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|Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by portable86(f): 11:34am On May 04, 2015|
Read this interesting piece i got from surfing this site and decided to share with you guys, so lets hear your own opinion. for me, i think the writer made a lot of sense, why are women their own worst enemy? Question
Your girlfriends tell you things like; “ I don’t usually get along with women, I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or your sisters say; “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.
Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way. Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival. A number of ladies will tell you that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong. The funny thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why is it so, why do women hate each other so much? I’ld tell you.
1. Jealousy : Most women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive temptress trying to steal their man away.
2. Inferiority complex : Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.
3. Pride : Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.
4. Insecurity : Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women.
So for women who have been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence. Your self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who you are and your appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating. Life is too short, after all. - See more at: http://www.nenyville..com/2015/05/reason-why-ladies-hate-each-other.html#sthash.76Cfsutq.dpuf
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|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 11:37am On May 04, 2015|
Very very true...
Girls be hating themselves since 19AD
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|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by portable86(f): 11:40am On May 04, 2015|
EricRichie:exactly, chiefly cos of inferiority complex
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 11:47am On May 04, 2015|
Yeah Yeah.. Girls love what what their fellow girl got most especially boyfriends
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by stefanlover: 11:48am On May 04, 2015|
Jealousy and insecurity is the major cause.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by portable86(f): 11:58am On May 04, 2015|
EricRichie:lol, yea, dat and their latest fashion wears as well
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by otijah(m): 12:15pm On May 04, 2015|
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 12:16pm On May 04, 2015|
You should've stated "Reasons Why SOME women hate themselves"
Only insecure and low self esteemed women go about hating on themselves.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 12:16pm On May 04, 2015|
Not my problem.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Mogidi: 12:16pm On May 04, 2015|
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by themonk(m): 12:17pm On May 04, 2015|
They keep hating themselves...real niccurs keep f*u*cking them sef
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by ogoigbe(m): 12:17pm On May 04, 2015|
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by deebrain(m): 12:17pm On May 04, 2015|
Receive the grace to be original in Jesus name.
Thought i read this some weeks ago...
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Fernandowski(m): 12:18pm On May 04, 2015|
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|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by helphelp: 12:19pm On May 04, 2015|
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 12:19pm On May 04, 2015|
We don't hate each other.
We just try to outshine each other.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by boolet: 12:19pm On May 04, 2015|
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by danbrowndmf(m): 12:21pm On May 04, 2015|
she hate on there fellow girl,if she got a better D!ck than her.
Ladies can kill for D!ck,
they even dress to the annoyance of there fellow girl.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by dechandel(f): 12:22pm On May 04, 2015|
Inferiority complex sums it all up!!
Jealousy!?? If a girl is self-contented with herself and what she has, what ger fellow girl owns wouldn't be a big deal for her. .
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Sauce20: 12:23pm On May 04, 2015|
insecurity plays a huge role
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Kreamie(m): 12:23pm On May 04, 2015|
Most ladies hate themselves why? Cos they can't stand competition...period
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Aitee1(f): 12:25pm On May 04, 2015|
Haba...where hath thou space bookers
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by hotgunz(m): 12:25pm On May 04, 2015|
Lady's re sick cell so I don't waste my tym on dere issues
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by princechrming(m): 12:26pm On May 04, 2015|
That's why you'd rarely see a lady who has kept a friend from teenage age to full fledge adulthood, the case is however different for the male folk, I'm still friends with most of the dudes I grew up with right from primary school, except for those who we have lost contact.
I wonder why this form of jaundiced demeanour exist among ladies that much...
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|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by queebeediva(f): 12:26pm On May 04, 2015|
EricRichie:note not all girls.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Hila12(m): 12:30pm On May 04, 2015|
'Reasons why MOST women hate themselves'
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 12:30pm On May 04, 2015|
Show me one girl who isn't jealous of her friends boyfriend and I will show you a girl who is emotionally depressed. ... It just happens naturally... Even if the jealousy isn't profound but at least a tinge of envy exists
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|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by tintingz(m): 12:30pm On May 04, 2015|
And they can gossip ehn.
|Re: Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other by Nobody: 12:31pm On May 04, 2015|
If God neva created them sef...
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