lilspiceyy:

getting married early is not a disadvantage bro she just has to take of sometins from her end dats it!

didnt say dat o. was asking a question. d op did nt get her priorities right to me. before jumping into it lol

afolwalex20:



I never believed until now...
So guys can b this dumb!

A lady seeks for advice ... *scrolls up*,ok! she doesn't no what she needs. And y'all r dropping numbas wanting to b friends (we all know ur mission tho).
First, u don't know if what she said is real.
Maybe she just finished watching a movie, perhaps it happened to her friend ,or she wrote it for fun just to get a topic or hit FP :-

If u want to advice her, spill out ur words here..



I don't even know what to say to dis 1s...

@OP, if what u said there is real, then follow dukeolumde's advice! Trust me it will work

hey dickhead stop quoting me n mind ur business. What wrong have I done? She needs a companion n am soliciting to help...... So free me dickface

jurist21:

The Thunder wey go fire u still dey do press up

hahahahaha.. thunder dey seme boader dey come

Grinch:
hey dickhead stop quoting me n mind ur business. What wrong have I done? She needs a companion n am soliciting to help...... So free me dickface

plssss i am looking for seggilola.....she suppose to be on my bed by now

crystalgem:
Am 25 married with a kid. I nid somebody I don't know if what I nid is a friend or a romantic relationship but I nid somebody. My husband is so insensitive around me, he doesn't know when I dress nice for him or when I have not. He doesn't notice anything about me, it's just so annoying, I feel old already at 25.i can't remember the last time I feel special. I don't want to continue lyk ds passes. Somebody help me

Follow the advice of some reasonable people amongst the people and pray over it. dts wht u nid nw. tanks.

Chloezoe:
why you cursing Obama though?

He has failed Africa as a whole and for the fact that he is a gay shouldn't make him force others into same. He can go to Hell with all his Illuminati Members
and burn to ashes. We Africans' would rather remain d way we are than accept his stupid baits in d name of Foreign Aids (Financial, Food, Drugs, Technology and
Military Equipment) or seek them elsewhere. I thought his victory into d White House was the biggest victory for we Africans and lovers of Democracy all over the
globe, but he proved the world WRONG!!! God Pass Them

ilobasama:
LORD and MASTER you say.......some ladies wud soon eat u up

Only the ones who don't know the Almighty God and the Bible would do that because it's both in the Old and the NT. More emphasis in laid in d NT though.
This is another reason y some marriages fail.. when women or men don't know their roles in d family.

ilobasama:
High 5 dude

High 5 Bro.

oh no,Can't waste my time on you mehn....you need to do your home work.gerrrara here

dukeolumde:


He has failed Africa as a whole and for the fact that he is a gay shouldn't make him force others into same. He can go to Hell with all his Illuminati Members
and burn to ashes. We Africans' would rather remain d way we are than accept his stupid baits in d name of Foreign Aids (Financial, Food, Drugs, Technology and
Military Equipment) or seek them elsewhere. I thought his victory into d White House was the biggest victory for we Africans and lovers of Democracy all over the
globe, but he proved the world WRONG!!! God Pass Them

natasha:
Just passing

with this ur back, I will 'pass' with u to ur final bus stop. lol

lilspiceyy:

These points are important! op at the age of 25 it is still early to go tru this. The issue with some ladies is that when they get married and start giving birth they forget to take good care of themselves. Eg they become overweight, not bothering about making their hair, wearing nice clothes and makeup etc. I would advice you to do what u did dat made him notice and fell in love with you in first place. Eg Start taking care of yourself, keep the house clean(the smell of children's urine and faeces) in the house could be a turn off, wear nice lingerie (seductive ones oooo) make your hair and don't be shy about trying new sex positions with your husband(men actually like dat) I bet your husband will come back to you trust me.

People will start thinking she has done Juju to win his heart back..It works like magic.

Chloezoe:
oh no,Can't waste my time on you mehn....you need to do your home work.gerrrara here

Enjoy..

afolwalex20:



I never believed until now...
So guys can b this dumb!

A lady seeks for advice ... *scrolls up*,ok! she doesn't no what she needs. And y'all r dropping numbas wanting to b friends (we all know ur mission tho).
First, u don't know if what she said is real.
Maybe she just finished watching a movie, perhaps it happened to her friend ,or she wrote it for fun just to get a topic or hit FP :-

If u want to advice her, spill out ur words here..



