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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 06, 2015
Can't stop laughing grin... If you don't want me to ask for sex then tell me why we are dating?

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Mariojane(f): 3:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
ElDeeVee:

lol but thats wikkid grin
grin grin
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by davseun2ta(m): 3:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
Nnemuka:
You deserve an award.
No. 3 so onpoint. the irritating and disgusting thing about men is that once you exchange numbers, they state telling you bout their dick size.
mtcheww

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Kirinwa: 3:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
A girl that will leave you, will leave. Forget op epistle joor.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Mariojane(f): 3:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
profojah:

The guy na _idiot..What is sexy about this your body!. I just checked your pix and I saw nothing interesting...Even if you unclad, my dick no go rise
grin grin Mumu you wish. Abeg go hawk bread and beans. We know your type
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jul 06, 2015
Mariojane:
grin grin Mumu you wish. Abeg go hawk bread and beans. We know your type
Madam Na true I yarn you...when you said sexy , I was expecting a sexy pix like that of pussysandie, rokiatu, marieloe, prettythicksme, lagmostkuit and co.. What the different between you and Kafaya omo Iya elewa undecided sexy ko, sexo ni
You better go and bleach..Make I recommend Bioclaire for you
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Brownhypo: 3:49pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
2. Asking for sex too early
But Girl also ask for recharge card and money to make there hair too early
Life is give and take.
you are honest... thumb up!!

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by davseun2ta(m): 3:51pm On Jul 06, 2015
Mariojane:
grin grin Mumu you wish. Abeg go hawk bread and beans. We know your type
mummy good afternoon ma...!!!

Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jul 06, 2015
Birds Of the same feather flocks together,the rich marries the rich and the poor marries the poor. These broke girls should face their studies or face their work cos if you think you can marry a ready-made man because you're beautiful,then you're sleeping on a bicycle because beautiful girls are too much even among the
high class not to talk of the low class,even to be a rich man's aristo,you'd have to
queue with jazz with
everything,and that's if
you're lucky.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by winner01(m): 3:51pm On Jul 06, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
I've decided to counter this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/2417116/ladies-reasons-why-guy-dumps

By opening the one below.

Enjoy.

1. Being too Authoritative: most guys as so authoritative. The moment you accept their proposal, they will begin to act like a God over your life. Some will go as far as sizing your phone, buying you new sim card and forcing you to break the old one and begin using the new one they bought, screaming like a dying goat if they call you by 8pm and the background is noisy. Such attitude pisses girls off and may make her reconsider other toasters proposals.

2. Asking for sex too early: most guys think that because you've accepted their proposal you've automatically become their sex machine. They'll begin touching you everywhere at every chance they get. If you mistakenly visit them in their house, you're on your own. Guys should understand that creating an atmosphere that would make the girl comfortable is the only way to win her heart, not acting like a he goat at every opportunity you get.

3. Initiating sex chat all the time: 99% of guys are guilty of this. You exchange number with them, they add you on BBM or whatsapp, the next thing you'll here is send me a hot pic of yourself, snap your boobs let me see how it looks like, how does your waist look like? what's your best sex position, do you suck dic*k and all that. Haba all girls are not porn stars, and that attitude would just tell the girl that you're only interested in her body.

4. The beggar: Its true that some girls rely on guys for almost every material thing in her life, guys are also guilty of the same. Some guys will beg and beg and beg, no shame, I have a coursemate like that, her guy uses her phone to make calls, comes to her lodge to eat, collects her food stuffs and worse of all is that he isn't even faithful to the girl. Guys like that are worse than mosquitoes and can make any girl feel irritated.

5. Abusiveness: Most guys act as if they're professional boxers, they'll slap, punch, kick, and beat you to a pulp at every slight misunderstanding you have. In fact, if you visit them for a week, you'll look like someone that survived an accident between your okada and a dangote trailer. Guys you people need to stop this attitude. Any guy that lays his hands on a girl regardless of what she did doesn't deserve the love and care of any woman.

6. Unfaithfulness: Men are polygamous in nature, but its so irritating when you introduce you guy to your friends and in less than a week he has slept with all of them. He even goes as far as asking your siblings, cousins and female members of your family out. Its so annoying. You cannot even leave him for 5minutes alone with a female without him misbehaving. Most girls get turned off by this attitude and begin to consider other options.

7. Comparing you to their ex: Believe me no girl loves this. Most guys behave like kids, they compare everything you do with the way their ex used to do it. From your cooking, to your dressing, even the way you talk. Please just allow the girl express herself. Trying to force a girl to become what she's not will get her frustrated and as a result she could begin to look elsewhere.

