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What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by josgolf(m): 7:09am On Apr 18, 2015
Dont really know if this's the right place to post this...but please pardon me if not,and also pardon the long read...

Sex is an important element in
marriage and until there is sexual
intercourse between a husband and a
wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually
recognized.This shows how important sex is in
marriage.

When you look at how aggressive men
are towards sex you may think that
what a man needs from a woman is
sex.
Of course, if he has not married you
yet or he does not really intend to
marry you what he will need from you
is nothing above your body.
But if he really intends to marry you or
if you guys are already married, sex is
never what he needs from you maybe
let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN
NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT
SEX."

Many young girls think because they
are sexually active and experienced;
they will easily be married and have
their husbands loving them. And when
a man approaches for marriage they
think the greatest asset they have to
show the man is sex.
Others also think once they are giving
out their bodies it means they are
giving out the best for which reason
they will be chosen above all.lolzz!

There is this young girl who is
very beautiful and sexually active. Due
to that she thought sex is all that
matters to a man. Ironically, she
struggled for long before finally getting
married. Her sexual
dexterity could not win her the heart of
a man; until out of the blue and
reason,beyond imagination a very
handsome good man married her. The
wedding was grand and her tears were
now gone.
Unfortunately only a year after the
wedding the marriage fell on
rocks.Within five years three different
men came her way( BOSS-LADY) but
none could stay.
The problem was simple. She thought
sex was all that
matters so she would never submit.But
submission is what men need,not sex.

It is time for our young ladies to know
that when a man is ready to marry he
will not look out for a woman who will
satisfy his sex drive but a woman who
will submit herself to him.
Excuse my language, "every woman
has the "V" (you know what that
means) but not every woman has
humility." So when you are a humble
woman,you are an expensive jewelry.
And a man of integrity will fear to lose
you.

What does the Bible say,
"wife, submit to your husband."
The reason is that a man's true
love goes out only for a
woman who is submissive. Your
beauty cannot make another woman
ugly but your humility can let him love
you above all other women.
Sadly, many young ladies in our days
call submission as"control." And you
will hear them
saying in tiny romantic voices,
"As for me I don't want any man to
control me oh."
If you don't want to submit don't think
of marriage because no
man in his right sense will offer his
love to a woman whose heart is higher
than his height,no matter how short he
may be.
When a woman bows her knee before
her man,the man will automatically
bow his heart before her love.And love
her sincerely.There are, of course,
recalcitrant men who will not value
women of humility but I tell you
solemnly, that every true man does not
need sex, but submission.

It is submission that truly makes you a
romantic wife. So be the African queen
you want to be but when it comes to
dealing with your husband,play the role
of a humble maid.
Don't forget that it is the spirit of
humility that has caused many maids
to hijack their mistresses' husbands.
Be your man's queen and be his maid
also.I wish you all the best as you
submit in your relationship
and marriage. May God bless your
homes!

Sorry....this is X-rated.....
read responsibly........
Before you judge me, make sure
you're perfect okay??......
......Just spreading the ministry...........
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=623160494485730&id=100003753563833&refid=8&_ft_=qid.6138951269086213125%3Amf_story_key.-8952307369603357981&fbt_id=623160494485730&lul&ref_component=mbasic_photo_permalink_actionbar&_rdr#s_f3406b4ce9fdcbc973bcfe996a2863d4

Please mods...help push to fp.

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by cozy7(m): 7:10am On Apr 18, 2015
You're on point Op. They think their body is all d weapon they need to get n pin down a man.....hence, the skimpy dress code, coupled with seductive walk n attitude.
Well, those who fail to learn from write-ups like this, will hv to learn from experience.
Humility was d weapon our early parents had, that's y there were less divorce cases, but these days, divorce is now so common, like every marriage has got an expiry date.....I fear for our generation unborn.

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Pinkiedearie(f): 7:15am On Apr 18, 2015
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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by imbless: 7:29am On Apr 18, 2015
!;:
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by dulux07(m): 7:34am On Apr 18, 2015
Yes, ooo. If u like fine like agbani, dress like kim k, sexy lik nicki, if u r not submissive that union wont last. Ever wonder y some men cheat on their partners despite how beautiful n classy their partners r, d lady not being submissive is one of the cause. Even those days wen women were been married off to strangers, d marriage still lasted, cos ladies then wer very submissive, but now na so so, divorce full town.

