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Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Misogynist2014(m): 5:31pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Justfollowit:I can't see any course for prayer in my post. You don't expect me to father another man's child(ren), do you? Or have you seen a man given a brand new and fairly used model of a car to choose from and goes for the later? But I may consider her if she can take good care of me, that is, pay my bills. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 5:32pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by AdeniyiA(m): 5:33pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Meanwhile 'after one' is better than 'after nothing', at least it shows their fertility and that their reproductive organs have not been bastardized with postinors and all whatnot , as a man how are you sure that lady who's not a virgin has not committed abortions and thereby tamper with natural womb settings? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by johnydon22(m): 5:34pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
godoluwa:Of course their is no law that says i cant marry any woman i want... and i dont think having kids disqualifies any woman from getting married ...Am ok with any woman i fall for. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pressplay55: 5:34pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
because after child birth their pussy go dey like borehole 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Fourwinds: 5:35pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Before i take on some people here, i will like to say dis.... It is not d sweetness of sex u are having in hiding dat matters here but d consequence of dat act. I will boldly tell u many unwedded ladies were deceived into having sex on d promises of marriage and brighter things. But d painful thing were dese girls failed, d allowed d sweetness of d sex to becloud deir thinking of not getting weded before d act |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Godmother(f): 5:35pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I believe itsperceived hard for single mums to hook up because of the notion attached to it. Most people just believe that once a lady has a child out of wedlock it means she has at one time or the other being promiscuous. Nobody wants to understand that she could easily have gotten rid of the pregnancy but chose not to maybe cos of her beliefs or strong principles. Anyways, I personally don't think they find it hard to get married. A few men would even like a woman like that cos they feel it means she's fertile. Other men who have been married before and already have kids would rush such women cos they might not want any more kids and know the lady might not be gunning for any either. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by 1miccza: 5:36pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
jaybee3: Tell her she doesn't understand 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by bimbor(m): 5:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: Hhmmmmm |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 5:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Isn't it even more risky to marry a well packaged fraud (I'm sure it ain't hard to identify them in our midst) #Just saying! 6 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by godoluwa(m): 5:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
johnydon22:wishing u d best |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: You see how you keep fooling yourself, you can only marry a single woman if she could pay your bills. How many times have I told you to stop calling yourself a man. You are a boy-man not a man. It is high time you start identifying with that. Sorry to disappoint you most men would choose a used Lamborghini over a new range rover 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Fairgodwin: Ain't you a guy? Why not marry one and advise your friends, relatives etc to do same. In fact, your dad can get another wife and do the same. Do as you preach, lead by example 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Godmother(f): 5:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
jaybee3: All join biko |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by coldFLARES1(m): 5:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
It's pretty difficult to cope with the challenges/complications of being entangled with a single mom. The majority of them carry a baggage of grudge from their failed relationships that they may never wholeheartedly commit. Always on the lookout for bad behavior to justify their non-commital; mostly unforgiving cos of their pasts as well. Very sensitive to the treatment of their extra baggage thus requiring a nerve wracking diplomacy to deal with. Honestly, people still love them, but it would require more than that to be responsible for the total welbeing of a child/children, who would go back to their dads; whom would be required to a handled with much sensitivity and diplomacy while being alienated by, maybe, friends and family. ...and if a single girl is available, why go through the stress? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by netmillionaires(m): 5:39pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Jusome:and what make u believed that she didn't try to abort the baby but failed. Or what makes U believed that it is not the fear of losing her life that make her not to rather than the will to keep the pregnancy. Yes! Love is important. But that's if U love her b4 getting to know she already have an issue. The fact that she failed to tell me in the first instance is enough reason to backout because I will be wondering what else is she still keeping away from me. I can't speak for others, but as for me I can't toll that line again. Never! Because I av seen lots of people who tried abortion yet the pregnancy continue to boom 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Sunymoore(m): 5:40pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: Are you a man.? |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by godoluwa(m): 5:41pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Justfollowit:odiegwu. lmao |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by DeRay98(m): 5:44pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
[quote author=Dyt post=32715045][/quote] Thinking this postal, Wahala dey o, but you know that even you won't want or tolerate another sharing your man....talk less of her being the majority shareholder. No wonder that there are men poachers in town yet women still blame married men for having flings...ewoooo! |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by edetcnn(m): 5:44pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
steppin: |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by itops(f): 5:44pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
KillerBeauty: honestly there are no words...... i just tire sef |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Misogynist2014(m): 5:45pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Hope you read where I wrote 'same model'. You think its bad spending a woman's money? I think its cool. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:45pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
DeRay98: English pls |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
it depends on an individual but for me as single minded one, i real dn't care so far she is a good type,... |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:46pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
redcliff: We have a talk when you grow up 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:47pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
lockupman: You haven't finished growing |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:48pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
veraponpo: No I have seen it Witnessed it People I know and around me don't discriminate |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Fourwinds: 5:48pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Nursy:correct. Dats one very good point. 2. It will be funny to bring a girl with a kid to ur family and announce to dem u want to get weded except ur have urs already. AMANDIOHA. 3. U may have problem dealing with dat child once she/he grows up in d near future because he/she is not ur biological child. 4. Dis one is very deadly. Some women are not loyal at all. It is just like d case of a girl who will never forget d guy dat disvirgin her. Women are too emotional, d guy dat dump dem before dey find comfort in u can appear one day. Before u say Jesus, u will find her all over him and she is gone with d guy and d child. Dis one in particular, i fear women. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Toks2008(m): 5:49pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
egbedore: its not difficult but they make it difficult. there is always a balanced form of affairs which many people overlook. An unmarried single mother will best be appreciated nd loved ny an unmarried single guy A divorced lady will mostly be appreciated by a widower or married man and ofcourse a divorced guy with children. but when an unmarried single mother starts eyeing single guys that hve no child out of wedlock then she will most likely find it difficult. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by gnykelly(m): 5:49pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
cKaiser:uncle na excess supply dem dey. ooo |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 5:49pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by bidex(m): 5:49pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
egbedore:.... The major issue is based on trust. Most of these Ladies tell series of lies why they are single mothers. 1 Like |
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