8. Refusing to get matured: We have many guys in their early, mid and late 30s but their characters are like that of teenagers. You say hello to a friend on the road, problem, if you smile while saying hello, they'll say both of you have something in common if not why did you smile, if you give him a peck, that one is another problem. If they take you out, they'll expect you to remain silent like a monument not reply greetings and talking to anyone till you come back home. One word for you, grow up!

Note this article was written by asdfjklhaha

What kind of goat have those attitudes u listed up there, and u even dare to say 99%of guys...well u are who u attract...
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by noblegrex: 4:04pm On Jul 06, 2015
chemicool:
Bullshit! If you don't want him to be authoritative then don't collect that expensive phone he buys for you. Don't spend his money. You think it's OK to use that phone he bought for you to receive call of another man in his presence? If a man is too soft just because he doesn't wanna lose a girl then the girl would teach that man a very sweet emotional lesson. That's when she would start going to parties. Very soon she will start dating the guy next door. You being a mumu guy would shut up because you're cool and you don't wanna offend the biatch. Ode.
no mind them jor. Dem like to collect n even at that dey still complain. They're never satisfied in their lifes. None of them won marry poor man oo. Yet they have d mouth to talk. N for a man or a guy to b authoritatvive,d lady must have done something atleast. Proud thingssss.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Maxcollins042(m): 4:09pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
2. Asking for sex too early
But Girl also ask for recharge card and money to make there hair too early
Life is give and take.
Ah swear that you will live long
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by otokx(m): 4:12pm On Jul 06, 2015
This thread did not make impact like the other one.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by tommychow(m): 4:16pm On Jul 06, 2015
Iyalasisi:
When you are stupidly over emotional undecided

Get a grip on urself man and stop being a sissy angry

They'll say "don't be controlling", then they'll say "be a REAL MAN, nice guys finish last". (pls are there fake men?)

They'll say "we hate soft guys", then they'll say "unemotional guys are stressing"

They'll say "We admire hardworking men with goals", then you'll see them all fighting for a rich old man's son...or the rich old man...or both.

They'll be angry you have many female "friends", but they initially wanted you because you're a ladies' man...AND VERY EXPERIENCED. undecided (most confusing. I don't see us guys wanting to make a slvt a gf)

They'll wear the most pushed up push-up bra so their bobbies reach their chin and wear the tightest, shortest skirt. They'll take a pic, post it on instagram for the world.......THEN THEY'LL PREACH TO YOU ABOUT PREMARITAL SEX.

I gave up on female logic a long long time ago. Listen to them, u go end up for yaba left I swear.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by CR77(f): 4:17pm On Jul 06, 2015
cheesy grin lol
Maxcollins042:
Ah swear that you will live long
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Maxcollins042(m): 4:25pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
cheesy grin lol
Are u a Nigerian girl cos not all 9ja babes will make that point which u made
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by CR77(f): 4:27pm On Jul 06, 2015
I am a nigeria but i was born in europe


I have dual nationality
Maxcollins042:
Are u a Nigerian girl cos not all 9ja babes will make that point which u made

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by MicroBox: 4:28pm On Jul 06, 2015
Scrypt:
Total BS. The bullshiiiit that makes FP everyday. Meanwhile threads in Science and Technology rot. No wonder the younger generation want to be Davido and Tuface instead of a Phil Emegwale or Bart Nnaji. angry

Pfffft
I really concur with your observations..it's high time the mods take their time and review every section on nairaland and bring useful thread to FrontPage.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Maxcollins042(m): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
I am a nigeria but i was born in europe

I have dual nationality
Oh i see,thumbs up
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by owobokiri(m): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
2. Asking for sex too early

But Girl also ask for recharge card and money to make there hair too early

Life is give and take.

You dey mind her. .
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by mubarak001(m): 4:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
Refurbished and recirculated...cant someone just open a thread like; i have 5jobs offer to give Nlers, resume without application.
Rubbish...poo!
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
Scrypt:
Total BS. The bullshiiiit that makes FP everyday. Meanwhile threads in Science and Technology rot. No wonder the younger generation want to be Davido and Tuface instead of a Phil Emegwale or Bart Nnaji. angry

Pfffft

I gree with you sir. So many unimportant threads making frontpage when educative threads are dying unnoticed. Pathetic!

