when you made your vow you didn't made it with your husband you made it with God...and if you break that vow by cheating I will let you know you are cheating on God.. And should be rest assured you will progress backwardly unless you repent of cheating

Azi gbakwaa! SMH. People don't fear God at all!

I once had a friend that got married to his wife with 2kids age 5 and 3,there was this unforgotable day in his life that his wife woke him up so early in the morning to tell him she was no longer interested in d marriage simply because she feels her level have passed her husband's own,she started telling how she's been unfaithful..my peeps things are happening don't take anythg for a joke

Dont give yourself headache... TWO can play the game but one will suffer the consequences more.

If she cheats, she better not be caught otherwise, the marriage ends right there.
And getting caught is getting easier nowadays, if you are ready to invest the 'effort'... based on an initial reason for suspicion.

Everyone has the right to cheat if they so desire but what wont happen is for you to be cheating and expecting me to remain married to you! :-

I divorce you and l marry a younger, prettier and more sexy lady who is better than you the "old cargo", in more than ten ways!


And dont forget, you cant divorce me also but l will always assure you, with "my type", what l will replace you with, will always be better than you.

Same as l do my vehicles, the last one MUST be better than the last one, in more than ten ways.

Lastpage!

eagleeye2:
Cheating can never be justified.
male/female

This is the point We need to get to morally.

If a spouse is not acting well and love talk, nagging, reporting etc. is not working, nothing stops the wronged spouse to temporarily separate for the other partner to come to his/her sense or marriage die a natural death.

There will always be reasons and excuses for every bad things

LastProphet:
Everybody will eventually be cheated on, anyone telling you otherwise is on a long thing. As far as a spouse still looks fit advances will keep coming and eventually u will want to try it - it is just biology. You can never continue to like the same thing the same way for all the years of marriage, I dont know when people will finally accept this fact that there will always be cheating in marriage because marriage in itself is agaisnt the law of nature which is constant change.

Sounds reasonable to me.
Reason it does not even bother me one bit.

Cheat me, l "cheater" you, Gawd no go vex.

Lastpage!

lastpage:
Dont give yourself headache... TWO can play the game but one will suffer the consequences more.

If she cheats, she better not be caught otherwise, the marriage ends right there.
And getting caught is getting easier nowadays, if you are ready to invest the 'effort'... based on an initial reason for suspicion.

Everyone has the right to cheat if they so desire but what wont happen is for you to be cheating and expecting me to remain married to you! :-

I divorce you and l marry a younger, prettier and more sexy lady who is better than you the "old cargo", in more than ten ways!


And dont forget, you cant divorce me also but l will always assure you, with "my type", what l will replace you with, will always be better than you.

Same as l do my vehicles, the last one MUST be better than the last one, in more than ten ways.

Lastpage!

Interesting way to view your wife.

And your wife cannot divorce you?

I have always maintained that trying to please a woman is useless because they will never appreciate it. if u turn ur back perim, they will do wonders. hhhhmmmm, woman, they are simply creation of magic. they can't be satisfied.

honey I love u, honey I love u, na because she never see another man way better pass am. all of them na so them be, anyway, God na him they guild everybody.

Imaging my wife go see guys way grab well well for film she go they admire them oo, even in front of me. come they touch me join am. she say make I go gem ooo. ah me way they like flavour, watin I won gem again for? make I be like batista? make una help me ooo

Why are men on this thread getting angry... If you don't take care of your wife, someone else will..

Imagine #4: Sex drive, married for 5 years and he can't perform and even calls her names? Mbanu... Why did he marry in the first place? There's no justification for cheating but know that body abughi firewood.

AndreRose:
There is no reasonable justification for a cheating wife or husband. Why can't you control your urges? If you can't, what happened to Love Machine's is it no more marketable? How many days/weeks will it take your husband to come back from his travel, then you can tell him to give it to you from morning till night.
I just don't like people who can't be satisfied with one person, and they term it african men are polygamous, what kind of excuse is that?
Or women that can't stick to one man, and give unreasonable excuses for cheating.

Abegii, Naso e easy? Most are not to be blamed, the men are often time the architect of this infidelity.