I don't even know what to say to dis 1s...

@OP, if what u said there is real, then follow dukeolumde's advice! Trust me it will work

Cool

crystalgem:
Am 25 married with a kid. I nid somebody I don't know if what I nid is a friend or a romantic relationship but I nid somebody. My husband is so insensitive around me, he doesn't know when I dress nice for him or when I have not. He doesn't notice anything about me, it's just so annoying, I feel old already at 25.i can't remember the last time I feel special. I don't want to continue lyk ds passes. Somebody help me

You need Jesus!!

dukeolumde:



Since u have spoken to him and there seem to no changes then check the following:

1. How creative are u in d kitchen?? U need to know what and how he prefers to eat.
2. How creative are u in bed? Men love women who give them the much needed styles/attention in terms of love making and taking care of them.
3. How do u coordinate ur home?? Be sure to keep the house in his preferred position at all times.
4. How neat are u in terms of urself and ur dressing?? Men love women who dress the way they love and dislike d dirty and stubborn ones.
5. What's ur relationship with ur inlaws. Treat them like Gold and ur man will always treasure u.
6. Never nag to ur husbands hearing. It drives them away.
7. Leave his phone ALONE. Don't [size=30pt]monitored[/size] him. Even if he is dicking outside, just show him love and attention and u will win him back for good.
8. Make sure u always encourage/pray for him. Don't let him leave any morning without a kiss or short word of prayer on him.
Note:
1. Never bring in another man/outsiders even ur own mother into ur family issue because it will only worsen everything.
2. Men are hypersensitive. Treat ur husband like ur lord and master and u won't regret the response that will come out of these.
Op u can thank me later

Good advice sir you are one of the few who truly want to help this woman.





Oga that tabon though!!!

dukeolumde:


People will start thinking she has done Juju to win his heart back..It works like magic.

Oh yea

crystalgem:
Am 25 married with a kid. I nid somebody I don't know if what I nid is a friend or a romantic relationship but I nid somebody. My husband is so insensitive around me, he doesn't know when I dress nice for him or when I have not. He doesn't notice anything about me, it's just so annoying, I feel old already at 25.i can't remember the last time I feel special. I don't want to continue lyk ds passes. Somebody help me

What are you not telling us? You want a friend or romantic relationship cos your husband is not complimenting your look, right?
I'll advice you to make friends but don't go into romantic relationship with anyone, you can start by making new friends here.

I still don't get why you want your husband to take note of all you put on.

zebronice:
Before marriage there is always love-lust which eventually drive to marriage after marriage the love-lust reduces to either love or indifference. If you are the type your husband use to complain about certain things for over three times and you did not give your attention to it nor consider it . Then you will not get love after marriage but indifference from a nice man but if not nice you get hatred. What you need to do is to pay attention to all your husband donts . Don't do what he doesn't like or have been complaining over and over do want he likes then the love would come from no where to your surprise and you begin to enjoy your husband

This is one of the best advice on this forum. Girls take note of this especially if you know you married or are dating a "quiet" man. You may not know it but this is a major reason why guys start to hate on thier girlfriends/wives an the wife will be wondering what she did. He tells you he doesn't like something but you do it. He tells u again specifically but u still continue. Eventually he keeps quiet but u don't know it is boiling in his heart and can eventually lead to malice.

Very good advice.

KingTom:




Good advice sir you are one of the few who truly want to help this woman.





Oga that tabon though!!!

..My Tab changes my spellings most times and sometimes I maybe in a hurry to submit without carefully going through my Eegessi(English grammar). Thanks anyway. Keep up d good work Bro.

lilspiceyy:

Oh yea

Yep it does. Maybe u can try it on me as an experiment and am guessing d answer already

dukeolumde:



..My Tab changes my spellings most times and sometimes I maybe in a hurry to submit without carefully going through my Eegessi(English grammar). Thanks anyway. Keep up d good work Bro.

dukeolumde:


Yep it does. Maybe u can try it on me as an experiment and am guessing d answer already

Lol....dats for my future husband(wherever he is)

lilspiceyy:

Lol....dats for my future husband(wherever he is)

I think I know what he looks like