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by kristen12(f): 7:35am On Apr 18, 2015
undecided
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Hazardd(m): 7:36am On Apr 18, 2015
those girls who have ears, let them hear!
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Hazardd(m): 7:38am On Apr 18, 2015
kristen12:
undecided

see how you keep face like what OP said don't concern you smh

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by kristen12(f): 7:45am On Apr 18, 2015
Hazardd:


see how you keep face like what OP said don't concern you smh
What A̶̲̥̅♏ I supposed to do?
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Hazardd(m): 7:50am On Apr 18, 2015
kristen12:

What A̶̲̥̅♏ I supposed to do?

you keep face as if op is lying!
Just that i hate seeing that face
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by kristen12(f): 7:52am On Apr 18, 2015
Hazardd:


you keep face as if op is lying!
Just that i hate seeing that face
Pretend as if Ɣ☺ΰ didn't see it
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Hazardd(m): 7:54am On Apr 18, 2015
kristen12:

Pretend as if Ɣ☺ΰ didn't see it

i dont know how to pretend,
is like you are pro at that
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by kristen12(f): 7:55am On Apr 18, 2015
Hazardd:


i dont know how to pretend,
is like you are pro at that
Yes, I am
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Hazardd(m): 8:04am On Apr 18, 2015
kristen12:

Yes, I am

is it why you put that face to pretnd?
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by tablu: 8:26am On Apr 18, 2015
In this period of women empowerment and gender equality alot of women will not agree with this but I soo admire ur courage to tell them this truth to there faces...may God help our generation!

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by quivah(f): 8:28am On Apr 18, 2015
LOL cheesy
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Welrez(m): 8:45am On Apr 18, 2015
quivah:
LOL cheesy
What is so funny about the OP?
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by klark3: 9:41am On Apr 18, 2015
josgolf:
Dont really know if this's the right place to post this...but please pardon me if not,and also pardon the long read...

Sex is an important element in
marriage and until there is sexual
intercourse between a husband and a
wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually
recognized.This shows how important sex is in
marriage.

When you look at how aggressive men
are towards sex you may think that
what a man needs from a woman is
sex.
Of course, if he has not married you
yet or he does not really intend to
marry you what he will need from you
is nothing above your body.
But if he really intends to marry you or
if you guys are already married, sex is
never what he needs from you maybe
let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN
NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT
SEX."

Many young girls think because they
are sexually active and experienced;
they will easily be married and have
their husbands loving them. And when
a man approaches for marriage they
think the greatest asset they have to
show the man is sex.
Others also think once they are giving
out their bodies it means they are
giving out the best for which reason
they will be chosen above all.lolzz!

There is this young girl who is
very beautiful and sexually active. Due
to that she thought sex is all that
matters to a man. Ironically, she
struggled for long before finally getting
married. Her sexual
dexterity could not win her the heart of
a man; until out of the blue and
reason,beyond imagination a very
handsome good man married her. The
wedding was grand and her tears were
now gone.
Unfortunately only a year after the
wedding the marriage fell on
rocks.Within five years three different
men came her way( BOSS-LADY) but
none could stay.
The problem was simple. She thought
sex was all that
matters so she would never submit.But
submission is what men need,not sex.

It is time for our young ladies to know
that when a man is ready to marry he
will not look out for a woman who will
satisfy his sex drive but a woman who
will submit herself to him.
Excuse my language, "every woman
has the "V" (you know what that
means) but not every woman has
humility." So when you are a humble
woman,you are an expensive jewelry.
And a man of integrity will fear to lose
you.

What does the Bible say,
"wife, submit to your husband."
The reason is that a man's true
love goes out only for a
woman who is submissive. Your
beauty cannot make another woman
ugly but your humility can let him love
you above all other women.
Sadly, many young ladies in our days
call submission as"control." And you
will hear them
saying in tiny romantic voices,
"As for me I don't want any man to
control me oh."
If you don't want to submit don't think
of marriage because no
man in his right sense will offer his
love to a woman whose heart is higher
than his height,no matter how short he
may be.
When a woman bows her knee before
her man,the man will automatically
bow his heart before her love.And love
her sincerely.There are, of course,
recalcitrant men who will not value
women of humility but I tell you
solemnly, that every true man does not
need sex, but submission.

It is submission that truly makes you a
romantic wife. So be the African queen
you want to be but when it comes to
dealing with your husband,play the role
of a humble maid.
Don't forget that it is the spirit of
humility that has caused many maids
to hijack their mistresses' husbands.
Be your man's queen and be his maid
also.I wish you all the best as you
submit in your relationship
and marriage. May God bless your
homes!

