First and foremost Guys I'm here to seek advice not lashing owk.
There's this girl I love so much but recently she relocated to another state initially I was so pained because she was always there for me but as time goes by I got use to her absence, now we only communicate on phone and I'm beginning to lose interest in the relationship due to lack of physical contact, I'm certain she may feel the same way over there. I know there are those who have been in my shoe before pls share ur experience, did you sustain the relationship despite the distance or you allowed it to hit the rock.

Edited: Treasure I know you may be reading this right now, don't blame me for bringing this issue to Nairaland, I jux couldn't help it.

NO IT DOESN'T

It does, cos I'm into one right now

loomer:
It does, cos I'm into one right now

how do you cope, wht are the steps you took to make it work for you ?

Lacomus:
how do you cope, wht are the steps you took to make it work for you ?

We chat everyday, right now we are chatin,
Communication is vital.

like d poster above am into one ryt now n communication is vital.visiting once in a while is necessary.then trust.

misspicy:
like d poster above am into one ryt now n communication is vital.visiting once in a while is necessary.then trust.

how do you get to trust someone you barely see, it's very difficult.

Communication is KEY...Quite challenging but u gatta deal with it if you could show more interest and commitment. These days distance r/ship is real n relative, You stay on the mainland say OKOTA and your girl stays on the island, Lekki precisely, that one its a long distance r/ship too

Being in a relationship entails the physical presence, I mean, partners in a relationship tend to have this craving to physically touch and feel each other regardless of the distance. ..

Long term relationships can only work when you both get to see each other occasionally. ..

It renews the bond and love



EricRichie

It works if you wanna make it work

Godvilla:
It works bro
The strenght of any relationship rest soley on the foundation its built upon.
If u build ur relationship on trust, loyalty and transparency, u are 95% assured ur relationship will sail through the storms of long distance. Nevertheless, patience is a virtue u must inculcate, hoping to make it through when the sun comes shining on u till death do u part.
But... If u go into a relationship with the sole purpose of satisfying ur sexual urge, having someone to be there for you cos u're lonely without a plan for the future, then u're certain to hit the rock bottom in times like this.
If u love this lady and you know she loves you too, then there's no harm in exercising patience while u prepare the fallow ground and see it become a fruitful field of "Happy ever after"

PS: Constant communication is essential in keeping the feelings alive.

Thanks for the advice likewise other posters.

Blackett:
It's a fvcking waste of time. Never works.

Oboy why you de talk like this, have you tried it before ?