Ladies Can You Ever ask A guy out or have you ever had the thought of doing so and you got no boldness to do so?

Let's hear your thought or Experience on it

Anyway, d ladies una don hear...

I can never. I am still a bit old school. I don't feel it's appropriate for a woman to chase a man. It just seems desperate to me.

Even if you are into him and u know he is into you as well but shy to express it?

totalbaby:
I can never. I am still a bit old school. I don't feel it's appropriate for a woman to chase a man. It just seems desperate to me.

if a lady walk up to me to ask me out i wl consida her cheap.

I can't and will never!

Yes I can!















Ok! I'm not a lady and am straight!
This thread no concern me!

*walks out*

In dis 21st century a gurl don't hv 2 ask a guy out all she have to do is open up, if d guy is nt a slowpoke he will take over, I have dated so many girl and nobody asked anybody out it just started as mere friends

Iamhoypete:
Ladies Can You Ever ask A guy out or have you ever had the thought of doing so and you got no boldness to do so?

Let's hear your thought or Experience on it

why not? i can ask a guy out

misssclassy:
These days if a lady asks a guy out, the general perception is that she is desperate.

So, I would rather wait for a guy to take the bold step, but I would give him positive signs to show that I am into him, if he becomes a bit hesitant.

The best way...

elijah2u:
if a lady walk up to me to ask me out i wl consida her cheap.

wetin you know? Nothing

BANGERLEE1:
wetin you know? Nothing

u ask and ansa it, hmm i lov ur cnfidence

They will never... Nigerian girls are just timid... Thinking all guys will teg them loose or easy.

I wont

never ever never

I CAN only ask out the guy I'm already dating.

Not some other guy that will think i want him so badly. hence he lacked the initiative and i took charge but yeah, he will still think otherwise.

I dey craze?

I love this guy so much and was waiting for him to ask me out(we were friends for years) but he didn't so I have to tell him how I feel towards him still he didn't say anything till after few months. We are dating now and planning to get married. Sometimes guys fear rejection. We are best of friends, best lovers and above all we will be the best couple.

See them and the next thing you see them saying is "beingafemaleinnigeria "

prettythicksme:
I dey craze?

before nko

Nwocha12:

I love this guy so much and was waiting for him to ask me out(we were friends for years) but he didn't so I have to tell him how I feel towards him still he didn't say anything till after few months. We are dating now and planning to get married. Sometimes guys fear rejection. We are best of friends, best lovers and above all we will be the best couple.

that's a really nice story

HML

misssclassy:
These days if a lady asks a guy out, the general perception is that she is desperate.

So, I would rather wait for a guy to take the bold step, but I would give him positive signs to show that I am into him, if he becomes a bit hesitant.

whats the difference? If you give me positive signs that you like me that is obvious, I can also think you are desperate. . Just let the guu know ur feelings, simple.. don't expect that guys are magicians to know how u feel

All showdys r now claiming they can't abii...

It depends on d guy. Some of dem wil only accept u out of sympathy and end up treating u like trash. Some guys r coded tho..my kinda guys

Nwocha12:

I love this guy so much and was waiting for him to ask me out(we were friends for years) but he didn't so I have to tell him how I feel towards him still he didn't say anything till after few months. We are dating now and planning to get married. Sometimes guys fear rejection. We are best of friends, best lovers and above all we will be the best couple.

seee dis is thru love, some girls are just too proud and they don't know that pride will lead them to lose that someone special. Just tell the guy straight ahead. If its rejection u are afraid of haven't guys been rejected aren't they still alive?

Well, I usually don't find any girl who approaches me attractive but I c nothing wrong with lady asking a guy out.. The fact is dat, if I dont av feelings for her, I make my points clear instead of dating her out of pity.. But I try as much as possible to be friends with them