Sorry....this is X-rated.....
read responsibly........
Before you judge me, make sure
you're perfect okay??......
......Just spreading the ministry...........
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=623160494485730&id=100003753563833&refid=8&_ft_=qid.6138951269086213125%3Amf_story_key.-8952307369603357981&fbt_id=623160494485730&lul&ref_component=mbasic_photo_permalink_actionbar&_rdr#s_f3406b4ce9fdcbc973bcfe996a2863d4

Please mods...help push to fp.
May God bless u for this post.

But it will be very difficult for women to be submissive as it was in d past, because men of this generation pamper women too much... Our forefathers had control over love & sex, so they were able to put women in their rightful place...

But men of dis generation are weak, so when dey are in love or in need of sex, they are willing to lick a lady's a$$, & dis is seriously affecting women's perception abt submission...

U can use nairaland as a case study, I really don't blame women though for not being submissive, men caused it, we failed to put women in their rightful place.

Am afraid d present day man is gradually trading his position as a man for love & sex...

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 18, 2015
Yàwn...waiting for a counter thread. Hmm lemme run before these jobless NL men bash me ooh lipsrsealed
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 2:07pm On Apr 19, 2015
Mojanity:
Yàwn...waiting for a counter thread. Hmm lemme run before these jobless NL men bash me ooh lipsrsealed

Do you like big dick? I got one
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 19, 2015
uselessgoat:


Do you like big dick? I got one
where did that question come from?
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 8:23pm On Apr 19, 2015
Mojanity:
where did that question come from?
Uselessgoat, watch ur tongue.... :>(
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by KingTom(m): 10:03am On Apr 21, 2015
Mojanity:
where did that question come from?
His dick! grin
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 23, 2015
KingTom:
His dick! grin
what is a dick lipsrsealed
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by KingTom(m): 12:22am On Apr 24, 2015
Mojanity:
what is a dick lipsrsealed
A long thick strong object grin
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by themodernman: 12:59am On Apr 24, 2015
klark3:

May God bless u for this post.

But it will be very difficult for women to be submissive as it was in d past, because men of this generation pamper women too much... Our forefathers had control over love & sex, so they were able to put women in their rightful place...

But men of dis generation are weak, so when dey are in love or in need of sex, they are willing to lick a lady's a$$, & dis is seriously affecting women's perception abt submission...

U can use nairaland as a case study, I really don't blame women though for not being submissive, men caused it, we failed to put women in their rightful place.

Am afraid d present day man is gradually trading his position as a man for love & sex...

Sense making quote men! A Professor of mine once told me a study found out the Pure water we drink contain some Oestrogens in its satchet that's probably making men become weaker...a man must always put a woman in her place if he wants respect. Gone forever are d days when women respect men on a platter of gold...nowadays there are so many poisonous messages entering women's ears on empowerment & all those bullshit...you gotta take your stand...its end time tinz o!

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 10:41am On Apr 24, 2015
KingTom:
A long thick strong object grin
like a nepa pole shocked
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 10:46am On Apr 24, 2015
themodernman:


Sense making quote men! A Professor of mine once told me a study found out the Pure water we drink contain some Oestrogens in its satchet that's probably making men become weaker...a man must always put a woman in her place if he wants respect. Gone forever are d days when women respect men on a platter of gold...nowadays there are so many poisonous messages entering women's ears on empowerment & all those bullshit...you gotta take your stand...its end time tinz o!
haha grin this comment should be in the joke section

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by themodernman: 12:44pm On Apr 24, 2015
Mojanity:
haha grin this comment should be in the joke section

I've got a reaction...dats what I wanna see....

No mind all d trash women say oh...ds same women have men they don't try nonsense with, will now see a weak guy & be forming one stuupid empowerment.

Men take your stand! She will bend & if she doesn't den remind her what happens to things dat dont bend

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Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by KingTom(m): 12:29am On Apr 25, 2015
Mojanity:
like a nepa pole shocked
No, like sugarcane grin
Re: What A Man Needs Is SUBMISSION not SEX by Nobody: 6:12am On Apr 25, 2015
What a load of nonsense. Both shaming women for having a sexuality and insisting they are beneath men in one post. If a man just wants something that will offer him no challenge he might as well date a goat. Relationships are about compromise and communication, not submission.

Catch up with the rest of the world.

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