tartar9:
Trash!
you cant just wake up or get angry and say "i divorce you" and get a divorce.the Talak is a long process consisting of the steps of;Initiation,Reconciliation and Completion.the phrase "I divorce you" is used to signify the consummation of the divorce process.

(2:230) Then, if he divorces her (for the third time, after having pronounced the divorce twice), she shall not be lawful to him unless she first takes another man for a husband, and he divorces her. 253 There is no blame upon them if both of them return to one another thereafter, provided they think that they will be able to keep within the bounds set by Allah. These are the bounds of Allah which He makes clear to a people who have knowledge (of the consequences of violating those bounds).

vooks:

Negro please!
What are the conditions for remarriage between two divorcees? Are you literate?

tartar9:
did he ask a question or you find no problem that he initiated his ignorant write-up with glaring falsehood.any two divorces can remarry but after divorce of three times,they can no longer remarry unless she has married another man and he also has divorced her this should be a real marriage.Marrying in order to remarry and then to divorce is not allowed in Islam

basilico:



Gbam. A Muslim now confirms that if you want to remarry your wife Someone else has to marry her. sscrew her and then divorce her. For her to become lawful to the original hubbie.
Islam sucks.

tartar9:
did he ask a question or you find no problem that he initiated his ignorant write-up with glaring falsehood.any two divorcee can remarry but after divorce of three times,they can no longer remarry unless she has married another man and he also has divorced her. this should be a real marriage.Marrying in order to remarry and then to divorce is not allowed in Islam

NIKAH—A PLEDGE OF LOYALTY

Nikah is that strong relationship in which the Shariah Law binds man and woman. This relationship leaves deep impressions on the social life. For this reason Islam wants that this relationship should be more and more strong. Accordingly in the holy Qur’an it has been termed as a firm pledge:

“and they (women) had taken from you firm pledge. ” (Surah An-Nisa-21)

Allah has made this alliance a means of love, affection and blessings between the spouses, in order that they may get comfort and peace and may lead a happy life:

“And He created between you love and blessings.” (Surah Ar-Roum-21).

“He it is that created you from a single soul, and there- from made his mate so that he might find comfort in her.” (Surah Al A‘raf- 189).

“They are your garments and you are their garments". (Surah Baqarah- 187).

In other words husband and wife have the relationship of hand and glove. As garments not only cover the naked body but also beautify it, similarly the spouses cover one another’s defects and are a means of beautification of one another’s life.

HARMONIOUS LIVING WITH THE LIFE- PARTNER

In view of this importance of marriage (nikah) and in view of its high objectives it is imperative that efforts should be made to keep this relationship going permanently and to maintain the marital relations on sound footing. It is improper to end this strong relationship merely on the flimsy ground that the wife is not beautiful or that there is something wanting in her temperament. In this connection, the Our’an gives these directions:

“Live with them in a good manner. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allah has placed (for you) much good therein. ” (Surah An-A/isa- 19).

It is possible that the wife may not be beautiful, but may have good character; and it is possible that there may be something wanting in her temperament but against that there may be some other good qualities in her that may be useful for the conjugal happiness, e.g. she may have sincere love for her husband and may be taking great pains to serve him in every way she can.

The Prophet (SallaI lahu alaihi wa saliam) has said:

“No Momin (believer) male should hate a Momth female; if one particular trait of her character is disliked by him, (possibly) oilier trait would be liked by him. ” (Muslim)

It should also be borne in mind that women generally are emotional, and because of this they quickly fall a prey to misunderstanding, which creates a lot of problems in domestic life. But being a member of the stronger sex the task of the husband is to see that matters do not get complicated. The Prophet (SalIal lahu alaihi wa sallam) has said:

“Treat women fairly, because a woman is born form the rib (of Adam,), and the most curved part of the rib is its upper part. If you would try to straighten it, you would break it, and if you would leave it alone, it would remain curved Therefore, give women better treatment. ” (Bukhari,)

In this example a hint is given about the weak under-standing and volatile temperament of the weaker sex, and men have been directed to be tolerant and kind. The object of this tradition is not to belittle the importance of women but to provide necessary concession for their temperaments.

basilico:
vooks When Muslims are faced with some difficult situation they paste lengthy nonsecical nonsense in order to avoid answering.
Summary If you want to remarry your wife does Quran 2:230 demand that you can't do that unless she gets married, bedded and divorced so she becomes lawful?
Take a bet? Muslima won't answer this but will post some lengthy nonsecical post .When that fails they will resort to threats and intimidation.

