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10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 10:36pm On Aug 10, 2015
10 Reasons why serious minded guys should not date any lady in their early twenties.

A man asked "What age group of ladies should i approach if i really want to settle down?"

The answer is not far fetched but before i answer i would like to state emphatically that age is no factor as we have some teenagers who are more matured mentally and psychologically than ladies in their thirties but nevertheless i will advice that any man who really wants to settle down should forget approaching ladies below the age of 25years because most of these ladies are still not sure of what they want in a man.

Majority of ladies below 25 don't even have enough experience to go into marriage and will rather want to still play around in the name of dating and if you check most ladies who marry below the age of 25,you wil be surprised to find out that it was a circumstantial decision as a result of unexpected pregnancy or parental pressures to mention a few.

So the question is..what age group should a man consider if he really wants to settle down and the answer is clear,i will advice you go for ladies of 25years and above and the higher the age the better. WHY?

[b]1.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are matured in mind because most of them are experienced..

2.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.

3. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are financially INDEPENDENT.

4. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her late 20s and early 30s.

5. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have no business with DOUBLE DATING.

6. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.

7. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know what they want in life, unlike d early 20's

8.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have a decent DRESS SENSE.

9. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are COURAGEOUS.

10. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are admirable with heart-melting MANNER which can be a natural virtue or as a result of past experience.[/b]

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by paulperry(m): 10:37pm On Aug 10, 2015
Well said OP











Well...................FTC!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 10:37pm On Aug 10, 2015
Cutehector:
Yea op dats true... Team single till 30

Easy ooo

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Swaggzkid: 10:39pm On Aug 10, 2015
I want to use this medium to beg rain to stop falling in my area.
Bekonu I've got somewhere important to go .


*back to topic*

thumbs-up! Toks2008 Good write-up

Number 6 and 10 tight* from experience

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Cutehector(m): 10:41pm On Aug 10, 2015
Yea op dats true... Team single till 30

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 10:43pm On Aug 10, 2015
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Captainswag225(m): 10:47pm On Aug 10, 2015
ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are the best.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Flashh: 11:00pm On Aug 10, 2015
Yes! But most of them had tasted too many d**ks.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 11:02pm On Aug 10, 2015
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by damilareoye: 11:05pm On Aug 10, 2015
OP, you are on point...

hardly will you see a lady who is not serious minded at this stage except the ones with village matter. grin

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by LaurelP(m): 11:16pm On Aug 10, 2015
Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

16 to 25 still dey learn how to wash their panties!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Mznaett: 11:18pm On Aug 10, 2015
Hmmm,,you're absolutely correct

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 11:22pm On Aug 10, 2015
LaurelP:

16 to 25 still dey learn how to wash their panties!
ehen? You can't be serious shocked

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by sauceTDA(m): 11:23pm On Aug 10, 2015
Well said.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 11:30pm On Aug 10, 2015
damilareoye:
OP, you are on point...

hardly will you see a lady who is not serious minded at this stage except the ones with village matter. grin

lol..serious one

If i hve to get a laddy again na that age gap i go find.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 11:31pm On Aug 10, 2015
Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

I can bet you did not read and comprehend. Puma

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Alezy(m): 11:53pm On Aug 10, 2015
Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason
u might just be wrong.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 12:04am On Aug 11, 2015
Adufetohposh:
smiley
Are you in your late twenties/early thirties? tongue

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by CertifiedFreak(m): 3:37am On Aug 11, 2015
Well ma'am, you should add that most ladies in their mid-late 20's cum early 30's are also desperate to settle down as hell hence they'll do just about anything to win a guy over even all your aforementioned. A lady who's not married in her early 30's needs spiritual cleansing as all your supposed viable points abound in ladies in their early 20's as well.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by boss1310(m): 5:18am On Aug 11, 2015
So you ve never seen a wife in her 40's with kids still behave like she is still in her teens . if you want to marry try and let it be that lady who you both can tolerate each other's faults and still be mature to have a common goal in your marriage life
That's all there is to marriage not the age

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 5:38am On Aug 11, 2015
boss1310:
So you ve never seen a wife in her 40's with kids still behave like she is still in her teens . if you want to marry try and let it be that lady who you both can tolerate each other's faults and still be mature to have a common goal in your marriage life
That's all there is to marriage not the age

You have written nothing different from my original post.Read my first two paragraphs.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 5:44am On Aug 11, 2015
CertifiedFreak:
Well ma'am, you should add that most ladies in their mid-late 20's cum early 30's are also desperate to settle down as hell hence they'll do just about anything to win a guy over even all your aforementioned. A lady who's not married in her early 30's needs spiritual cleansing as all your supposed viable points abound in ladies in their early 20's as well.

