SOMEONE WROTE.....

When I was quite younger say eight years, I remember having some sexual experiences. It was more like an abuse because I had little or no understanding about what was going on. I only remember them touching me in some places and I even laughed over it then. After that incident, I had a similar experience with a neighbour in my aunty's house when I was eleven. He compelled me to let him touch me in some places. Infact it was more like a threat. And so it happened that he inserted his finger into my anus severally. Another neighbour abused me in a similar manner. Of all these experiences I never felt pain nor saw blood making me think seriously about my virginity status. When I became older, I kept myself and avoided any sexual relationship. Recently I had begun to worry about my virginity status although I feel pain anytime I want to use my finger and check. I wouldn't want to disappoint my future husband by telling him that I am when am not. Plz how do you think I can check if am still a virgin in the right way?

See a doctor.

Doctor in house! Over to you.

What other thing do you have to offer to sustain the happiness of the marriage after the virgin trap has been taken off.
Troubling yourself over irrelevant issue

Check into a health institution, a specialist is going to run a test on what you said, the result of the test would determine whether the heavenly mantle is still intact or...

Well, I think you are a virgin at heart. There are ways virgins feel when they are aroused. However, check with your doctor. In case you have lost it, there are ways you can get it back. SOMEONE WROTE.....

When I was quite younger say eight years, I remember having some sexual experiences. It was more like an abuse because I had little or no understanding about what was going on. I only remember them touching me in some places and I even laughed over it then. After that incident, I had a similar experience with a neighbour in my aunty's house when I was eleven. He compelled me to let him touch me in some places. Infact it was more like a threat. And so it happened that he inserted his finger into my anus severally. Another neighbour abused me in a similar manner. Of all these experiences I never felt pain nor saw blood making me think seriously about my virginity status. When I became older, I kept myself and avoided any sexual relationship. Recently I had begun to worry about my virginity status although I feel pain anytime I want to use my finger and check. I wouldn't want to disappoint my future husband by telling him that I am when am not. Plz how do you think I can check if am still a virgin in the right way?[/quote]