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Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by liljboy(m): 10:14am On Apr 19, 2015
More often than not, the basis of modern
relationship is SEX, especially for the guys.
.
A guy sees a girl, he likes her body parts, asks
her out, she likes his looks (and maybe his
wallet/intelligence), accepts and sooner than
soon, they are rumpling sheets.
.
This sheet-rumpling may go on until one or both
get bored and find another bedroom mate/
lover.
.
Sadder still, one may want marriage – usually
the woman, while the other just wants to hit.
.
Well, instead of wasting your time in a
relationship where you are just a sex partner,
you might want to find out how to know if your
relationship is healthy and may become
something permanent.

1. You both have the spare keys to each
other’s houses.
2. You both don’t lock the door when
bathing or taking a shit.
3. You can wear his clothes, or you let her
wear your clothes without worries.
4. You can fart in openly and laugh
together over it.
5. You help each other shave the private
places.
6. You don’t have to do makeup or shave
beards before meeting.
7. You leave your cloths in each other’s
apartments.
8. You do laundry for him or her.
9. You can miss birthdays or not buy
Valentine gifts and it doesn’t cause a
fight.
10. You discuss health problems and care for
each other when ill.
11. You talk are comfortable being naked
together without having sex.
12. You discuss about number of kids and
wedding ideas.
13. You take showers together.
14. You buy matching clothes or dress alike
when going out.
15. You cook local food together and mess
up the kitchen together.
16. You can answer each other’s phone.
17. Your friends and family members call you
when they need to speak to him or her.
18. Your pet names for each other are known
by your friends.
19. You use the some body lotion and
perfumes, even though you weren’t
before
20. You discuss past relationships at ease.
21. You discuss business/future ambitions or
your partner always asks your future
plans.
22. You make joint investments.

.
Lastly, as a bonus, when you and your lover get
to a point where you don’t have sex each time
you meet and yet you are happy, then you’re
both in it.
If you find all or many of these signs, start
saving up for a wedding!

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Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by Nobody: 10:15am On Apr 19, 2015
Good to be back....meanwhile the guy below me have something to say
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by Basildvalour(m): 10:18am On Apr 19, 2015
I have found all but one
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by naijaboiy: 10:38am On Apr 19, 2015
Food For thought.
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by Nobody: 10:42am On Apr 19, 2015
naijaboiy:
Food For thought.
oga, you no go church undecided ?
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by sinaj(f): 10:44am On Apr 19, 2015
sinaj
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by liljboy(m): 10:45am On Apr 19, 2015
Basildvalour:
I have found all but one
which is?
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by naijaboiy: 10:47am On Apr 19, 2015
Orijin101:

oga, you no go church undecided ?
i nor go o grin
Hangover things. sad
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 19, 2015
naijaboiy:

i nor go o grin
Hangover things. sad
I no sure say God still fit forgive people like you ooo
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by Basildvalour(m): 11:00am On Apr 19, 2015
liljboy:
which is?
She pressures for sex so long as we r unclad angry
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by naijaboiy: 11:03am On Apr 19, 2015
Orijin101:

I no sure say God still fit forgive people like you ooo
if God no fit forgive me he suppose don strike people like you with thunder. cheesy
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:39am On Apr 19, 2015

1. You both have the spare keys to each
other’s houses.
I keep my spare key where my close friends and 'missy' can find it. 'Missy' and I have this unspoken rule about visiting each only with prior notice. We are both busy and somewhat private persons.

5. You help each other shave the private
places.
Hell no! I can't trust any other being with shaving my balls. You'll have to sedate me to do that but I'll skin you when I find out. That's more intimate than sex!

6. You don’t have to do makeup or shave
beards before meeting.
I keep my beards nicely groomed every time and she isn't really into make-up.
9. You can miss birthdays or not buy
Valentine gifts and it doesn’t cause a
fight.
I'm a stickler for marking anniversaries. I don't forget important dates.

10. You discuss health problems and care for
each other when ill.
Yes, we talk about everything and anything. I once discovered a lump in her breàsts during handling and we argued about seeking medical attention. She agreed to it, thankfully.

11. You talk are comfortable being naked
together without having sex.
She thinks I'm a narcissist/semi-nudist. Ever been cuddled up in bed playing candy crush on a PC? I can't help but handle though. wink

13. You take showers together.
Certainly. This helps erase her inhibitions and improves her confidence in her body.
14. You buy matching clothes or dress alike
when going out.
Don't be too forward. This should happen when you are COURTING/ENGAGED.


16. You can answer each other’s phone.
Even married couples shouldn't do this.

17. Your friends and family members call you
when they need to speak to him or her.
A girl once listed me as her emergency contact. I was moved. Too bad I wasn't ready for what she wanted then.

18. Your pet names for each other are known
by your friends.
She blushes when I call her.


20. You discuss past relationships at ease.
Yes, we do.

21. You discuss business/future ambitions or
your partner always asks your future
plans.
She actually made me begin writing my first novel. She's become my unofficial editor.


22. You make joint investments.
This is tricky.

Lastly, as a bonus, when you and your lover get
to a point where you don’t have sex each time
you meet and yet you are happy, then you’re
both in it.
. I guess she understands the fact that I have a very high libido.
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Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by tablu: 12:05pm On Apr 19, 2015
Too me oh! Sex has a way of screwing up relationships! I hv had my own fair share of experience, even remember my ex breaking up with me because I said no sex...
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by liljboy(m): 2:02pm On Apr 19, 2015
tablu:
Too me oh! Sex has a way of screwing up relationships! I hv had my own fair share of experience, even remember my ex breaking up with me because I said no sex...
exception
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by liljboy(m): 2:04pm On Apr 19, 2015
Basildvalour:
She pressures for sex so long as we r unclad angry
eyahhhh he who flees temptation leaves a forwarding address.
Re: Signs Your Romance Is LOVE, Not SEX And MARRIAGE Is Near! by Nobody: 2:09pm On Apr 19, 2015
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