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Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by sexylogan(m): 10:24pm On Jul 11, 2015
Hey everyone.

I'm a medical doctor doing his residency program in one of Nigeria's Teaching Hospitals.

My girlfriend is in her mid twenties and is a second year student at a federal university.

She has never asked me for anything as she is well taken care of by her family.

I send her money every other month or so through her account.

However, I feel compelled to place her on a regular monthly allowance. Two of my closest friends have different opinions about this.
One feels that a gf has no right to enjoy a regular allowance while the other says there is nothing wrong with doing this as he does the same to his gf.

On one hand I don't want her to feel like I'm trying to show off but on the other hand I want to support her in her studies.

What do you guys think?
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by ibrams(m): 10:25pm On Jul 11, 2015
not neccessary....
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by daresimon(m): 10:26pm On Jul 11, 2015
Stupid I'll say.
What if dey end up not marryin?
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Deexxy: 10:27pm On Jul 11, 2015
Are you her Father? undecided

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Tallesty1(m): 10:30pm On Jul 11, 2015
Not necessary

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by laniyi07(m): 10:34pm On Jul 11, 2015
e be like say maga gene dey your blood. carry go

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by elantraceey(f): 10:38pm On Jul 11, 2015
My dear do what you want to do and don't bother yourself about what other people think, as long as you're comfortable with it and its not stressing you then do it.


But if you ask me I'll say you just continue sending her money whenever you feel like but it shouldn't be regular else she might become always expectant and start to depend on it and when you might not be able to , it'll bring up issues. It'll be silly of her of her to think you're showing off.

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jul 11, 2015
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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by cooljoe(m): 10:46pm On Jul 11, 2015
If hez working and shez not, den ts a YES
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by chybykee(m): 10:49pm On Jul 11, 2015
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by gamaliel121(m): 10:55pm On Jul 11, 2015
Doc...u no try for us ooo..
U no even get 1 topic for health wey go help us...
Try drop one abeg..
And as for that girl..
I can bet she is fuckinggg or will fucckk anoda guy in that skool..
Be careful oo..
Let her parents continue taking care of her...buh once in a while..u can alert her..
Based on...
U feel me?
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by dharay99: 10:57pm On Jul 11, 2015
Hell No.
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by ivyT(f): 10:59pm On Jul 11, 2015
gamaliel121:
Doc...u no try for us ooo..
U no even get 1 topic for health wey go help us...
Try drop one abeg..
And as for that girl..
I can bet she is or will fucckk anoda guy in that skool..
Be careful oo..
Let her parents continue taking care of her...buh once in a while..u can alert her..
Based on...
U feel me?

Must she b bleeping sum1 to b normal?

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by sexylogan(m): 11:01pm On Jul 11, 2015
gamaliel121:
Doc...u no try for us ooo..
U no even get 1 topic for health wey go help us...
Try drop one abeg..
And as for that girl..
I can bet she is or will fucckk anoda guy in that skool..
Be careful oo..
Let her parents continue taking care of her...buh once in a while..u can alert her..
Based on...
U feel me?

Bro, my stomach dey pain from laff grin
Yes, I feel you and I will post something informative in the health section

Thanks for your advice.

NB: Not all girls are flirts oh...
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by gamaliel121(m): 11:06pm On Jul 11, 2015
sexylogan:

Bro, my stomach dey pain from laff grin Yes, I feel you and I will post something informative in the health section
Thanks for your advice.
NB: Not all girls are flirts oh...
Lol..well..true sha..
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by DrObum(m): 11:09pm On Jul 11, 2015
Capital NO!
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Gurgle(f): 11:12pm On Jul 11, 2015
if you feel like it you can give her

don't think regular "payments" are necessary

if she were your wife it would be a different story

It's good that you think this way though; it bodes well for the future
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2015
Don't make it regular; just do it 1ce in a while, when led...

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by famous1000(m): 11:23pm On Jul 11, 2015
laniyi07:
e be like say maga gene dey your blood. carry go
grin grin grin
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by jmoore(m): 11:26pm On Jul 11, 2015
Make sure you give her pension if she breaks up with you.

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by 2dice(m): 11:31pm On Jul 11, 2015
Gf == Hell No
Rather dash the motherless
Wife ==CAPITAL YES
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Adesiji77: 11:34pm On Jul 11, 2015
Salary is more like it... tongue
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 11, 2015
say werin happen?
r u a company & she's ur worker?
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by fexyrich(m): 11:45pm On Jul 11, 2015
U are not her father neither are u her brother or mother..She is just a gf who can dumpa u anyday for anoda man or can even be cheating on u while ur away.Never invest too much on a girl when you arnt married to her yet..so dat incase she messes up it won't hurt u much..since u av too much money 2 throw away why not send dat monthly income to your parents who am sure trained u into becoming a medical doctor Rather than a girl who is not yet a wife..U can be sending her mony but it shldnta at all be on a regular basis..Her family shld take her responsibility till ur ready 2 pay her bride price..Don't be a fool!! E be lyk say woman never do u somtin b4..U have to wise up man..

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by ronald4lif(m): 12:07am On Jul 12, 2015
Hilarious comments. Guys are not smiling at all. grin grin
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by dechandel(f): 9:33am On Jul 12, 2015
ronald4lif:
Hilarious comments. Guys are not smiling at all. grin grin
Seriously! The comments cracked me up grin grin grin

Bia Doc, true true, e be like maga gene dey your blood o grin
I see no reason why you should place her on a payroll.
Give as much as you can when you can. If it comes monthly, and when something goes wrong and you don't meet up to the monthly allowance, you will come and open another thread and ask if bae is possessed!
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by JoeCutie(m): 9:47am On Jul 12, 2015
Monthly allowance? Say wetin happen?
Is she working for you?

Guys are most times, the architect of their own downfall. You give girls the reason to show themselves, and when they start doing it, you'll still be the one to complain.

See... if you have money and you feel you want to give her some, then so be it; and not placing yourself where you're not.

Do you place your mum & dad on monthly allowance? If you don't and you're contemplating placing a girlfriend on an allowance, then you're almost a failure (You're "almost" because you've not done it, you're still contemplating doing it). Your parents gave birth to you and saw you through school. Not your girlfriend.

Wise up, man.

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Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by sexylogan(m): 10:17am On Jul 12, 2015
dechandel:
Seriously! The comments cracked me up grin grin grin

Bia Doc, true true, e be like maga gene dey your blood o grin
I see no reason why you should place her on a payroll.
Give as much as you can when you can. If it comes monthly, and when something goes wrong and you don't meet up to the monthly allowance, you will come and open another thread and ask if bae is possessed!

Sweery, I don't have maga gene in my blood oh!

The part of opening another thread to ask if bae is possessed really cracked me up grin
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jul 12, 2015
I see ntin wrong with that,dnt just make it constant.
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by mekzyjoe(m): 11:17am On Jul 12, 2015
Luks like we av a dumb nig.ga rite here....
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by Nobody: 11:37am On Jul 12, 2015
Well, you are not obliged to, just buy her stuffs she needs or give her money sometimes
Re: Should A Working Man Give His Gf A Monthly Allowance? by littlemistress: 12:07pm On Jul 12, 2015
Can you stop the payments for a period of three months & watch her actions/reactions towards you during the period?

There you have your answer.
Goodluck

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