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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
God bless you for this exposition. Make the guys wey dey beef me say Naija girls rock dey there. I no vex. Make una go marry Oyibo. People wey dey there know where the shoe dey pinch dem for leg. Truth is, as a Naija guy wey hammer and I mean real hammer, if you marry oyibo, you are on your own.

Come to think of it. Have you guys (betandwin and sonofananimal1) found out the rate of divorce in these countries? Have you found out the state of the men after the divorce? See, you can only say what you know.


DEPENDING ON THE COUNTRY, WHICH COUNTRY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. INFACT THE HIGHEST DIVORCE RATE IS IN AMERICAN.

ALDOE I HAVE NEVER BEING TO AMERICAN OR ANY WESTERN COUNTRY,SO I MAY NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THEM OR EVEN THERE WAY OF LIFE.

BACK TO YOUR TOPIC, DIVORCE IS IN EVERYWHERE, EVEN IN NIGERIA TOO,SO YOU JUST HAVE TO PLAIN OVER IT.
WHO WILL KEEP ALL HIS EGG IN ONE BASKET undecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by freecocoa(f): 12:36pm On Jul 21, 2015
jaybee3:


You have to ignore him no matter how much he tries to lure you into exchanging words.

You are perfectly entitled to live the way you choose to live your life and obviously doesn't need anyone validating it.

I don't like seeing you this angry so please biko

I'm good ooo, hanging in there as usual
Okay, it's because of you o, you know I loff you too much.

kiss kiss
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by vague: 12:37pm On Jul 21, 2015
bigerboy200:
why should I find myself in Europe and end up marrying a Nigerian girl why why...mtscheeeeww
you father must have been a mad cow for marrying a Nigerian woman and ending up with a Nigerian child like you.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 12:39pm On Jul 21, 2015
Just answer me one question.

What is usually the state of the man after divorce in
a) Nigeria
b) Europe and the west

After then, you can go ahead and marry Oyibo.

sonofananimal1:


DEPENDING ON THE COUNTRY, WHICH COUNTRY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. INFACT THE HIGHEST DIVORCE RATE IS IN AMERICAN.

ALDOE I HAVE NEVER BEING TO AMERICAN OR ANY WESTERN COUNTRY,SO I MAY NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THEM OR EVEN THERE WAY OF LIFE.

BACK TO YOUR TOPIC, DIVORCE IS IN EVERYWHERE, EVEN IN NIGERIA TOO,SO YOU JUST HAVE TO PLAIN OVER IT.
WHO WILL KEEP ALL HIS EGG IN ONE BASKET undecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jul 21, 2015
slimmykisses:
The truth is a lot of Nigerian men whether at home or abroad are after chicks who can pay their bills and spend money on them, I call such men "iyawo men" . I mean ,as a lady I can imagine meeting a guy for the first time and the first question he ask is "what do you do for a living ", it sounds crazy -i mean what has what I do got to do with how u feel abt me?#stillslimmykisses#
HE ONLY WANTED TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE NOT A ONE CHANCE GIRL.


BY THE WAY, IF HE DIDN'T ASK YOU THAT QUESTION, YOU MUST SURELY ASK HIM ONE WAY OR THE OTHER
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jul 21, 2015
daimlerbenz:
Just answer me one question.

What is usually the state of the man after divorce in
a) Nigeria
= BACK TO SINGLE
b) Europe and the west
= BACK TO SINGLE, BUT IN THIS CASE!! DEPENDING ON THE TYPE OF AGREEMENT YOU MAKE BEFORE MARRY.

After then, you can go ahead and marry Oyibo.

Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Rexnegro(m): 12:48pm On Jul 21, 2015
sonofananimal1:
THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH
Tanx boss, am jus shooting my mind o
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jaybee3(m): 12:49pm On Jul 21, 2015
freecocoa:
Okay, it's because of you o, you know I loff you too much.

kiss kiss

Thanks for the honour sugar

kiss kiss
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by fairheven: 1:01pm On Jul 21, 2015
Demmocrats:

I mean 95 percent of those chicks from that side are so easy to screw and why all this anger did I screw your sister or aunty grin
www.
U are senseless to make such assertion

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jul 21, 2015
Cutehector:
We just wana hav mixd breed children which is so so cool...
tell em
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jul 21, 2015
This is true oo.Nigeria guys donot like Nigeriangirls ere oo..its is so very true,it happens all around d world except nigeria cos you only see your country women there..i dnt even like them,them too act
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Pakingzzz(m): 1:28pm On Jul 21, 2015
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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jul 21, 2015
AlphaMoi:
This is true oo.Nigeria guys donot like Nigeriangirls ere oo..its is so very true,it happens all around d world except nigeria cos you only see your country women there..i dnt even like them,them too act
YOU ARE WELCOME!! HAVE A CUP OF TEA BROTHER

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Richy4(m): 1:30pm On Jul 21, 2015
fairheven:

U are senseless to make such assertion

Don't waste your time on that kid. His stup!dity is beyond prayers
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by freecocoa(f): 1:33pm On Jul 21, 2015
jaybee3:


Thanks for the honour sugar

kiss kiss
Anything for you love.

You are welcome.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 21, 2015
slimmykisses:
The truth is a lot of Nigerian men whether at home or abroad are after chicks who can pay their bills and spend money on them, I call such men "iyawo men" . I mean ,as a lady I can imagine meeting a guy for the first time and the first question he ask is "what do you do for a living", it sounds crazy -i mean what has what I do got to do with how u feel abt me?#stillslimmykisses#
Aunty,reverse is the case ooo grin
na naija ladies na dem no actually wan gree work(some not all though).Can u imagine the other day i was gisting with this final year female accounting student and i asked her what she would like to do after she graduate and she replied by saying she would hope to marry a wealthy man wey go open a big provision stall for her after graduation and her youth service grin.And the issue of a guy asking a girl what she does for a living its actually mostly ladies who are guilty of this.Some even go as far as wanting to know your salary scale grin.In many of our churches of today our ladies even go as far as bribing pastors so dat pastors can make up vision of one rich broda for the church being the lady's hubby grin.una too much....in short i bend down for una grin.
Many guys wont really mind spending on a lady but wetin many of the guys for here dey complain of na some of the naija ladies wey dey use relationship as employment opportunity grin.ehen u go give her allowance for brazilian wig and even allowance for pant and bra and she go still dey nag say e no dey enough grin.no wonder four yrs after marriage some men go dry like bonga while the woman go just dey fresh year in year out grin.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 21, 2015
freecocoa i dey see u ooo grin grin
wait make i go chop kolanut first cheesy
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 21, 2015
freecocoa:
Says the hopeless and useless mofo that doesn't understand simple "mind your business".

I am yet to understand why it bothers you so much what I do, just how does it affect your miserable life? I don't care for you or whatever you do on here, why can't you simply do same? I love the imaginary devil so let him keep being behind me, just leave us be.

It is really a pity having to encounter someone who knows not, yet doesn't know he knows not, your life must really suck for you to go about poking your flat nose into people's lives to know who regrets and who doesn't, the ironic thing is that if you were offered to me free of any charges to use as a houseboy, I would reject you with everything in me because you are totally worth nothing, just see how you reason, a ret*rd is even better than you, be glad NL has given you the opportunity to exchange words with me, I won't be caught dead in a conversation with someone like you in the real world, keep at this and you'll see how foul finger*d the devil in me can be, you better just respect yourself, ozu rere ere.

Freecocoa, some mistakes are better realized and tackled timely than allowing them grow unbendable wings such that one wont be able to tackle them again. I'm neither the first, nor second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, nineth, tenth or even eleventh person coming out to point this out to and yet you seem to be recalcitrant. This path of yours, we men all know it cant do you any good. No man can ever be serious with you with these characters of yours. If you like, take it as an online ranting, the fact is, we who post online are the same people you meet offline. Thesonofmark and others had brought this to your notice and yet, that devil behind you wont let you see the truth. Go for deliverance first and see how your life will be after it. I'm serious!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 21, 2015
Love is not defined the same way everywhere.
All I can say is that the concept of love in our country is quite different from the meaning of love elsewhere.

