Growing up, a woman’s virginity was such a big issue
and a high value was placed on it.
From time immemorial, a woman’s virginity has been
seen as one of her most prized possessions and a
certain respect was accorded to any woman who
remained a virgin till marriage.
But with modernization came a new school which places
less value on a woman’s virginity. These days, virginity
is even seen as a curse. Girls have no qualms losing it
to the first man that comes their way.
In the days of old, a maiden was expected to go into
marriage as a virgin. If on the first night after the
marriage her husband discovered she was not a virgin,
her family gets instant condemnation.
But civilization has substantially changed the way
people perceive virginity. Today, there’s so much
pressure on girls to gain s*xual experience before
getting married as some men do not want to marry a
woman with no s*xual experience.
Most girls who have friends that are already sexually
active feel left out when they are discussing their
experiences, hence the urge to also experiment for
themselves.
Virgins are really very scarce these days as majority
loose it even before the age of 20. Some girls even
compete among themselves who would be the first to
lose her virginity.
But what is the big deal about virginity? Could it be the
secret to a happy marriage?
Let’s take a look at some of the answers given by some
Naij.com readers.
According to Ella Ada Obani, being a virgin does not
guarantee a happy marriage but it earns trust. “You
might be a virgin, but ur attitude and character is zero,”
she adds.
Owomoyela Abimbola Hanna said: “Yes it does, because
the bible doesn’t support s*x before marriage. And
whenever we do things according to the will of God, we
live a happy and fulfilled life.”
“It pays to be a virgin. If you are a virgin when you
pray, God answers you speedily because you have kept
yourself pure. Secondly, it is only a foolish man or a
‘man dog’ that does not have value for a virgin. Do you
know what it cost a lady to preserve her indecency for
just one man? Any husband that happens to be the first
to drink from the cistern of his wife should count
himself blessed. 2yrs ago, Imo state government was
giving out cars to serving female corpers that got
married as virgin. Let us teach our children to uphold
their virginity. Your virginity is your pride ,”Ebony
Celestine said.
Anekwe Nkechi believes that some girls are still virgin in
20’s but it has nothing to do with happiness in
marriage. She explains that some virgins find it difficult
to conceive, saying: “ so virgin or no virgin doesn’t
guarantee anything .”
Justynoble Ben is of the opinion that being a virgin can
guarantee a happy marriage to some extent because
your husband will always respect and cherish you and
with that he will hardly hurt you. “I f I am given such
privilege to be a virgin again, I would love to be ,” he
adds.
Eno Jonah said: “It doesn’t guarantee a successful
marriage but you’ll be happy about not having a dark
past. Your husband will always respect you for that, if
given another chance I’ll still be a virgin for him again.”
“The answer to this question is Yes & No. Being a virgin
guarantees a happy home as your hubby will cherish
you like gold not only that, he won’t have the mind to
cheat on you and you also earn respect trust from him.
On the other hand, why I say it doesn’t guarantee a
happy marriage is when you are married to the wrong
person. I am a virgin and am very proud of myself, still
love to be a virgin again in my next life,” Muslihat
Obomeghie said.
Another reader named Jane Odukwe said: “My question
is the man coming to marry a virgin, is he a virgin?
Typical no, so why is he looking for a virgin? Sounds as
if making marriage work is made for women alone.
What about the men, can’t they put effort to see that
their marriage works too .”
It is quite understandable that the pressure to remain a
virgin till marriage has become more and more difficult
in today’s world which celebrates waywardness,
immorality, indecency and stupidity more than
uprightness and decency.
But there are still a number of virgins out there and you
can be one of them. If you desire to, all you need to do
is make up your mind and determine to keep your
virginity till marriage.
Though it is not very easy, it is possible.

I'm a virgin any question

Hmmm, if you are a virgin hit the LIKE button (Operation survey the rate of virgins in Nigeria)

Hmm nice one op



only if they reward Vs. in Nigeria, premarital sex will b controlled

sinaj:
b

space booker

mrsefan:
I'm a virgin any question

nope non atall

PervyByNature:
space booker

lol gud a.m pervy

Immoral, fornicators and adulterers will speak against it with all their strenght to silence their conscience

sinaj:

lol gud a.m pervy

Morning babe. Howz ya weekend?

OK!

Aside from the bibles view-point, there is absolutely nothing wrong in having sex once you're legal. So OP...... Leave story

PervyByNature:
Aside from the bibles view-point, there is absolutely nothing wrong in having sex once you're legal. So OP...... Leave story

Aside 4rm d Bible view-point? y will u overlook d Bible's view-point in d 1st place boss?

mjames:
Immoral, fornicators and adulterers will speak against it with all their strenght to silence their conscience

You are very correct bro

mrsefan:
I'm a virgin any question

How old are u?

Team V all d way

Genea:
Team V all d way

Virgin kwanu?

wenson:
Virgin kwanu?

yes?? Virgin na

Virgin+ Hmm but hardly can you find 80 virgin on Nairaland. DON'T MENTION ME OO

wenson:


Aside 4rm d Bible view-point? y will u overlook d Bible's view-point in d 1st place boss?

I didnt overlook it bro... Its just that staying away from sx is hard in this generation. The people that wrote these rules only lived in a time when bogus gowns where the most fashionable items. Today we have to fight with the sight of thick chics on mini-skirts,leggings,spandex,crop-tops,bum shorts,LBD's. etc.. Its even worse when you're a handsome-successful bachelor. Its too hard mehn..

[center][/center]NKECHI is wrong,virgin do not affect ur fertility

PervyByNature:
Morning babe. Howz ya weekend?

goin fyn

Andrew114:
[center][/center]NKECHI is wrong,virgin do not affect ur fertility

Can u prove it?

PervyByNature:
I didnt overlook it bro... Its just that staying away from sx is hard in this generation. The people that wrote these rules only lived in a time when bogus gowns where the most fashionable items. Today we have to fight with the sight of thick chics on mini-skirts,leggings,spandex,crop-tops,bum shorts,LBD's. etc.. Its even worse when you're a handsome-successful bachelor. Its too hard mehn..

I agree wid u bro

Genea:
yes?? Virgin na

Are u talking abt ursef or ur 1st daughter?

wenson:

Can u prove it?

so any body dat is a virgin would find it hard to give birth abi?smh

mrsefan:
I'm a virgin any question

Probably you are 14yrs or 12yrs old, Next

ok

Lolz....

how about a woman who is still a virgin at 38 years old?

Stnry!

Guys be wishing they had one as a partner and ladies be wishing they were one, but when this is not possible they say it is outdated, no one cares, it is a measure of lack of opportunity.