To manage OR to damage which wan better pass?

I have been managing before and during marriage.
The problem is that even the greener pastures become SWAMPS eventually.
All of dem dey 'green' abi?
If the marriages are that bad. . . why do we still remain in them?

If you ask any married couple how they have survived, the best CLICHE is:NA GOD O!

Or the best punch line is: NOR BE EVERYTHING EYE DEY SEE FOR MARRIAGE MOUTH GO FIT TOK!

OK! Then why are divorced people ALWAYS ITCHING TO GET RE-MARRIED?

Singledom is truly BLISS!

Oya KONTINU!

*time for a nap and off to work*!

so many questions abt marriage , but no clear answers to them

In answer to ur topic question - True!

DuchessLily:
so many questions abt marriage , but no clear answers to them

In answer to ur topic question - True!

I agree!

True!

A bad marriage is still successful.
A divorce is the ultimate failure to ANY MARRIAGE!

Say NO to domestic violence!
Polygamy is not a MARRIAGE!

No human being is perfect hence no human relationship would ever be perfect

So if you leave the current one because of some imperfections then you would most likely leave the next and the next and the next

The reason why no one want to be single and divorced people strive to get married is because at some point in time they become lonely

A cat or dog cannot replace human interaction.

Ponder on the quoted below

The decision to divorce is always going to be difficult, and for many there can be good reason to end a marriage.

Yet, 50 per cent of divorcees have regrets about their break-up, a study revealed. Researchers found that after the dust settled, 54 per cent experienced second thoughts about whether they had made the right decision, with many realising they miss or still love their ex-partner.

For some, the regrets have been so severe that 42 per cent have had moments where they considered giving their relationship another go, with a large percentage actually making the effort to try again and 21 per cent of those still together now

https://winteryknight./2014/08/20/new-study-50-percent-of-divorced-people-wish-they-had-never-ended-their-marriage/

Many people see remarriage as a fresh new chance at happiness with a partner whom they should have chosen in the first place. But the statistics reveal that second or later marriages are much more likely to end in divorce. Why is this so?

http://ideas.time.com/2013/10/04/why-second-marriages-are-more-perilous/

KanwuliaJara:


I agree!

True!

A bad marriage is still successful.
A divorce is the ultimate failure to ANY MARRIAGE!

Say NO to domestic violence!
Polygamy is not a MARRIAGE!

hahaha...yeah polygamy is not marriage.... At least not d marriage God designed

DuchessLily:
hahaha...yeah polygamy is not marriage.... At least not d marriage God designed

Even Satan could not have fashioned such a more hideous concept!
Imagine one pENNis diving from tototototo and IN-breeding kids like a DOG for h-insai BUSH?
So, if the man KPEHMEH na MASS CASUALTY divorce from dem GODDD or ALLLAH abi?

Hmmmmmmmm!

KanwuliaJara:


Even Satan could not have fashioned such a hideous concept!
Imagine one pENNis diving from tototototo and IN-breeding kids like a DOG for h-insai BUSH?
So, na MASS CASUALTY divorce from den GODDD or ALLLAH abi?

Hmmmmmmmm!

@ KanwuliaJara before nko what will they say


of course it will always be God.



wo let me dress this girl up.bye