Please help me out!!!
There is this lady I'm in love with more than 8 years ago. During the 4th year, I didn't know what cause our fight, she just breaks up with me saying she is no more interested. I cried bitterly but vow never to engaged to anybody until when she comes back into my heart.
Last year, we chat and she asked me Am I still in love with her which I replied yes just because she is my first and I never engaged since our break up because I love her from the bottom of my heart. She told me what transferred between those year we break up because we are not schooling same place.
Last Month, she seems to behave irrational. I told her elder sister and she said I should take it easy with her. I'm curious of whats wrong with her so I went to where she works to inform her boss may be she will talk to her boss of what happened.
Fortunately, she told him everything and vow to change that she just recover from her previous boyfriend death. Through her boss, I now find out what causes our break up. We break up then just because I tagged her engaged which she accept then.
Since then, my trust and love for her disintegrate to the bearest minimum.
Should I continue with her and How will her love comes to my heart back? Because I'm scared of another
NB: We have done pre-introduction between the two family.

Last year, we chat and she asked me Am I still in love with her which I replied yes


before saying yes, you should have make some research why she want you now after leaving u for so long.

you dated her for 8years and she dumped your ass right? what if the relationship made your life miserably after u guys broke up? she never thought of you until after the death of her plan to be husband(r.I.p). definitely you are her plan B.

NB: We have done pre-introduction between the two family. you have made up your mind already with this step bro, so what do you want us to do?

Old things have passed,
....and follow your heart.

Magician1503:
Old things have passed,
....and follow your heart.

I want to spend the rest of my life with her and she too vow to stay with me too

Maybe if u improve your english. #justsaying

Life is short for any drama,
bro, move on, shikena.

abdrazak:

I want to spend the rest of my life with her and she too vow to stay with me too

Good, it's been four years now, let go of the past and rearrange your philosophy, let love lead. Cheers

She was never yours

ikeepitreal:
Maybe if u improve your english. #justsaying

some of you are just here for nothing, a young guy is worried about his future and you are here dissing his blunder like you know better than him

abdrazak:

I want to spend the rest of my life with her and she too vow to stay with me too

VOW my foot.
reply my first comment.

Irritating

agarawu23:
some of you are just here for nothing, a young guy is worried about his future and you are here dissing his blunder like you know better than him

Sure, I know better and that's exactly why I advised him. But why the pain?

agarawu23:
Last year, we chat and she asked me Am I still in love with her which I replied yes


before saying yes, you should have make some research why she want you now after leaving u for so long.

you dated her for 8years and she dumped your ass right? what if the relationship made your life miserably after u guys broke up? she never thought of you until after the death of her plan to be husband(r.I.p). definitely you are her plan B.

NB: We have done pre-introduction between the two family. you have made up your mind already with this step bro, so what do you want us to do?

I know thats I'm at fault for finding out late.
But since I heard that, my love for her disappear.

ikeepitreal:
Maybe if u improve your english. #justsaying

if only u could see beyond the flaws.

ikeepitreal:

Sure, I know better and that's exactly why I advised him. But why the pain?

you should focus on the message he is passing and give him advice instead of you dissing his write up

pussygotlips:
Life is short for any drama,
bro, move on, shikena.

you type as if it easy.

pussygotlips:
Life is short for any drama,
bro, move on, shikena.

Thanks bro

abdrazak:

I know thats I'm at fault for finding out late.
But since I heard that, my love for her disappear.

imagine!!!
so what are you planning to do?
I can see you took a step without making some findings.

agarawu23:
VOW my foot. reply my first comment.

Replied brother!!! Wish to know you better. Where did you stay?

agarawu23:
you should focus on the message he is passing and give him advice instead of you dissing his write up

Alright. I apologize. I'm just seventeen and I don't really know much about relationships.

abdrazak:

Replied brother!!!
Wish to know you better.
Where did you stay?

hmmm!!, you can pm me .

Jollyjoy:
if only u could see beyond the flaws.

I can. Clearly.

ikeepitreal:

Alright. I apologize. I'm just seventeen and I don't really know much about relationships.

hmmmm !!! no lele

abdrazak:

I want to spend the rest of my life with her and she too vow to stay with me too

and u bliv'd her

agarawu23:
hmmm!!, you can pm me .

I have brother

Jollyjoy:
you type as if it easy.

trust me, its easy as ABC_

pbs4real:
and u bliv'd her

Thats the issue.

abdrazak:
I have brother

OK

I think this case is serious, mods you guys should help him

cc farano ishilove

ikeepitreal:

Sure, I know better and that's exactly why I advised him. But why the pain?

when wld u people learn to contribute reasonably to a thread of this nature

pbs4real:
when wld u people learn to contribute reasonably to a thread of this nature

Seriously, I don't know.
U sure you read the post?

abdrazak:

Thats the issue.

i fink personally u ve to let go dis lady. . . .if u get married to this gal,she's gna control ur lyf & u wld be so scared to confront her. . . .the truth is she wld be the one in charge. . .luk elsewre.GBAM!

Jollyjoy:
you type as if it easy.

to some its never easy but at least he has a reason to move on considering the fact that she has been using him as plan B.