My brother the desperation is very welcomed as long as it makes them a better person.

People get better or worse with experience they gather overtime.

I have seen drop dead gorgeous lady who married a man they will never even be an acquaintance with when they were in the younger age s0 its all about experience that made them desperate.

Would you rather love to have a super hot chic who will desperately want you in her late twenties or 30s rather than have same in their early twenties who will tell you to your face that she is either not interested or you are not her type.

For me if you are not above 25 and i ever woo you then a greater part of my subconscious mind will be telling me i just might be wasting my time because even if most of these ladies below 25 try to argue this fact,mthey will always show it in theeir behaviour.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by reddbone(f): 5:50am On Aug 11, 2015
Now I understand why....good point OP

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by boss1310(m): 6:21am On Aug 11, 2015
Toks2008:


You have written nothing different from my original post.Read my first two paragraphs.
Your first two paragraphs might be correct but the headline wasn't. Apart from children and early teens any lady can get married from her twenties even some 19's and still make good wives. It's my fifth year in marriage and am writing from experience, age has nothing to do with it its the compatibility of the couple involved. A lady might be good for a particular husband but bad for another in the case of remarriage. The maturity of the wife not only depends on her the hubby is involved too
This is one of the toughest issue in marriage cos some people are yet to understand how two people living together can make things work as one without pointing accusing finger at the other as the culprit. let me make it simple, maturity in marriage has absolutely nothing to do with age. A lady in her 30's who is promiscuous can still sleep around even as a newly Wed and also act as a kid with all her experience while there are girls who at 17 years decided to only allow a man she will marry be the one that will touch her, and she will dedicate herself to him for the rest of her life no matter what. A woman who dedicate herself to you what other maturity do you want
NOBODY MAKES DECISIONS AND STICK TO IT LIKE WOMEN.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by SPG4U(m): 6:33am On Aug 11, 2015
Well said...but OP...wait I dey cum...no ooo I mean am coming not cum ooo

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by HAZAZEL: 6:54am On Aug 11, 2015
Toks2008, your points are well laid out. Character wise one truly observes maturity and definiteness of purpose in the upper 25 age class of ladies.

However the reason why men go for far younger women is because: pound for pound women age faster than men. No man wants after say 10 years of marriage one can't differentiate between your wife and your mum.


Another angle is that you can't teach an old woman new dance steps. Women in this age grade assume they have seen it all relationship wise and hence are averse to gainful change.


That is my submission.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:00am On Aug 11, 2015
Toks2008:


I can bet you did not read and comprehend. Puma
*Rushes back to read the write up all over again*

Sweetie, what i wrote is not out of context. I guess you are the one who needs to understand my post.

Good morning.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 7:07am On Aug 11, 2015
HAZAZEL:
Toks2008, your points are well laid out. Character wise one truly observes maturity and definiteness of purpose in the upper 25 age class of ladies.

However the reason why men go for far younger women is because: pound for pound women age faster than men. No man wants after say 10 years of marriage one can't differentiate between your wife and your mum.


Another angle is that you can't teach an old woman new dance steps. Women in this age grade assume they have seen it all relationship wise and hence are averse to gainful change.


That is my submission.

Interesting.


Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.

I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.

Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?

i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Toks2008(m): 7:13am On Aug 11, 2015
Beamborla:

*Rushes back to read the write up all over again*

Sweetie, what i wrote is not out of context. I guess you are the one who needs to understand my post.

Good morning.

Noted.

Good morning.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:14am On Aug 11, 2015
Alezy:
u might just be wrong.
how nau
Tell me sweetheart, how?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 7:19am On Aug 11, 2015
Toks2008:


Interesting.


Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.

I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.

Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?

i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down.
Are you kidding me? You meet her when she was 19 and dated for 11 good years shocked

WTF!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Swagk101(m): 7:27am On Aug 11, 2015
Toks2008 spot on!!!Them go still wan flex since age is still on their side,most of 'em are bed-warmers.#MyOpinion
Flashh:
Yes! But most of them had tasted too many d**ks.
Hell yeah...the promiscuity in this era is overwhelming, any nigga who's got game can get down with any biatch.

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