If our guys go abroad I can fairly understand that preference. A white girl will only marry a Nigerian man because of love. She wont need him for something else, nor would it benefit to her status. Contrary, she will rather have a hard job convincing her family and friends that her nigerian lover is not after a passport, money or benefits. When she loves against all odds, it's probably real love. Anything wrong for our guys having a preference for being loved as a person and not as source of prospects?

Love out there has more to do with the heart, and marriage wont add to the status as a woman like it does here. Love is more free there to be real love, here it is more a deal.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Kjking(m): 1:58pm On Jul 21, 2015
ddami:
And you are ignoring the fact that a boy will date 5 girls at the same time have sex with all if them then ends up marrying NONE..For a girl who wants true love but ends up having a man who just has sex with her and dumps her twice,, definately, if she finds another man, she wouldn't want to be the only one on the loosing side,, she feels the money is a bit of compensation..,,,,

on the other hand,, I dont really blame you guyz,, but some silly girls who easily get carried away with all your lies, opens her legs and ends up feeling used....
the conclusive part of your message makes more sense... some immature girls that claims they are big girls are so myopic in thinking, you see every sign that a dude is cheating on you yet your sick brain that is clouded with that poo called love won't let you leave..
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jul 21, 2015
firstEVA:
i dont think she is an extreme feminist, she is just a feminist.

Extreme feminist is an understatement. Freecocoa is worst than that. Seems you dont get a clear picture of hers.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by dazzlingbeau(f): 2:01pm On Jul 21, 2015
cococandy:


Of course it's the girls' fault.

Everything wrong with the black man is either the white man's fault or the women's fault. There's no room for responsibility in your lives.
1 million likes for this.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by freecocoa(f): 2:18pm On Jul 21, 2015
lefulefu:
freecocoa i dey see u ooo grin grin
wait make i go chop kolanut first cheesy
Lefumumu how far na? You still dey here? Abeg me sef go like follow chop that kola, share give me small you hear?grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Ugosample(m): 2:19pm On Jul 21, 2015
Tufanja:
Love is not defined the same way everywhere.
All I can say is that the concept of love in our country is quite different from the meaning of love elsewhere.

If our guys go abroad I can fairly understand that preference. A white girl will only marry a Nigerian man because of love. She wont need him for something else, nor would it benefit to her status. Contrary, she will rather have a hard job convincing her family and friends that her nigerian lover is not after a passport, money or benefits. When she loves against all odds, it's probably real love. Anything wrong for our guys having a preference for being loved as a person and not as source of prospects?

Love out there has more to do with the heart, and marriage wont add to the status as a woman like it does here. Love is more free there to be real love, here it is more a deal.

And this is an intelligent post
The Psychology of the two sets of women differ, but to be fair to Naija girls, it is not entirely their fault.
Na condition make crayfish bend tongue grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Trypant(f): 2:22pm On Jul 21, 2015
ibkgab001:
NIGERIA girls are so classy , picky and so fake They started the war they can't end


Driving faster to my Zimbabwe baby

10 hours behind the wheel


I understand if they want white children! But even the Nigerian men are classy, picky and so fake! The ones that have came to Nigeria living in Germany, I went to see him after chatting online for 2years! Just to go back and neva called agin! Is dat supposed to be my fault? When he knows I have no boyfriend. Look there are ladies every where but guys love flashy tinx, and unfortunately the flashy tinx are the fake ones.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 2:26pm On Jul 21, 2015
Still keep reducing and reducing.

Now the few one percent that's poor, are they single because no one will date them for their lack of money? Yes or no?

Are your females among those that have only pucci to offer the world. yes or no?

Answer the damn question that have been the basis of your rigmarole or limp off.
Say yes to what you've been saying from the beginning of the thread or forever hold your peace.

