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Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by palserltd: 7:17am On Jul 03, 2015
Where is Citizen Emeka Benjamin Uche, a Lagos factory worker?

That was the big question yesterday as his wife, Ruth, 34, from Abia State broke the news of his disappearance since February.

Uche, 39, fled home when he learnt that his expectant wife was carrying a set of twins – the family’s third.

Mrs Uche was at the Lagos State Secretariat, Alausa yesterday with her six children, pleading for help.

Not many knew what she wanted as she stood under a tree, close to the Press Centre, carrying the babies. Her first two sets of twins, much older, stood close to their mother, and did not in any way seem intimidated by the sea of cameras and faces focusing on them.

Mrs. Uche was receptive when our reporter approached her to narrate her ordeal.

In 2009 when she first conceived, she was delivered of two girls – Goodness and Godnews. The second conception, two years later, produced another two – a boy and a girl, named John and Joyce.

But when her husband, Emeka, learnt that the third pregnancy was another set of two he fled their number 32, Awori Street, Agege home on the outskirt of Lagos to an undisclosed location in Ikorodu, Lagos.

The third set of twins arrived last month. They were named Daniel and Daniella.

Mrs. Uche said she could no longer cope with widening needs for food, clothes, drugs and school fees.

Her meagre earnings as a teacher in a private school in Lagos can no longer meet their needs.

Her story: “I met my husband in 2002 but we got married in 2008. We met in the village at Umuahia. I don’t want to leave the children and run away. This is why I want government to help us,” she said.

She recalled that she never wanted the third pregnancy, but her use of traditional means of family planning (counting fertile and infertile days) failed her.

“I was using traditional way of family planning where I calculate some days before having intercourse. It was working for me. You can see my first set of twins is four years old.

“You know as women, we cannot deny our husband that thing whenever they request for it. Whenever I mistakenly take in, he would say that I was pretending. Sometimes, I would go through long process to abort the pregnancy. After that, another one would happen. I would still have to go through the process again to abort it. When this one happened he still insisted that I was pretending until the pregnancy became obvious.”

“My Church was responsible for the payment of the first delivery. The church paid N120, 000 for the delivery of the first set of twins. The two deliveries of the twins have been through Caesarean Section for which we paid N120, 000 each. The last twins are through normal delivery”.

Mrs. Uche explained that her husband, a factory worker in Iju Road, Agege, has since refused to pick her calls. She learnt that he stays in Ikorodu.

“Since I gave birth to the children, I have tried calling my husband but he would not pick once he knows that it is me. I contacted his mother and other relatives to tell them that he has run away. They promised that they will call back. Since then, none of them has called me. It is not easy for me at all.

“I know only two of his relations. One of them lives in Ikorodu; the other one lives at Ajegunle. My elder brother, who could have also helped, is very angry with me for giving birth to another set of twins. He warned me before not to have any other child after the two sets of twins, especially with the kind of husband I have.

“I cannot put my hands in blood shedding by committing abortion. I want Nigerians to help me because there is nobody to pay their school fees.

“I went for immunisation some days ago and I told them my condition and why they have not been seeing me. It was there that they advised that I should come to government. Government should please help my children; no one to help me with house rent, electricity bill, school fees, food and so on,” Mrs. Uche said.
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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by glimpse33: 7:17am On Jul 03, 2015
grin what's wrong with the man sef??
A thing like this calls for celebration, not leaving this fine lady in distress..

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by SPG4U(m): 7:18am On Jul 03, 2015
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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by oyindare(m): 7:19am On Jul 03, 2015
grin

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Cutehector(m): 7:21am On Jul 03, 2015
I wana marry such wife...

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by ibrams(m): 7:22am On Jul 03, 2015
he did the right tin atleast by alerting the government and public through running away.......i like ur style Mr

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Yustash001(m): 7:29am On Jul 03, 2015
I smell poverty...

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by DaGC(m): 7:29am On Jul 03, 2015
Poverty truly is the worst.

A rich man with HIV would be better than a healthy man with no money.

Its not my portion though wink

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Hazardd(m): 7:34am On Jul 03, 2015
ewww...thats God given so dont blame no one...
Some people are even crying for that everyday dear, all the same...it is well.


Smh for that man for his irresponsiblities..

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by rane06(f): 7:37am On Jul 03, 2015
Poverty!!!

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Nobody: 7:38am On Jul 03, 2015
When a blessing is in disguise, misbehavior is imminent.

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by ice25(f): 7:39am On Jul 03, 2015
poverty damages the mind

A blessing is seen as a burden or a curse
worst thing to happen to a man after hell is poverty

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by okangisaiah(f): 7:47am On Jul 03, 2015
cryc
Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by ladyju(f): 8:22am On Jul 03, 2015
What a world. Some people are doing all they can to conceive but couldn't

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Nobody: 10:41am On Jul 03, 2015
Some couples reading this right now will be praying for this kind of blessing: twins three times, because they dont even have one yet. This man is running

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Nobody: 10:41am On Jul 03, 2015
Poverty

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Adesam09(m): 10:41am On Jul 03, 2015
funny man
Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 03, 2015
Unwise Mr Uche.

She recalled that she never wanted the third pregnancy, but her use of traditional means of family planning (counting fertile and infertile days) failed her.

“I was using traditional way of family planning where I calculate some days before having intercourse. It was working for me. You can see my first set of twins is four years old.

Ladies....the above is an unwise way of planning your family.

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 03, 2015
Don't even know what to say.







Help is on its way
Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by barry40: 10:42am On Jul 03, 2015
FEARFUL blessings indeed. The man should summon the courage and trust God for provisions. The blessings of God makes rich and He adds no sorrow to it. God Who has blessed that with the children will take care of them. Henceforth the couple should know what to do; family planning of course.

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Georgekyrian(m): 10:42am On Jul 03, 2015
Hahahah, this man must be from dullard offspring..
Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by naijainfogalery: 10:43am On Jul 03, 2015
lol

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by toluine56(m): 10:43am On Jul 03, 2015
Lolz.
Funny.

If t'were to b germany im go siddon for haus dey collet child care benefits.
But this is what you get in my lovely country.

Not making excuses for him tho.
The man na 'ACTIVE MAN'.. Who knws dah spray?

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by jerflakes(m): 10:43am On Jul 03, 2015
grin

O BOY, THIS MAN DEY SCORE MORE GOALS THAN THE INFAMOUS NIGERIA vs INDIA WORLDCUP MATCH.

THE MAN SCORED SIX GOALS WITH THREE SHOTS.

grin

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by blackpanda: 10:44am On Jul 03, 2015
Stupid and jagbajantis woman.

Havent you heard of condom?? Pregnancy pills?? I guess u like it fresh and now you want nigerians to fund your wild bangings! Smh

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 03, 2015
Georgekyrian:
Hahahah, this man must be from dullard offspring..

Rather expensive joke,old chap.

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by krishfwesh(m): 10:44am On Jul 03, 2015
bt na d man sperm produce am ;Dbt na d man sperm produce am
Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by IAMGEJ(m): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2015
Wish my future wife could do same embarassed embarassed embarassed

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Re: Man Disappears Over Wife’s Third Set Of Twins by asuaiclive(m): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2015
lol

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