EggovinMma:
Trash!

This topic is one of the reason I believe the holy books have little or no regards for women.

philiancoop:

Doing this would not be right according to the Bible and if you are standing on what Jesus said about adultery(sex between unmarried person) being a basis for "putting away", then you are having a misunderstanding.

lolaxavier:


There is always a choice...the book can also function as a tissue paper.

Toks2008:


1.

I can marry a divorcee a million times over but i will make sure i find out her reason for leaving the first marriage.

If its because of sexual infidelity i will make her understand that i don't plan to cheat on her but most men will cheat on their wives or g friends no matter how sexy the lady might be but i will marry her because she has a fairly reasonable ground for divorce.

I will also marry a divorcee whose ex turned into a punching bag FOR NO JUST CAUSE because some women can make an angel beat the hell outta them with their manner-less nature.

I will marry a divorcee whose hubby threw out for no just cause after finding out that it was actually for no just cause.

Asides from all these facts, i will be committing adultery if i marry any divorced lady for any other reasons.

2.

My ex did not ask for a temp break but permanent and i will be scared if you tell me that is good and remember i was never against her career.

liquidmetall:


Ignore them mydear

freecocoa:
Get your head outta your a$$ if you must address me.

How is it possible that you don't know there are men out there who don't reason like you? How can you think all men are as stup1d as you are?

Where did I tell you I wanted to be the one exercising power in my relationship? Is dating/marriage a master and slave relationship? Why does there need to be exercise of power in the first place?

Just leave me be to myself, I don't know why it bothers you what I believe, you don't even know the basic thing about feminism yet you won't keep quiet.

seppBlatter:
Buhari Chase ibos out of Nigeria

freecocoa:
From your write-up, it can be deduced that you believe all men cheat, well that's your business and you are allowed to believe whatever you want, just let others believe theirs, if a woman wants to divorce her hubby based on infidelity, it's her choice and just like you believe men cheat, she believes she'll find one that doesn't cheat, how is that asking for too much?

You believe it's adultery when you marry any of the women mentioned, your right. I believe it's no big deal, my right, why then are we having this argument? That you alone can define right or wrong?

As regards your ex, I maintain what I'm saying, that it's her place to decide she can't be with you while nurturing her career, I don't see any wrong in that, she couldn't do both at the same time, career and relationship, that is, therefore she made a call, she must have broken your heart but that doesn't make her a bad person, especially because there is sense in her reason, unless you are saying she used it as an excuse to leave you, which then will be lying and lying is bad.

freecocoa:
I'm sorry that I have to decline.

Toks2008:


1.I am not a cheat and have never cheated on my ex for over 12 years but i still maintain that NOT ALL MEN CHEAT BUT 99% will.

2.I believe its not adultery if i marry the listed and not the other way round.

3.I am not talking about dating dear but 5years of marriage after 6years of courting so please don't try justifying that calamitous decision.

RedBenson:


Your feminism and uncilivity can make even the ugliest/poorest man never dream to not to have you for relationship left alone marriage. I mean you are something else, and i'm saying again, your type of man shall only meet you at 60s or 70s and if you're okay with that, then keep being what you think best suits you as a woman. Goodluck!

philiancoop:

Correct him then, using the scriptures since you think it was twisted

OkuDiOver1:
All i see is a man with inferiority complex shikina.

majekdom2:
young man, speak for yourself.... Yes, I can.

Viciyus:


Still the time I dey read bible, I never see were them mention do not marry two or three wife,
EVEN Jesus no take anything about marrying only one woman.

Aystarz:


It is indeed an insightful write up. I have learnt so much in just a short while; but as many truesays of the past, most people would most likely treat this piece with with kidgloves; many (especially the ladies) would rubbish it and call the op unprintable names; Well of course even the vain men around would do likewise. It's little wonder the marriage institution is in shambles, today.

RedBenson:


Your feminism and uncilivity can make even the ugliest/poorest man never dream to not to have you for relationship left alone marriage. I mean you are something else, and i'm saying again, your type of man shall only meet you at 60s or 70s and if you're okay with that, then keep being what you think best suits you as a woman. Goodluck!

freecocoa:
I'm not civil because I refuse to accept that a woman is a man's play? Aren't you a consummate fuckktard.

Let those men worry about me, why are you here bursting a nerve? Did I come begging you to marry me? It's been proven beyond reasonable doubt that I will[b]never agree with your line of though[/b]so why not take a hike to hades and let me be, you m0ron.

oyeludef:
maybe na back of Bible you been dey read

ama123:
The older women part is 100% senseless to me.for instance, My uncle is married to a woman he is 10yrs older than. Yet,he has no control over her. She insults him even in the presence of people and does not in any way give him d respect he deserves. I know a man whose wife is 9 yrs older than. She loves & respects her husband a lot. Their marriage is over 10 yrs now & they are stil very much in love with each other. For me,d day a woman marries is d day she accepts d man's headship over her even if d man is younger than her. Full stop!

RedBenson:


Proverbially, it's said that "a good man cant be at home and and goat would go give birth at the fence". In clear terms, i cant see what is 90% potentially enough to destroy you and i would do nothing about. I want you to be resourceful and productive to yourself and family. Your mum is already expecting kids from you and you busy portraying feminist traits that would land you no where than destruction. Do away with this feminism and be a real woman. Pieces of advice are best headed on than regretting later. Dont end up being a waste.

Viciyus:
you dey reply that 46yrs old single but still searching woman by, you get time for that woman were don dedicate the rest of her life to nairaland

Viciyus:
you were dey read front of bible, oyaa show, were them mension am