Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

My dear, it's called adultery and it's one of the biggest sins...

#stay with ur man and work things out bt if u are hell bent on leaving him, then do so peacefully, u don't have to sleep around like a hooker, it's just sex, nothing else!!

NB: going through ur former threads, I can see you have been harbouring this evil idea for a while now, be careful with your thoughts and actions o....

@OP
you dont get good sex at home and you are tired of your marriage (as you have said in previous thread), so naturally you are now eyeing other men to get your groove on and satisfy you desires to get laid properly.

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

just do it already and stop bothering us

It happens at times, especially when the sparks are gone. I suggest you make a journey of rediscovery.

There is no other reason except that you are tired of that marriage and most especially the man you're presently married to.

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

Abeg I nid encouragement.......am tired of ds marriage......been married for 14yrs.......no good sex,no money,full of emotinal abusive...........

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are u having any issues with ur hubby dat u want to run away from ?

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

dnt u av husbnd nit?

Because you are not getting any sort of satisfaction from your husband. It happens. It's either you leave him or you try and salvage anything salvageable from your marriage. Adultery never ends well. All the best

Have you tried to work things out?Make deliberate efforts?
You are not getting satisfaction and it is natural to want out.

bellong:




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Chai! Bad guy...

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

I'll recommend a Korean drama for you titled "Valid Love" Same things happens to the girl inside the drama. Thank me later after watching. You can download it at .com

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

tis well

If you had listened to KanwuliaJaras advice instead of all these immature skinny boys you won't have any reason to open this thread. Enjoy your misery



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germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

U can drop ur bbm pin I will b a substitute for ur husband.

#just offering my little help though

Who's the new guy?

There is something wrong with your marriage, that's why.

Cy4praise:


U can drop ur bbm pin I will b a substitute for ur husband.
#just offering my little help though

sharp guy u wan nak her prik:-D:-D

Op, you and this your marriage. .. you have created a number of threads all consisting of your family issues...

It's well with you. .

nicerod:
sharp guy u wan nak her prik:-D:-D

bro she really needs help...

Awww. To think I was gonna judge you .. but then I read your previous posts . So sorry to see that clearly your husband has not been satisfying you. But please ma, I beg, dont commit adultery. It has present and eternal consequences. Lemme just give a few suggestions.. hopefully you find them helpful :

1. Both of you can try to lose some weight which may have acquired naturally over the years as with most married couples... Get fit. This will help your confidence as a woman and his libido as a man...and also make you both more attractive to one another.

2. Switch up your wardrobe. Experiment with new looks. It will aid his attraction to you even more.

3. Improve your social life. Go out more, get active in church, make friends. . A great way to distract yourself from sex or the lack of it thereof.

4. Pray about sex! Yes.. pray about it. Take everything to the Lord in prayer. Tell God how you are feeling. Express your temptation to him. And pray for a divine revival of your sex life with the hubby. God is an endorser of marriage and is concerned about every single aspect of it!

5. Go with your husband to see the doctor for any libido/performance enhancing medications.

I wish you all the best

Cy4praise:


bro she really needs help...

plz play safe o

mcdokwe:
just do it already and stop bothering us

No mind am.

There may be fundamental issues that hav made u disillusioned with life, culminating in the subconscious feeling of an emptiness that yur mind indirectly suggests novelty sex can assuage. Mosts partners in marriages witness this one time or the other in their union. Be strong in resistance. In the longrun, U WILL be grateful u didn't yield. Try to avoid alcohol and cigarettes if u are into them. They embolden thier users into deeds they normally would detest. Keep the urge issue far from yur chubby- u can never tell what his knowledge of it could creat in his heart. Dont take risks in doing the avoidable. Dont take risk in divulging items whose end product u can never successfully predict. The ephemeral joy at the end is not worth it.

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

wistling&parabulating while waiting 4 ur hubby permission.:-D;-):-D

germainediva:
Why am I having this urge to be with another man after many years of marriage.......the feeling scares shit out of me.

It happens. PM me let's see if we cn work things out

I was in ur shoe sometimes ago....add me on bbm, ama help out.. 5654674C

Madam its scary that all your posts is about how to get more sex,haba.pls dont disgrace ur hubby more dn u already have take a lover and shut up about it!