Its a fact of life, though not an excuse to cheat on ones partner. We v heard things like; what goes around comes around, do-me-I do-you/ an eye for an eye would make the world blind...n stuffs like that. The truth remains that at the end of the day its never between us and our fellow humans (spouse(s)) but between us and God. Let that guide us in our daily lives.

Ilekeh:
Nigerian marriages. . . .

God dey.

Adventure

fellis:
The payback reason sounds very reasonable to me.

You can't traumatize your kids with divorce because your husband is a skirt chaser. Cheat on him instead.

and when you get caught, the trauma and shame you'll put your kids in will be double. Imagine a grown up girl like you finding out that your mom was caught pants down with another man. How shameful and dissapointed will you be? You can't even walk or talk infront of your neighbours.
These proud cheaters better pray they are not caught.

columbus007:
I once had a friend that got married to his wife with 2kids age 5 and 3,there was this unforgotable day in his life that his wife woke him up so early in the morning to tell him she was no longer interested in d marriage simply because she feels her level have passed her husband's own,she started telling how she's been unfaithful..my peeps things are happening don't take anythg for a joke

I hope the guy let her go? Cos I'm sure one richer dude fukcing her must have promised her everything. He should let her go. Time will come when she'll be dumped and then we shall see. Infact, that your friend shouldn't even bother. A man has more chances of getting a woman any time any day, no matter your age.
I also have a friend that same thing happened to, now the woman is begging to come back.

I can't even bother myself much over a wh.ore. I'll quickly get me a younger girl who is more pretty than her.

The rest I understand but number 5 scares me the most. Ladies are bent on getting married and it has nothing to do with love. You don't want to imagine an old flames still having a large space in your wives/husband heart than you.

Then again nothing good last forever anyway. Bartender pls one more alcohol

An nobOdy is blaming the DEVIL, abi him don repent
Church abasaaa!

cococandy:
What a goose can do a gander can do too.

They all have good reasons (bite me) especially mrs sex drive. How will you push your wife away when she wants to do it and even call her names on top am?

Anyway OP come and continu.
Abi Na only six women your research cover?

The rest can be worked out but 5 is deadly. Nothing you can do about it. Left to me I think marriage is too complicated isn't that two people can't be honest to themselves and faithful in marriage. What I read here makes me not want to rush marriage. Creepy and disturbing

a cheat is a cheat,leave all this excuses for cheating, even if you provide all these things they needed that made them cheat, they will find another reason to cheat,maybe that their husby's dont last in bed, or that he has a small joystick..a cheater goes on for life..

lalasticlala:




http://www.naij.com/433812-why-i-cheated-on-my-husband-nigerian-women-open-up.html

bullshit**why the Bleep dd u get married when you no ready...that shit aint no excuse/reason

Sooo cheating is d solution?.
Try striking a long term relationship with those people, maybe marraige then you'll smell your yarsh!.
NEXT!

Meanwhile these reetards will come out and call themselves wives ? even a 45 years old grandma

99% of women that cheat were not disvirgined by there husbands.They have seen all sorts of escapades during there premarital life...A 22years old woman who was first touched by her husbands will likely go unfaithful except on extreme situation.In my Area,our men will travel for business to.another place for over 6 to 18 months and the faithful woman will always be there waiting for her husband.This is not common in all these ogbologbo societies.

Do not blame the hausa man who goes to a 19-22 years old girl.

Smh...

cheaters would always find excuses to justify their act.

Cheat if you like or cheat all you can.. Just don't give false excuses.


Omoalejatijati.

You have no reason to cheat on your husband. If you're not happy in the marriage, walk away. No reason whatsoever. Even if he cheats on you...

cilifa:
tit for tat.

Why you mention tit moniker here na..

Any wifey that cheats on d husy is capable of killing the man.if u ain't ready to be a decent and responshble wife, den stay single till thy kingdom comes instead of bringing shame to ursef and ur family.

Who still dey listen 2 naija women tori sef?

lalasticlala:




http://www.naij.com/433812-why-i-cheated-on-my-husband-nigerian-women-open-up.html

lalasticlala:




http://www.naij.com/433812-why-i-cheated-on-my-husband-nigerian-women-open-up.html

Juliesexy:
You have no reason to cheat on your husband. If you're not happy in the marriage, walk away. No reason whatsoever. Even if he cheats on you...

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