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Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by ConfessionsNgr: 10:38am On Jul 03, 2015
I married my husband about five years ago. Before I got married to him there were three of them that were going after me. My husband was the least person I had expected to get married to of the three people. Apart from the fact that he was a lit bit older than me, he was not the trendy type and he looked timid and native to me so I wasn’t even considering him at all at that time. If somebody had told me that I would later marry him I would have denied it. However, of the three people that were after me he was the one that appeared serious as at that time. He proposed to me and told me that he didn’t want an affair with me he just wanted to get married to me. The other guys on the other hand never proposed to me all they wanted was to have a go at me and then move on and considering the fact that age was no longer on my side and with the advice from my mother, I eventually agreed to marry my husband. When we eventually got married, I did everything to transform my husband from the timid and native guy he was to a trendy fashion man. I made sure I changed his entire wardrobe and bought him trendy clothes so he would look presentable as my husband. Everything has been fine with us until I had my second baby over a year ago. My husband just changed completely from the loving and caring man that dotes over me to a complete monster. He started out by keeping late nights and coming home drunk. Then I noticed that he was no longer interested in having sex with me. My husband that will always find any opportunity to engage me was no longer interested in sex; the whole thing took a turn for the worst when he stopped talking to me in the house. I don’t know what I did to offend him because as everything has been fine with us before now. It was at this point that I noticed he was having an affair outside. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, instead he told me that if I was not happy with the situation of things I should pack my things and leave after all I wasn’t planning to marry him initially that he practically begged me, so I can as well leave if I am tired. It got up to the extent that he picks the calls of his girlfriends in my presence calling them pet names like baby, sweetie and all that without regards to me. The straw that eventually broke the camel’s back was three days ago when he brought his girlfriend home. I took my baby to the hospital and when I got back, I noticed his car was parked outside. On entering the house I found him with the girl cuddling on the settee I didn’t know when I threw my baby down and gave the girl the beating of her life for daring to come into my home. He has called my people to say he is no longer interested in the marriage. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this and I have been begging him to tell me what I did wrong but all he keeps saying is that I never wanted to marry him in the first place, but all that is past and I have been a faithful and loyal housewife to him so why all these? Please my people tell me how to go about this before I run mad because my husband is behaving like somebody that has been bewitched or under a spell.


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Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by tmv10(m): 10:39am On Jul 03, 2015
.k
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 03, 2015
...Aii
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Mzthowxeen(f): 10:42am On Jul 03, 2015
shocked
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Collinsemegreat(m): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2015
Got to pray! Pray is the key...
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 10:45am On Jul 03, 2015
Just leave, go care for ur kids and keep praying for him. The Lord will surely vindicate u.



Ronald4lif where art thou?
Come and give best advice! wink
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by mecussey(m): 10:53am On Jul 03, 2015
Just give him some space, when he comes back begging insist on hiv test and other stds. Charm no dey last
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Tolexander: 11:03am On Jul 03, 2015
This is what happens when a man having a raw gold feels it isn't up to his standard, thinking refining the crude gold is the next thing. Who doesn't know it is a step to losing the gold.

The fact that you didn't like the person of the man and the process of transforming him must have made him to get wild.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by jamex93(m): 11:04am On Jul 03, 2015
fast n pray
dats all I can say
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 11:04am On Jul 03, 2015
the poster above me had said it all
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by asadike(f): 11:07am On Jul 03, 2015
nne, take your kids and go. be good and prayerful, dress neatly and beautiful. put your trust in God and be happy. Make sure his friends and even family notice u once in a while looking happy and beautiful. pls how close are u to his mum?
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by littlemistress(f): 11:50am On Jul 03, 2015
Get down on ur knees woman!
Pray & make ur marriage work.
He'll recover & realise his folly.


