Being alone is no fun. Even if you are all
for loving oneself before anything, yet, at
some point in life you are bound to feel
the need for human companionship. And
there is nothing wrong with it, of course.
There are so many among us who are on
a perennial need and hunt for love –
trying to find it everywhere they go,
anyone they meet. If all of the Adele
songs seem like they speak your mind,
then here’s a piece of advice for you.
Before trying to embark on a journey of
forever love, do some soul searching as
to why love eludes you. Most
importantly, try to figure out the reason/s
why men quit you. I am not implying that you are unlovable,
I am just saying that there might be
some underlying problem, some unsolved
issues that might be hindering your love
life and making the guy in your life run
the other way. Read on to know how you
can ensure that the guy stays, and stays
for a long time…maybe forever.
So here are a few reasons why men
might be quitting you.
1. Clingy and emo.
Men do not believe in rushing to
commitment. They need their time, space
and reasons. That’s why when a guy
makes the commitment, know that it is
for keeps. If you act all clingy and keep
hinting that it is commitment you are
looking for, and you want it soon – then
all you are doing is sending out a
message that you are emotionally
unstable. Of course that’s enough to
send any guy packing his bags. Men not
only love, but even immensely respect
girls who are emotionally stable and
confident. So if you don’t want Men
quitting you, make sure that you exude
confidence.
2. Being preoccupied.
So you are a independent, hard working,
workaholic woman. All power to you girl.
However, it is important to give your man
your time and attention too. Don’t be so
preoccupied that your man feels taken
for granted and neglected. The key is to
find a work and personal life balance.
3. Your life is already full.
Weekdays are for your office colleagues.
Weekends is brunch, shopping, movies
and outing with your girl friends.
Feativals and celebrations is with
cousins and family. Anything amiss
here? When do you plan to give time to
your man? If your life is already so full,
your man is bound to feel left out. Take
hold before it’s too late and take a
romantic break assay from all the hustle
4. You have a phobia. Commitment
phobia .
If the very mention of the c-word send
you feeling, then we have a serious
problem, girl. While guys don’t rush to
commitment, it surely is on their mind. If
your overall demeanor shouts out loud
that you are not looking for commitment
ever, any guy would think twice before
getting in a relationship with you. Guy or
girl, commitment can be intimidating. I
know. But it’s nothing to be so scared of.
Consider the piaitives – you will have
someone to spend your life with, a
compa ion for all your hapoiness and
sorrows. Go slow, but make sure you
reach there.
5. You are too easy.
You know what’s better than being in a
relationship. It is the chase, the romance
of initiating a relationship. Trying to
impress the person, dressing and trying
the witty one liners. It is all so exciting.
For your part, playing hard to get, giving
in just a bit. That’s what makes the
relationship so exciting. If you are way
too easy. if you say yes to going out with
anyone who offers so, if you don’t play a
little hard to get – you are ruining it for
yourself. Guys start judging girls who are
way too easy. So girls, set a standard
and set it high. it will do you a world of
good.

Godvilla:

lmao!cove ur ass up dear

op nice one

prettythicksme:
op nice one

asumo12: