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Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:10am On Jul 06, 2015
I've been wondering.....most women have this NO SEX ON FIRST DATE motto like it's the only criterion to ascertaining feminine decency. They say it gives the guy the impression that you're too cheap and he would definitely dump you easy.

But to me, it's not true. You can play the hard-to-get for a year and still get jilted. So, ladies, allow your mood determine for you. If you have to bang that guy, bang him! And who knows, it might result to true love and marriage.

Or what do you think, guys? wink

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Shortyy(f): 8:11am On Jul 06, 2015
yup, it does.

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:12am On Jul 06, 2015
Shortyy:
yup, it does.
Not true, sweetheart

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by SPG4U(m): 8:13am On Jul 06, 2015
[size=20pt]yes absolutely...abi make I give u points?[/size]
Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:15am On Jul 06, 2015
SPG4U:
[size=20pt]yes absolutely...abi make I give u points?[/size]
Please give grin
Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:15am On Jul 06, 2015
I Don't believe in a lady being "cheap"....because even the "expensive " ones still get heartbroken.. in fact I kinda respect them. I see them as people who see what they like/want and go for it straight up,no time to waste,but unfortunately, some foolish "boys" will always take advantage.... so no...I dont....but then again.. must sex define a relationship?

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 06, 2015
Not jst cheap,dirty, loosed, name it!! undecided

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:20am On Jul 06, 2015
zaragal:
Not jst cheap,dirty, loosed, name it!! undecided
Yimu sad it's not a sin jo

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Nobody: 8:21am On Jul 06, 2015
It depends on wat ur definition of cheap is.

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by okabe(m): 8:25am On Jul 06, 2015
Forget about sex before marriage and cheapness, I'll do you one better...this I have to say, IT MAKES YOU VERY UNTRUSTWORTHY (believ me, u go loose trust pass as naira dey loose value). Your spouse will always doubt your chastity and faithfulness

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Shortyy(f): 8:26am On Jul 06, 2015
Joromi1:
Not true, sweetheart
well, not to you, but to me, i wouldn't even sleep with you on the 3rd date.

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by bebe2(f): 8:29am On Jul 06, 2015
Dats why our women are so inhibited ,

Even wen they like u on that first date and are dying to give u a kiss, they won't becos they need to shut off their emotions and act all stuck up, and that's how our naija men like it.

Or don't u remember the oyinbo girl dat was deceived by a naija boy in London, she spent the night at his house after their first date, though they have been chatting for over 3month.

Our pple here were mocking her, that she was cheap, she too like pri-ck , etc.

Then they will later come here and complain how their wives don't initiate sex, she is not romantic, not affectionate, bla bla bla.

Isn't that how u naija men like it??

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:29am On Jul 06, 2015
Shortyy:

well, not to you, but to me, i wouldn't even sleep with you on the 3rd date.
Not if I'm handsome, rich and extremely romantic tongue

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:30am On Jul 06, 2015
Hahaha! Where's Coogar? I'd like to know his take on this cheesy

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 06, 2015
Joromi1:

Yimu sad it's not a sin jo

Continue... cry

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:38am On Jul 06, 2015
bebe2:
Dats why our women are so inhibited ,

Even wen they like u on that first date and are dying to give u a kiss, they won't becos they need to shut off their emotions and act all stuck up, and that's how our naija men like it.

Or don't u remember the oyinbo girl dat was deceived by a naija boy in London, she spent the night at his house after their first date, though they have been chatting for over 3month.

Our pple here were mocking her, that she was cheap, she too like pri-ck , etc.

Then they will later come here and complain how their wives don't initiate sex, she is not romantic, not affectionate, bla bla bla.

Isn't that how u naija men like it??
My dear, this is where maturity and understanding play a huge role. U don't categorise every man as one. For the most part, real men don't look down on a lady who allowed her emotions speak for her. That she gave in for Abu doesn't mean she would do the same for Nnamdi

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by SuperSuave(m): 8:45am On Jul 06, 2015
its our naija mentality. As for me, it depends on the kinda girl sha. If its a girl I've been lusting after or my mission is to just chop and clean mouth, I'll tag her "cheap"
Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 8:51am On Jul 06, 2015
SuperSuave:
its our naija mentality. As for me, it depends on the kinda girl sha. If its a girl I've been lusting after or my mission is to just chop and clean mouth, I'll tag her "cheap"
Lmao!

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by freecocoa(f): 9:13am On Jul 06, 2015
Why won't it be cheap, when as a little girl growing up, all you hear is "stay away from boys, if he touches you, you are pregnant, sex is a sin before marriage and you'll burn in hell for it, God loves virgins and blesses them specially, your virginity is your pride" and more blah blah blah.

