Dyt:


No
I have seen it
Witnessed it
People I know and around me don't discriminate

steppin:

Looks like you're a single mother.
Congrats!

donnypool:


Ain't you a guy? Why not marry one and advise your friends, relatives etc to do same. In fact, your dad can get another wife and do the same. Do as you preach, lead by example

Toks2008:


those pple are probably foreigners n not Nigerians.

AdeniyiA:
Meanwhile 'after one' is better than 'after nothing', at least it shows their fertility and that their reproductive organs have not been bastardized with postinors and all whatnot , as a man how are you sure that lady who's not a virgin has not committed abortions and thereby tamper with natural womb settings?

KillerBeauty:
Getting married as a single mother is challenging because.....
















I seriously don't know what to say
Sorry op

Dyt:


And is that some sort of life threatening disease?

netmillionaires:

and what make u believed that she didn't try to abort the baby but failed. Or what makes U believed that it is not the fear of losing her life that make her not to rather than the will to keep the pregnancy.
Yes! Love is important. But that's if U love her b4 getting to know she already have an issue. The fact that she failed to tell me in the first instance is enough reason to backout because I will be wondering what else is she still keeping away from me. I can't speak for others, but as for me I can't toll that line again. Never!
Because I av seen lots of people who tried abortion yet the pregnancy continue to boom

KillerBeauty:
Getting married as a single mother is challenging because.....
















I seriously don't know what to say
Sorry op

sexyseun:
If I were a guy I won't have anything to do with a single mother.
1st they are the unlucky ones whom the society frowns on as per being a biatch
2ndly they are not d smarter ones, I hate stewpid Pple
3rdly they always put their frustration and blame on d next guy
4thly the guy wud b a victim of an unknown circumstances

steppin:

Did ever say that?
Unless, of course, you're reading meanings into it.
How is she?
Hope she's fine? I'd love to see her pic.

steppin:

Huh?
I can't believe a lady said this.
Dyt, come o!

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

Dyt:


*rolls eyes*

Dyt:


Who's she?
And where did you ever read Dyt is single?
I am by far taken
I got an adorable son to show for it
And even if I become single today, I will get men over and over
I am a lioness and we don't lack

Fourwinds:
what he said is true. Plenty men are not ready for marriage. Some are being coerce into it. One thing i have seen about girls is.... Dey think more of wedding Dan marriage itself. Even d struggling couples spends huge money on wedding and after dat either certain money will be pay back or d man has to borrow to kick d home moving before dey stabilize. Perform a wedding as u can. If it is #50000, #10000m,#200000 and so on

steppin:

Ok o! Allow single mums to defend themselves.

Fairgodwin:

I only share [in] the plight of such women and brother, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

WORLDPEACE:

You come online con dey make mouth. Thats always easy sha.

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

Wedon:


So it's better to marry an abortionist than a single mother?

Isn't that hypocrisy of the highest order?

ziqqz:
In summary:

1. Worn-out bodies after birth in many cases. For example, they lose much sensation on their nipples after bre.ast-feeding; bre.asts fall out of shape and become saggy; down there opens up real wide after a child's head tears through (from being as tight as a ring to becoming as open as a bangle...feel me?; stretch marks go yakpa! etc.

2. It's usually too difficult to take her child(ren) as your own and love them the way she would want. Frictions usually arise because her child(ren) find it hard to also love the new so-called father. Consequently, the woman usually finds herself having to take sides between child(ren) and new mugu husband.

3. Why on God's green earth would any reasonable dude wanna take on the extra baggage when there are too many single, standing- bre.asted, tighter pvssy (maybe even virgins!), and virtuous ladies out there?

4. Single mothers, IMHO, abeg shift jhoor... If you no take second-hand husbands like you, na una sabi!

Dyt:


*rolls eyes*

donciccio:


by your comment I guess ure one so trying to psyche yourself up is a good idea but playing reverse psychology won't pay.

bimbor:


You also forget that after your wife's first childbirth she qualifies for all your above qualities. Will you divorce her then or you will tell her not to breastfeed because you want her breast to remain standing? Every woman will eventually give birth to children, and the husbands still keep loving them. So what makes the case of the single mother special and abnormal?

Dyt:


We have a talk when you grow up

redcliff:


Even when i "grow up" i dont want to come across you.. bye...