C2H5OH:

Right now you are in denial about what you need to do to move past these worries in your mind.  You talk about focusing on the issues as if you did something wrong.  We have all read up on your situation and most of us came to the conclusion that you fell in love with the wrong person.  Unfortunately he was your first true love, so it's hard to get over him, but he won't be your last!  You knew what you wanted and you put in overtime, exhausted all possiblities, tried your hardest to make your relationship work.  He wasn't having any of that.  It's like working with a lazy partner at a job, or working on a team project while in school.  You did all you could but your partner didn't give a shit about the assigned work.

touchmeder:

top up wots with u and this ex of yours? i keep reading stuffs bout ur ex every now and then. is he not an EX?

sha i'm most likely not gona wish anybody happy birthday even if its staring me straight in the face i.e the face book thing. i do what i feel convinced doing and not even the face book remainders makes me obligated to say happy birthday to someone when i dont see the need. well thats just me sha, i never believed in ''the ex is my good friend thing'' . they are not my enemies either they are just well er EX.

Lol, You obviously don't want to know what's going on, and anyways the answer is nothing. NOTHING is going on

Yeah, I understand the thing about wishing people happy birthday only when you want to. It's not a big deal for me, to this date, nobody's annoyed me to the point that I won't wish them happy birthday if I remember.

*Hauwa*:

i thot facebook hi5 myspace are all for lil boys and girls . social ke? with pple you don't know ummm.

am tech crazy but i rather not have those.

Pataki, i dey SA o. you want give me visa?

C2H5OH:

topup,

an addendum

Never make someone a priority when you are merely an option to them.

Good advice, unless the person is suicidal is an exception though