But then again, hope dz ain't karma at work? undecided
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Minemrys: 12:26pm On Jul 03, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:
I married my husband about five years ago. Before I got married to him there were three of them that were going after me. My husband was the least person I had expected to get married to of the three people. Apart from the fact that he was a lit bit older than me, he was not the trendy type and he looked timid and native to me so I wasn’t even considering him at all at that time. If somebody had told me that I would later marry him I would have denied it. However, of the three people that were after me he was the one that appeared serious as at that time. He proposed to me and told me that he didn’t want an affair with me he just wanted to get married to me. The other guys on the other hand never proposed to me all they wanted was to have a go at me and then move on and considering the fact that age was no longer on my side and with the advice from my mother, I eventually agreed to marry my husband. When we eventually got married, I did everything to transform my husband from the timid and native guy he was to a trendy fashion man. I made sure I changed his entire wardrobe and bought him trendy clothes so he would look presentable as my husband. Everything has been fine with us until I had my second baby over a year ago. My husband just changed completely from the loving and caring man that dotes over me to a complete monster. He started out by keeping late nights and coming home drunk. Then I noticed that he was no longer interested in having sex with me. My husband that will always find any opportunity to engage me was no longer interested in sex; the whole thing took a turn for the worst when he stopped talking to me in the house. I don’t know what I did to offend him because as everything has been fine with us before now. It was at this point that I noticed he was having an affair outside. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, instead he told me that if I was not happy with the situation of things I should pack my things and leave after all I wasn’t planning to marry him initially that he practically begged me, so I can as well leave if I am tired. It got up to the extent that he picks the calls of his girlfriends in my presence calling them pet names like baby, sweetie and all that without regards to me. The straw that eventually broke the camel’s back was three days ago when he brought his girlfriend home. I took my baby to the hospital and when I got back, I noticed his car was parked outside. On entering the house I found him with the girl cuddling on the settee I didn’t know when I threw my baby down and gave the girl the beating of her life for daring to come into my home. He has called my people to say he is no longer interested in the marriage. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this and I have been begging him to tell me what I did wrong but all he keeps saying is that I never wanted to marry him in the first place, but all that is past and I have been a faithful and loyal housewife to him so why all these? Please my people tell me how to go about this before I run mad because my husband is behaving like somebody that has been bewitched or under a spell.


Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/120/help-my-husband-is-acting-funny
<singing>this is super story!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by corkpikin(m): 12:52pm On Jul 03, 2015
Learn fromhome movie


ConfessionsNgr:
I married my husband about five years ago. Before I got married to him there were three of them that were going after me. My husband was the least person I had expected to get married to of the three people. Apart from the fact that he was a lit bit older than me, he was not the trendy type and he looked timid and native to me so I wasn’t even considering him at all at that time. If somebody had told me that I would later marry him I would have denied it. However, of the three people that were after me he was the one that appeared serious as at that time. He proposed to me and told me that he didn’t want an affair with me he just wanted to get married to me. The other guys on the other hand never proposed to me all they wanted was to have a go at me and then move on and considering the fact that age was no longer on my side and with the advice from my mother, I eventually agreed to marry my husband. When we eventually got married, I did everything to transform my husband from the timid and native guy he was to a trendy fashion man. I made sure I changed his entire wardrobe and bought him trendy clothes so he would look presentable as my husband. Everything has been fine with us until I had my second baby over a year ago. My husband just changed completely from the loving and caring man that dotes over me to a complete monster. He started out by keeping late nights and coming home drunk. Then I noticed that he was no longer interested in having sex with me. My husband that will always find any opportunity to engage me was no longer interested in sex; the whole thing took a turn for the worst when he stopped talking to me in the house. I don’t know what I did to offend him because as everything has been fine with us before now. It was at this point that I noticed he was having an affair outside. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, instead he told me that if I was not happy with the situation of things I should pack my things and leave after all I wasn’t planning to marry him initially that he practically begged me, so I can as well leave if I am tired. It got up to the extent that he picks the calls of his girlfriends in my presence calling them pet names like baby, sweetie and all that without regards to me. The straw that eventually broke the camel’s back was three days ago when he brought his girlfriend home. I took my baby to the hospital and when I got back, I noticed his car was parked outside. On entering the house I found him with the girl cuddling on the settee I didn’t know when I threw my baby down and gave the girl the beating of her life for daring to come into my home. He has called my people to say he is no longer interested in the marriage. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this and I have been begging him to tell me what I did wrong but all he keeps saying is that I never wanted to marry him in the first place, but all that is past and I have been a faithful and loyal housewife to him so why all these? Please my people tell me how to go about this before I run mad because my husband is behaving like somebody that has been bewitched or under a spell.


Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/120/help-my-husband-is-acting-funny
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by czarr(m): 1:05pm On Jul 03, 2015
lagmostkuit:
Just leave, go care for ur kids and keep praying for him. The Lord will surely vindicate u.



Ronald4lif where art thou?
Come and give best advice! wink
that guy like to blow grammar!!!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 03, 2015
czarr:
that guy like to blow grammar!!!
Buh always make sense! wink
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by clemz85(m): 2:55pm On Jul 03, 2015
while you pray and do any thing you can, don't move an inch outta that house,
so far you guys ain't getting physical fight yet, be the woman of the house, own it and then give your effort time to materialize.
it actually look like a spell then break it,
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by ronald4lif(m): 11:28pm On Jul 03, 2015
lagmostkuit:
Just leave, go care for ur kids and keep praying for him. The Lord will surely vindicate u.



Rona ld4lif where art thou?
Come and give best advice! wink

Oma, kedu?.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jul 03, 2015
ronald4lif:


Oma, kedu?.
Ofuma..

U just 4got bout me nah..
Odiro mma lipsrsealed
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by ronald4lif(m): 12:41am On Jul 04, 2015
lagmostkuit:

Ofuma..

U just 4got bout me nah..
Odiro mma lipsrsealed

No, I didn't. What state are you serving?.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 04, 2015
ronald4lif:


No, I didn't. What state are you serving?.
State of Osun! lipsrsealed

Na wetin governor say make dem dey call am!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by ronald4lif(m): 9:31am On Jul 04, 2015
lagmostkuit:

State of Osun! lipsrsealed

Na wetin governor say make dem dey call am!

If he likes let him call it ohun state, let him better pay corpers monthly entitlement. Not like he did to the state parastatals. State of osun ni state of osu ko.

Why didn't they post you to north
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 9:37am On Jul 04, 2015
ronald4lif:


If he likes let him call it ohun state, let him better pay corpers monthly entitlement. Not like he did to the state parastatals. State of osun ni state of osu ko.

Why didn't they post you to north
Lol, they did posted me 2 d north "gombe state" buh I redeployed.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 9:50am On Jul 04, 2015
Prayer is the key
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by KingTom(m): 9:53am On Jul 04, 2015
tunnamania11:
cool
See Oga Tuna? Person dey under spell you dey laugh? grin
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 9:55am On Jul 04, 2015
KingTom:
See Oga Tuna? Person dey under spell you dey laugh? grin
I no dey laugh o, na booking plot of land be that. grin
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by KingTom(m): 10:01am On Jul 04, 2015
tunnamania11:

I no dey laugh o, na booking plot of land be that. grin
You go soon chop another ban grin
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by Nobody: 10:04am On Jul 04, 2015
KingTom:
You go soon chop another ban grin
Haaha, Olorun onije o.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by KingTom(m): 10:09am On Jul 04, 2015
tunnamania11:

Haaha, Olorun onije o.
grin grin grin
Re: Help! My Husband Is Under A Spell!! by felix55(m): 9:42am On Jul 05, 2016
Now u r crying & seeking for advice...well do u Kw u r d cause of ur problem...are u shocked I said so ? let me tell u y I said so..., Remember u had three of them at a time...going out & enjoying ur self with pleasure of this world without thinking of being faithful to one man.u forgot that wat so ever u do b4 u got married,must surly appear to u when u settle down.d man that settle down with u pretend as if his nt seeing wat u r doing & when he finally settle down with u, he then open up by bringing wat u did to him b4 he met u.sorry I said this to u but s d truth ...next world u will come,try to move along with one person & if d one person s nt serious,don't pretend u love him & b playing games on him.let him go & always seek for God face b4 anything ... 4 now, pray to God all will b well with u.

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