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by CR77(f): 4:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
Thank remain bless
Maxcollins042:
Oh i see,thumbs up
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by abbey621(m): 4:42pm On Jul 06, 2015
This is funny to me, I've never been dumped before and yet I'm guilty of some of the things the OP points out. I've always believed we have two types of girls, those that deserve to be played and those that deserve to stay. Sometimes I get the two confused but I ultimately end up doing the dumping not the other way around. I'm highly confident, authoritative and strong minded. I don't believe in two captains in a ship especially relationships so if I'm with someone, I'll definitely be the one doing the leading(Can't let a woman drive me into a pit grin grin grin). In my younger days, I never spent a dime on a woman, cos I am not her father! Nowadays I spend only on those that I don't mind being a maga for grin grin grin. Yet I've never been dumped cos being dumped implies that I actually give a f*ck about the girl in the first placed, I don't invest emotionally unless the girl is deeply emotionally invested, in the relationship I'm not even going to give 50% of my heart till I'm sure I've got 200% of hers, yes it's unfair but love is a game that I just can't afford to lose!
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by debson(m): 4:57pm On Jul 06, 2015
3. Initiating sex chat all the time: 99% of guys are guilty of this. You exchange number with them, they add you on BBM or whatsapp, the next thing you'll here is send me a hot pic of yourself, snap your boobs let me see how it looks like, how does your waist look like? what's your best Position, do you suck dic*k and all that. Haba all girls are not porn stars, and that attitude would just tell the girl that you're only interested in her body.

Ehmmm.... Guilty as charged cool

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Maxcollins042(m): 4:58pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
Thank remain bless
You too
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by correctyourself(m): 5:18pm On Jul 06, 2015
CR77:
2. Asking for sex too early

But Girl also ask for recharge card and money to make there hair too early

Life is give and take.

U've said it all! Thanks.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by trappatoni(m): 5:26pm On Jul 06, 2015
donsmall94:
I hear
But u forgot to add MONEY

There wud be spacebookers meeting by 8pm tonight
money should be number one on that list cos a girl will deliberately start trouble when she finds someone richer than you.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Uniquekriss(m): 5:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
Any girl DAT still stays in a relationship after rcvn a beating is a fool. As for #3, its not 99mayb I can accept 60%.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by davseun2ta(m): 5:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
reading...
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by airex(m): 6:14pm On Jul 06, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
I've decided to counter this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/2417116/ladies-reasons-why-guy-dumps

By opening the one below.

Enjoy.

1. Being too Authoritative: most guys as so authoritative. The moment you accept their proposal, they will begin to act like a God over your life. Some will go as far as sizing your phone, buying you new sim card and forcing you to break the old one and begin using the new one they bought, screaming like a dying goat if they call you by 8pm and the background is noisy. Such attitude pisses girls off and may make her reconsider other toasters proposals.

2. Asking for sex too early: most guys think that because you've accepted their proposal you've automatically become their sex machine. They'll begin touching you everywhere at every chance they get. If you mistakenly visit them in their house, you're on your own. Guys should understand that creating an atmosphere that would make the girl comfortable is the only way to win her heart, not acting like a he goat at every opportunity you get.

3. Initiating sex chat all the time: 99% of guys are guilty of this. You exchange number with them, they add you on BBM or whatsapp, the next thing you'll here is send me a hot pic of yourself, snap your boobs let me see how it looks like, how does your waist look like? what's your best sex position, do you suck dic*k and all that. Haba all girls are not porn stars, and that attitude would just tell the girl that you're only interested in her body.

4. The beggar: Its true that some girls rely on guys for almost every material thing in her life, guys are also guilty of the same. Some guys will beg and beg and beg, no shame, I have a coursemate like that, her guy uses her phone to make calls, comes to her lodge to eat, collects her food stuffs and worse of all is that he isn't even faithful to the girl. Guys like that are worse than mosquitoes and can make any girl feel irritated.

5. Abusiveness: Most guys act as if they're professional boxers, they'll slap, punch, kick, and beat you to a pulp at every slight misunderstanding you have. In fact, if you visit them for a week, you'll look like someone that survived an accident between your okada and a dangote trailer. Guys you people need to stop this attitude. Any guy that lays his hands on a girl regardless of what she did doesn't deserve the love and care of any woman.

6. Unfaithfulness: Men are polygamous in nature, but its so irritating when you introduce you guy to your friends and in less than a week he has slept with all of them. He even goes as far as asking your siblings, cousins and female members of your family out. Its so annoying. You cannot even leave him for 5minutes alone with a female without him misbehaving. Most girls get turned off by this attitude and begin to consider other options.

7. Comparing you to their ex: Believe me no girl loves this. Most guys behave like kids, they compare everything you do with the way their ex used to do it. From your cooking, to your dressing, even the way you talk. Please just allow the girl express herself. Trying to force a girl to become what she's not will get her frustrated and as a result she could begin to look elsewhere.

8. Refusing to get matured: We have many guys in their early, mid and late 30s but their characters are like that of teenagers. You say hello to a friend on the road, problem, if you smile while saying hello, they'll say both of you have something in common if not why did you smile, if you give him a peck, that one is another problem. If they take you out, they'll expect you to remain silent like a monument not reply greetings and talking to anyone till you come back home. One word for you, grow up!

Note this article was written by asdfjklhaha

Continue dumping and soon u will become a dumpin ground

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