Jsaviour:
Just saw this now after how many years. @poster, I think life is about choice. People go with what makes them happy and what rocks their boat.

I shake my head for the comments from @Nobody.

Generalisation is a disease that is killing human. Everbody can never be the same in life. That there are bad ladies doesn't make every lady bad. Infact, there are also gold digger men and vice versa.

If you can swear that every lady you've met are same I that your mum or sisters are like what you have concluded Nigerian ladies to be then I will agree with you but aside that, pls don't talk as if you are a judge.

Most times, men don't even know what they want. They see an independent lady; they are threatened, If you are not independent they call you gold digger ( as if they have any gold).

If dangote, Bill gate or zuckeberg are yet to call women gold diggers, then what right do all the broke ass men have to generalize about a whole nation. We know some ladies or most ladies are bunch of disgrace ( I have actually met a lady that said she won't work even though she is graduate- she is waiting for a rich husband to come marry her off) but that doens't warrant such generalization.

No matter how rich you are, just know that some ladies who know what they want in life and their worth will still dump you if you are senseless.
@Nobody, you used a disgusting word saying that with you money, the lady will allow you Bleep her. Well, you can only get like minds with your so called money. A lady has not spit on you and your cursed money before?

@poster, there is nothing wrong in marrying from whereever you deem fit.

Preach it girl..
Its either they are intimidated or come up with cock and bull stories likes not being submissive

duduade:


Preach it girl..
Its either they are intimidated or come up with cock and bull stories likes not being submissive

Actually, it's Nigerian ladies fault somehow, they have made the abroad guys see themselves as gods because of money which some of them don't even have. They jilt and neglect good and loving guys around them thinking abroad guys are better not knowing some are actually struggling, sleeping outside, money miss road with no sense or vision etc. The guys here aren't helping matters too. Their words here on nairaland and other social media, will make you wonder if they dropped from Saturn.

I will burst his bubble so he know not all ladies take bullshit. I can show him proof.
If you are not a wise man with vision, no matter how rich you are, I and other ladies with self awareness will dump your sorry ass. ( intelligence and wisdom is the new sexy)

Men should also try to erase the mentality that they are doing ladies any favour by marrying them. If only they know the importance or worth of a good woman in a man's life. Anyway they ought to have seen a glimpse from their mothers that's if they have one like mine.

@ poster, the men abroad have that mentality because of ugly experiences with Nigerian ladies by few who instead of going for what they need, they went for fake lashes and big butt etc. Now they tell the stories and the others but it gullibly and you know how quick bad and negative news fly. It takes over as if that's the norm ( like the case of news of marraiges today- only negative news as if there are no beautiful home). So long as people keep going for wants and not need, they will keep experiencing burnt fingers.

What matters in all is balance. When a man experience real love from a real woman and a happy family, you wont hear all those grammar from him. It's the single men or the men who brought insect-infested wood to themselves that are cryiing foul.

Don't use your bad choice to judge the beautiful things of life. I love love and I love beautiful things. Those who beleive in the good of the land will eat of the good part.

It's even funny that last last, they will still marry a woman not a man oo and the women are not from Jupiter but from the earth that they generalized as golddiggers, whores and so on.

jerryunit48:
I even saw one who said she is not ready to work only to be a house wife

lmao