Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,368,203 members, 5,264,915 topics. Date: Thursday, 14 November 2019 at 08:45 PM

My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? - Romance (3) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? (18247 Views)

Travel Romance – How To Find Love While Traveling / Can A Guy Like Me Still Find Love? / My Dilemma....lawyer Weds 3rd Class Graduate ? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Blankstare(m): 8:37am On Jun 05, 2015
No woman no cry
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by whitestar01(m): 8:41am On Jun 05, 2015
Are you sure you are not training another man's children ?

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Dyt(f): 8:43am On Jun 05, 2015
Folajoseph
Love is everywhere
Just find it in you
Open up your heart and it will find you
Yes
That simple

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by folajoseph(m): 8:46am On Jun 05, 2015
Ibsgal:
Did you do a DNA test to make sure that the twins are yours? Not that it matters, but it would suck if their mother recants her story in the future and claim that they aren't yours since, according to you, she is promiscuous.

I actually did a DNA test in 2 hospitals back then...
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by naijalodge(m): 8:52am On Jun 05, 2015
Bros here's the bitter truth,go run a DNA test on those kids,talking 4rm experience. ..

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by folajoseph(m): 8:57am On Jun 05, 2015
naijalodge:
Bros here's the bitter truth,go run a DNA test on those kids,talking 4rm experience. ..

Did that already bro, thanks anyway!
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by nukky77(f): 9:05am On Jun 05, 2015
Mobebi:
guy, from experience, pls go and do DNA test on those kids... probably, probably I say, they may not be yours...


from experience!
you spoke my mind.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by itxtoff(m): 9:08am On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.
my guy I feel for you. BUT YOU DONT FIND LOVE,LOVE FINDS YOU. Take care of your kids first and forget love, it will find you.

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by clemz85(m): 9:16am On Jun 05, 2015
Op pls if you have a DNA prove that the kids are yours then trust me, you are good to live.

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by lawrsmith(m): 9:38am On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.
this super story.....Mike Adenuga @ work
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by KAPOVee: 9:43am On Jun 05, 2015
I cannot collect d kids for they are not mine
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by 2dice(m): 9:50am On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:


Thanks for your support my friend!
yea man... If I don't who will ?? cheesy ... Jes do your thing ...

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by 2dice(m): 9:51am On Jun 05, 2015
adjoviomole:


Dats in the old days. Now the patient dog will eat empty plate grin grin grin grin
lmfao ... Shey plate na food cheesy
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by mekadinho(f): 9:59am On Jun 05, 2015
I CAN ONLY SAY, "LOVE IS FOR THE WEAK...." BAD AS.S LIKE US DON'T FALL IN LOVE. LOL...
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by slimmax: 10:15am On Jun 05, 2015
MissNairaland1:
Talking about love, i never heard of one meeting his/her partner on Nairaland...............................But i have this strong feeling i will meet mine someday...somewhere.....somehow cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
I dey here you still dey search,wink
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by RiffRaff: 10:43am On Jun 05, 2015
Lesson from the Story:
1. Never do something permanenttly stup!d when you are Temporarily upset.

2. Always wear a condom.

3. Never have sex with a girl u cannot marry without protecting yourself.

Man you can find love again.. There are millions of girls in Nigeria. Find a good 1 and try again. If u wish.

3 Likes

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by sallysalsa09: 10:52am On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.




IT WILL HARD TO FIND LOVE especially when you have two children already and your old love who has come back what makes you think she will love you and your kids things has changed and there are children involved now.your ex has left you many times what makes you think you she will be any different.you already have baby mama issues and a crazy ex unless you want to develop high blood pressure you shouldn't have people like that in your life to complicate it.you don't need all that baggage.look for someone who will give you rest of mind.shikena
i rest ma case cheers

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Timijo: 10:53am On Jun 05, 2015
You need Jesus in your life. He is the only One who can give you joy and agape love in life.
A Christless life is a life of crisis.
Receive Christ today and be free from guilty.

1 Like

Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by folahann(m): 10:55am On Jun 05, 2015
The only on my mind is what someone had already said. Go and do a DNA test on those kids if you haven't.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by free37: 11:03am On Jun 05, 2015
Just take it easy and live your life bruv.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by nikkiehan(f): 11:03am On Jun 05, 2015
ur gf pushed u to dis hmmmmm o ga, bt r u sure d kids r urs
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by amynoacid(m): 11:12am On Jun 05, 2015
Mobebi:
guy, from experience, pls go and do DNA test on those kids... probably, probably I say, they may not be yours...


from experience!
Now this will give the op another rounds of sleepless nights.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 11:58am On Jun 05, 2015
2dice:
U would my friend .... Not to worry the patient dog get the fattest Bone
for Naija Patient no dey see any bone, d sharp ones go choi d fattest bones na
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Neplusultra(f): 12:00pm On Jun 05, 2015
Mscheewww!!! undecided
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.
Love will find you. Just surround yourself with positive thing and think positively
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by onadana: 12:05pm On Jun 05, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Relationships are crazy. Completely avoid them and you are crazy.

Being celibate and avoiding the opposite sex isn't an option. They are a necessary evil and a painful good.smiley
[color=#006600][/color]

It isn't an option for those who think with their penis... lipsrsealed

(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply)

Advice for Future Husbands / Which Tribe Got The Most Cute Guys In Nigeria / NGOs Distribute Free Condoms In Abuja

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2019 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 158
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.