When you're caught in your uneducated generalizations, you start to wiggle around like worms.
Dragonking:


Please read the article an stop asking silly questions. It is even stated in that article that the World Bank estimates further suggested that the number of poor Nigerians remained at 58 million adding that more than half of the figure are located in the North- east or North- west.. This means that more than half of the 58 million that are poor are from the north, and it is quite under stable since there is total neglect by their leaders in that region.. This leaves you with less than 28million people for the southern part of Nigeria and middle belt out of which the poor include the young children, the elderly, males and females. By the time you do a proper estimation, you will find out that the poverty statistics is no where near what you were shouting and clamoring about.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Trypant(f): 2:30pm On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:
Why won't foreign based guys shy away from them.
When most of them are pompous, unintelligent lasses with low IQs, who think that men are money bags where they are at will to deep their greedy hands into, anytime they like.

There are only few Nigerian ladies that are worthy of marrying and they keep on decreasing daily.

Do you know me in- person? Nope! Many ladies I know are not pompous! Very down to earth more than me self! I am very intelligent, infact guys that come around me get intimidated as far as you are within my level that is degree holder! We are not dumb! Having a 2.1 in degree and 2PGDs in customer service and Ed. Is not a low IQ! Some ladies out there may even be more than me! You guys love the ones that spend their days and weeks plaiting and painting her nails in the name of classy than ladies who have simple makeup and normal life. The bad guys keep making the good ones decreasing everyday!
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by skyfullofstars(f): 2:35pm On Jul 21, 2015
sonofananimal1:
YOU SEE HOW YOU ARE CONTRADICTING YOURSELF!!!

I SWEAR YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING YOURSELF,

Dude, get a psychologist for real, it will help you.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jul 21, 2015
freecocoa:
Lefumumu how far na? You still dey here? Abeg me sef go like follow chop that kola, share give me small you hear?grin
yes ooo i still dey here kampe like uncle sege but i am for everyone and belong to no one like sai baba cheesy.
ok i get one small kola for here so i go just cut am with my teeth and giv u half grin.
*in between*
why u just dey let some of these guys for here dey provoke u nah?.abeg cool down temper oo coz Aristotle quote say after thunder comes rain cheesy
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


Dude, get a psychologist for real, it will help you.
we no get psychologist for naija.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Ugosample(m): 2:39pm On Jul 21, 2015
Trypant:


Do you know me in- person? Nope! Many ladies I know are not pompous! Very down to earth more than me self! I am very intelligent, infact guys that come around me get intimidated as far as you are within my level that is degree holder! We are not dumb! Having a 2.1 in degree and 2PGDs in customer service and Ed. Is not a low IQ! Some ladies out there may even be more than me! You guys love the ones that spend their days and weeks plaiting and painting her nails in the name of classy than ladies who have simple makeup and normal life. The bad guys keep making the good ones decreasing everyday!
This girl seems sensible. I can relate to everything you said.
Some guys here like trash ahead of a good woman, and when trash does what trash know how to do best, those set of guys start crying.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Trypant(f): 2:42pm On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!

You too shut up!

Are you not supposed to take care of a lady? Be it in relationship or marriage. Don't you dream of marrying a rich gal also? Don't you dream of marrying a beautiful intelligent girls? Don't you dream your sisters also get married to the so called rich guys? I didn't go to school just to marry a visionless man! I once dated a guy who has nothing, and I asked him what are his plans for future, and he told me he was okk being a primary school teacher till he dies! Am I supposed to hold on to such man? I have certificate and I would work by God's grace. But let me ask you how much do you have in your account?
If you are asked to give the money to a woman just cause she is gf or wifey would you give all?
How much do you tink you have dat can make a gal rich? There is this adage dat says "your own na own" so my dear shot your trash about dipping hands in pockets when your 100thousand cannot make me rich!
When guys pick their heads down to look for good girls instead of the ones that spend 20hrs painting their nails, the better for them! Am not saying there are no bad girls, what's obtainable in girls are obtainable in men!

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