RedEboe:


You are very right.
I once had a female friend that was engaged to here 'foreign-based' bobo for about 3 years. He still married some else over there.

somegirl1:


They married smart women, not bimbos, who were with them before they made lots of money.

Tvegas:
Your number 5 point is quite weird . Never,ever chase a woman in a relationship else you get burnt. If she is vulnerable after collecting anothers man's ring,what is the proof she wont be vulnerable after you give her a ring?. If she wants to date you let her leave her boyfriend first . Women of integrity dont change anyhow,when they are with you there is no vulnerability.

RedEboe:


Again another big lie.
MONEY can help you win (some) girls' body(ies) but it can NEVER help you win their Love & Loyalty

abbey621:


Exactly my point, they were nothing without money!

Mariojane:
sorry no 3 can never work in my father's house. no date in my parent house. the rule in my house is no girl brings a boy home and no boy brings a girl to the house until when i see a sign of seriousness in u and I am included in your future.

my dad hates the idea of bringing diff people to the house, he believes it gives the family bad name or something.
he keeps telling us 'no matter how spoilt the world is, there r guys and ladies somewhere that will search to settle for decent people with decent background and upbringing'.

IN SUMMARY you r welcome to my daddy's house after i see how serious you r. u r not to tell me u r serious, i will see it myself

Justfollowit:
Nigerian girls yaff suffered

somegirl1:


I'm saying their wives didn't marry them for money, so money isn't all a man requires to get women. It does help however but there are several qualities many women would choose over money.

nawtibownie:
Some ladies will never fall for these. Never!!

Femistico:
That no 5 sha...@op do u know karma...Be xpecting exactly d same thing when u also put engagement ring in ur woman's hand and someone came from nowhere to use dat no 5 on her again...

Queendarlene:
The way nairaland guys study Nigerian Girls is becoming alarming oooo
We need some breathing space.

Xena01:
Naija guys are stupid for thinking a lady is all about money.... Ladies need love.... The money is security

peren:
The very first list of "ways to" that i agree with. Nice one op

naijaboiy:

This may be true but I'm totally not in support of it.

Any man who does this to me will not be happy in that marriage. He should go and look for his own fresh girl and put a ring on her finger not to steal my own.

Ogun will strike such man and the yeye weakling of a girl for falling easily.

Truckpusher:
Dechandel, I sent you a pm.

Do reply me - At least I'm not asking you for sex.

Truckpusher:


Bro, sometimes you need to state here clearly that you're not sending them pms for sex.

RedEboe:
1. Are you a fine boy? Forget all you've heard, the truth is NIGERIAN GIRLS LOVE HANDSOME MEN. Though many do end up with not-too-handsome dudes, and it's not their fault. A lot of good-looking Nigerian men rely more on their looks and invest little in character and other qualities. 'Ugly men' on the other hand invest a lot in character,wealth and other qualities unrelated to their physicaL appearance. If you are a good-looking guy,but also focused more on character, making good money, God etc, A Nigerian girl will pick you ahead others.

2. Be Bold and Blunt: This may sound ridiculous, but a Nigerian single lady will register a total stranger in her subconscious if he walks up to her from nowhere and says, "I think I want to marry you". This does not mean she'll say "Yes" or that you (the stranger) won't get a dirty slap (very unlikely though), she'll most probably laugh, hiss and walk away. This scenario is in the event that you met her at a random public location. If you met this Nigerian lady say in her office, and told her you want to marry her from day one...with subsequent, persistent and follow up visits, she'll say "Yes" in 3 to 6 months.

3. Let your first date be in her parents house: when you've seen a Nigerian lady that you want to marry visit her in her parents or guardian's house first before taking her out to cinemas, malls, beach etc. If she's not staying with parents or guardians, insist on meeting them first (even if dem dey village) . This move/gesture has a psychological effect on Nigerian ladies, makes them let down their guards and take you VERY SERIOUSLY.

4. Ensure your current house is at least a 2 bedroom flat with no male squatters. When a serious Nigerian lady comes to visit you, and she meets a mini-flat with mattresses on the floor and one or two of your guys wearing boxers and 'hailing' her, chances of her marrying you diminishes by 60%. If a more serious suitor walks into her life at that moment,and he lives ALONE in a 2 or 3 bedroom flat, SHE WILL MARRY HIM.

5. If she's already wearing another man's engagement ring then your chances are brighter: Yes, this is a very controversial point but Nigerian ladies that are already engaged tend to be very vulnerable, relationship wise; they tend to feel as though being on the edge of a cliff and waiting for a 'reasonable voice' to tell them "DON'T JUMP". You can end up being that 'reasonable voice' when you fall in love with a Nigerian lady that is already engaged to another man. Hey, she hasn't said "I do" yet, hence all is fair in love and war. If you really love her, take advantage of her vulnerable state of being engaged and sell yourself as a better product. SHE WILL LISTEN and there's a 49% chance that she'd say "Yes" to you. 49% is NOT a bad probability ratio at all considering the circumstances.

Comments and insults are Welcome.

LOL!!!

naijaboiy:

This may be true but I'm totally not in support of it.

Any man who does this to me will not be happy in that marriage. He should go and look for his own fresh girl and put a ring on her finger not to steal my own.

Ogun will strike such man and the yeye weakling of a girl for falling easily.

Truckpusher:
Dechandel, I sent you a pm.

Do reply me - At least I'm not asking you for sex.

braine:
hypocrite.

Truckpusher:
Dechandel, I sent you a pm.
Do reply me - At least I'm not asking you for sex.