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The Reasons Why Online Dating Don't Work For Nigerians by sim37(m): 8:13pm On Jul 11, 2015
1. Majority of the girls or ladies looking for date online, don't really want to meet just nice guys, but miracle money-guys (rich, handsome, God- fearing, sexy, loving, caring, homely and all) to spend money on them and meet their numerous financial needs, which cannot come in one package even in real life; which was the main reason they (girls) decided to widen their search online, not necessarily becos they don't have dates in real life or are not being approached by guys in real life, but becos they want a rich- prince-charming who must also be a pope johnpaul and romeo at the same time. 2. Majority of the guys looking for date online are not financially buoyant to meet the above criteria that the ladies are looking for. 3. Majority of the guys are actually looking for sexmates and not true love. 4. The girls that are searching for true love without criteria 1. attached to their search, are not good-looking, or they are over-aged. and they are also very few in number. 5. The few nice, honest and ambitious guys looking for date online have no money, which makes them stand no chance of getting a date online since the majority of the females want rich guys to spend on them and take care of their needs. 6. The frequent bashing on both genders (especially the Nigerian girls) and ego- fight between the guys and the ladies here will make many to lose focus on connecting with their true love, which was the primary reason most signed up on NL. 7. Nigerian ladies are too scared of poverty, which no one should blame them cos of the present economic situation of the country, tribute to our frequent corrupt leaders. And on the one hand, Nigerian guys want the ladies to start loving them even while they are yet to become rich or great, as a way of proving that their love for them is real, while the Nigerian ladies maintains that history has taught them not to stay with a potential guy cos when he finally gets money, that he would dump them that suffered with him for new girls. which if at all its true and happens often, is a case to ponder....so all these facts and more, are some of the reasons internet dating won't work for Nigerians on NL and other social n. sites.
Re: The Reasons Why Online Dating Don't Work For Nigerians by macville2: 8:15pm On Jul 11, 2015
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Re: The Reasons Why Online Dating Don't Work For Nigerians by emperorchedda(m): 8:49pm On Jul 11, 2015
You said it all
Re: The Reasons Why Online Dating Don't Work For Nigerians by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 11, 2015
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