Rilwayne001:
For the open mind alone and not for close minded bigots like the OP and his coterie of clowns.



Any open minded person should please read this^ in full on this site http://www.islamawareness.net/Talaq/talaq_book.html the OP claim is well addressed on the link.

vooks:


Negro,
Just answer this question
Supposing you divorced your wife and later you want to remarry her. Must she get married,bedded and divorced before you are allowed to remarry her?

Yes/No?

After answering, feel free to throw as much ret@rded garbage as possible

Cc rahamAllah

vooks:


You are not making sense.
Supposing you divorced your wife and later you want to remarry her. Must she get married,bedded and divorced before you are allowed to remarry her?

Yes/No?

tartar9:
I said any two divorcees can remarry but there is a limit is that too hard to graps? Islam provides practical solutions to any possible scenario after 3 divorce remarriage is no longer allowed,if I am to even consider the possibility of such happening i.e.i married her once, divorced once, married the
second time, divorced the second time,married her the third time,divorced the third time this is the maximum number of remarriages that is allowed This rule is given by the Shari'ah to
reduce/prevent the occurrence of three divorces and to ensure that divorce is not taken lightly but Islam being considerate,if the woman marries someone else and they also divorce then she can remarry the fourth time to her former husband.

basilico:


Long story. If you want to remarry does your wife have to marry someone else, be bedded and then divorced?

tartar9:
I said any two divorcees can remarry but there is a limit is that too hard to graps?

[s]Islam provides practical solutions to any possible scenario after 3 divorce remarriage is no longer allowed,if I am to even consider the possibility of such happening i.e.i married her once, divorced once, married the
second time, divorced the second time,married her the third time,divorced the third time this is the maximum number of remarriages that is allowed This rule is given by the Shari'ah to
reduce/prevent the occurrence of three divorces and to ensure that divorce is not taken lightly but Islam being considerate,if the woman marries someone else and they also divorce then she can remarry the fourth time to her former husband[/s].

vooks:

The question is not whether divorcees can remarry, it is whether CONDITION(S) for remarriage includes the wife remarrying and being divorced


Ok, divorcees can only remarry each other up to three times...good but irrelevant points

Let me repeat the question;
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Q. Supposing you divorced your wife and later you want to remarry her. Must she get married,bedded and divorced first before you are allowed to remarry her?

Answers

A. Yes
B. No
C. I don't know
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Cc Ifeann, Abuamam, basilico

basilico:
From Quran 2:230 Let's see how you twist this.

Rilwayne001:
For the open mind alone and not for close minded bigots like the OP and his coterie of clowns.



Any open minded person should please read this^ in full on this site http://www.islamawareness.net/Talaq/talaq_book.html the OP claim is well addressed on the link.

Ifeann:


U haven't addressed the OPs clear evidence of the stupidity of Islamic teaching on marriage/divorce.

For the open mind alone and not for close minded bigots like the OP and his coterie of clowns.

Ifeann:


U haven't addressed the OPs clear evidence of the stupidity of Islamic teaching on marriage/divorce.

vooks:

The question is not whether divorcees can remarry, it is whether CONDITION(S) for remarriage includes the wife remarrying and being divorced


Ok, divorcees can only remarry each other up to three times...good but irrelevant points

Let me repeat the question;
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Q. Supposing you divorced your wife and later you want to remarry her. Must she get married,bedded and divorced first before you are allowed to remarry her?

Answers

A. Yes
B. No
C. I don't know
[/size]
Cc Ifeann, Abuamam, basilico

tartar9:
NO

Ifeann:


Okay. So the quran verse is wrong and mohammed doesn't know what he recited.

Ifeann:


Basilico thanks for providing this info. Such an outdated and nonsensical teaching on marriage from the quran, I wonder if empiree 9jaforlife abuamam yourmain etc can shed some light on this.

tartar9:
NO