Then the men judge how decent you are by how long you can fend off their advances, give in on the first day and a prostitute is better than you(atleast she gets paid for it), play hard to get kwanu, you are a pretender. I just tire for this country people and their mentality.

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by GbengaJimoh(m): 9:22am On Jul 06, 2015
freecocoa:
Why won't it be cheap, when as a little girl growing up, all you hear is "stay away from boys, if he touches you, you are pregnant, sex is a sin before marriage and you'll burn in hell for it, God loves virgins and blesses them specially, your virginity is your pride" and more blah blah blah.

Then the men judge how decent you are by how long you can fend off their advances, give in on the first day and a prostitute is better than you(atleast she gets paid for it), play hard to get kwanu, you are a pretender. I just tire for this country people and their mentality.
grin grin grin

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by GbengaJimoh(m): 9:28am On Jul 06, 2015
Anyway, I think it's relative to the society. The Naija mentality would term sex on first date improper but oyinbo people may not see anything wrong with it. Before a date, there must have been some interactions earlier on maybe via internet or phone call. So the sex issue might have been discussed, hence it won't seem any longer too strange

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Shortyy(f): 9:51am On Jul 06, 2015
Joromi1:
Not if I'm handsome, rich and extremely romantic tongue
sorry, i'm not moved by looks and wealth. i have dignity and self esteem.

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Joromi1: 10:24am On Jul 06, 2015
Shortyy:

sorry, i'm not moved by looks and wealth. i have dignity and self esteem.
shocked shocked grin
Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by mutter(f): 12:09pm On Jul 06, 2015
It does not make a lady look cheap!












IT MAKES HER CHEAP!!!

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jul 06, 2015
naaah. sex on the first date isn't encouraged by oyinbos. don't make it seem like Naija society's a saint while others are bad. with the way young pple talk about and know about sex on this site, i wouldn't be surprised if more pple have sex on the first date in Naija. it's just that pple obviously won't talk about it so you don't know. they don't want to be looked down on. look at the thread posted yesterday about the 17 old who had sex and the mother wants to know whether to flog her. she's probably not the only 17-yr old girl in Naija who's sexually active

the only part of your post i agree with is the " before a date " part. there're pple who're looking for sex on first meeting and both of them would've discussed it beforehand, that this is what they're after. other than that, going on a date with someone you want to get to know as a person but ending up having sex with them is def going to make you look cheap, both the man and woman. to each their own, pple can do whatever they want.

GbengaJimoh:
Anyway, I think it's relative to the society. The Naija mentality would term sex on first date improper but oyinbo people may not see anything wrong with it. Before a date, there must have been some interactions earlier on maybe via internet or phone call. So the sex issue might have been discussed, hence it won't seem any longer too strange

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by NaYouGoTaya: 1:53pm On Jul 06, 2015
i've had only 8 girlfriends in my life. the ones that didn't last are the ones that refused to share kpomo with me. so keep hiding ur pvssy and think ur being prideful and preservative tongue

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by GuiltySpark343(m): 2:01pm On Jul 06, 2015
watch 'find me my man' on tlc,availiable on dstv,there are many rules regarding a succesful date,and not having sex on the first date is one of many
Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by coogaluta(f): 2:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
Ladies should learn that there's more to value than vaagina... angry
@op, it depends on the circumstances. cool

if it feels right, by all means, go for it cool

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by lilmax(m): 2:45pm On Jul 06, 2015
It makes you look slutty,cheap *5,if you are playing hard to get play it till the end

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by seunny4lif(m): 3:36pm On Jul 06, 2015
NaYouGoTaya:
i've had only 8 girlfriends in my life. the ones that didn't last are the ones that refused to share kpomo with me. so keep hiding ur pvssy and think ur being prideful and preservative tongue
For here kpomo na free no stress....Every fridays and sat,so why I go date self grin grin





See me for front page ooooooooh........All hail the king grin grin cheesy

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by mredwifeosband: 3:39pm On Jul 06, 2015
Of course. Infact prostitutes are better than osho free


difference. You meet on the first day negotiate price for sex. Whatever you think about her is your problem not hers


however the regular girl will just get thank you plus bad impression grin

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Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by zik4ever: 3:57pm On Jul 06, 2015
Immorality and sex outside marriage makes all involved, whether men and women, boys and girls very cheap, vulnerable to diseases and to the devil, and ultimately damns the soul in eternal doom in hell fire.

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