quote '~*I love Boyz, [b]dey r stupid [/b]^__^ *~

young girls like older men so that they will cheat on him and if its comes to marriage, the old man
will die quickly and they starting messing up. to tell u how wicket girls are.

kai, see dudes hating on the older men

you people are suprise about an older man dating a younger if it 10 to 15 years is better atleast we will say she likes him kinda but i went to a wedding the groom was 70 years and the bride was 29 years can you imagine even her father is 55 years her mother is 50,, the old man's first is 64 and second is 50 can you guys imagine the difference... The old man has money.. i still like bianca's marriage too ojukwu atleast is not that bianca was poor before she got married to him that she loved him, imagine a known man in this town (musicians) sang at a naming ceremony of a new born baby but when the baby grew he got married to her that RIDICULOUS dont they think of the shame or age........

@ adesodgi, i need a man that understands when i talk not one that's more concerned with irrelevant things. but hey i already got one, so i aint complaining